Red Rock Enneagram
At Red Rock Enneagram we use the Enneagram to help you discover your individual path to healing and wholeness, and help you create more space for those you love. Jared Bingham (Enneagram 4) is a Marriage and Family Therapist and Coach. Melissa Englebright (Enneagram 6) is an Enneagram teacher and coach. Email us at redrockenneagram@gmail.com, or follow along on Instagram: @melissaenglebright.
Episodes
38 episodes
The Unfolding
Jared and Melissa discuss what they term the "unfolding" which is getting to the point where you are comfortable showing up as yourself in the world. Getting past living life for validation of others. The idea of "going first" is ex...
The Predator
Melissa and Jared discuss the concept of the predator. When we are small we make deals to keep ourselves safe. As we grow up the predator feeds on the energy of those promises when they don't work in the current context. We ha...
The Masculine/Feminine
Melissa and Jared talk about the polarity between the masculine archetype and the feminine archetype. Compares to the Jungian concept of the Anima and Animus. We must wake up to the one end of the polarity that is operating within u...
The Body
Melissa and Jared speak to the body and how the society socializes us to be disembodied. We look at the body as something to be ignored or shaped to fit a certain image that really makes the body an enemy. How we learn to listen to ...
The Vessel
The Vessel. Pulling from the concepts of alchemy as identified by Carl Jung. When experiences happen, when those images come from soul we need to create a container that we can hold these experiences in. Like a beaker in a che...
The Call
Melissa and Jared explore the call. The soul speaks to us using images, imagination, and dreams. If we pay attention to the images that arise in our consciousness, we will start to gain a deeper understanding of what the soul is try...
The Wound
Melissa and Jared cover the topic of "The Wound." There is a discussion about approaching the wound, verses managing the symptoms that are uncomfortable. With enough experience the Soul acquires a wound that is meant to awaken us. T...
The Story
Jared and Melissa talk about another line of defense that can keep us asleep and that is the story we tell about ourselves. The energy around the "should" may allow us to see lives and stories in a new way, and because we are the narrator...
The Voice
Melissa and Jared talk about the concept of the Inner Critic. A model of soul development is introduced where we go from Essence, to Ego, to Encapsulation and ultimately try to move to Expansion. An earlier version of ourselves crea...
The Awakening
Jared and Melissa share how we are asleep in so many ways. How can we tell if we are asleep and how do we wake up? And why would we want to wake up if life seems to be going okay?
Mistyping and ADHD Thoughts
What keeps us stuck in mistyping?Head Types and ADHD, aka Melissa cries on the internet again. :)Email us at redrockenneagram@gmail.com
Elke Kurtz: "We are Bringing Sixy Back."
"Come on in.. the (enneagram 6) water is perfect."
Part 2: The Gift of Heart (2,3,4) and Head Patterns (5,6,7)
Today is part two of our new trip around the enneagram from a neuroscience perspective. If you missed part one last week, be sure to listen.. we talk all about enneagram 8s, 9s and 1s. Today we are talking all about the h...
The Gift of Body Patterns (Part 1: Types 8,9,1)
What is the gift of your pattern?What does it look like when that pattern becomes rigid? What is the gift of your pattern from a neuroscience perspective? What does it look like when that pattern becomes more flex...
Ipek Serifsoy (Type 3): It's all About Connection
Ipek has been working with the enneagram professionally for over 20 years. She recently had the courage to take a second look at her type. Today she tells us what that process was like for her and breaks down some common misco...
Is Your Pattern a Playground or a Prison?
Neuroscientist Dan Siegel's research and new book (Personality and Wholeness in Therapy) has really rocked our world. Today we begin to share what we're learning!Is your enneagram type nature or nurture?Should we be saying the wor...
BONUS EPISODE: Wicked Enneagram Type Breakdown
You've seen the movie, now let's talk type. :) We want to hear your theories! Email us at redrockenneagram@gmail.com----Stay tuned for new content and podcast rebrand!
A Typing Update (And Another Identity Crisis)
We miss you! We have been taking a deep dive into all things typing, and it is rocking our world. We are learning so much, and can't wait to continue to share more. Today's episode:-Why is finding your type so ...
Melissa‘s Identity Crisis. (Is she really a 7?)
A month ago, I started meeting with a new enneagram coach. She starts all of her clients with a very thorough typing session. So, as standard proceedure, she did a two hour typing session with me. At the end of the session she said...
Kristen Rushton (Type 9): Sturdy Comfort and the Energetic Self
We are back with another Type Interview!Kristen is a Type 9. She has done her Enneagram work, and she has so much wisdom to share!She shares about the following things:Waking up to her anger and how that has helped her c...
"Attention is the Beginning of Devotion” Enneagram Fixations
What is my ego fixation?Why is it so hard to let it go? What will I lose by letting go of my attachment?Today Jared and Melissa answer a question from a listener:"I'm beginning to become aware of my patterns...
Aubrey Chaves (Type 2): Death of the False Self
Today our guest is Aubrey Chaves. Aubrey is an Enneagram 2.Just as a refresher, The Enneagram Two is called the Helper. They need to be needed and liked. They are naturally helpful and accommodating, but struggle with feeli...
Brenna Kimber (Enneagram 6): Seeking a New Kind of Safety
We have another interview for you today with my friend, Brenna Kimber. Brenna is a six on the enneagram. As a quick reminder an Enneagram six is called the loyal skeptic. They are responsible, group minded, and very lo...
Faith Crisis and the Enneagram
Melissa here. As I’ve been working as a coach, I’ve noticed a lot of people struggling with their faith. Some people experience this as a crisis, others are experiencing new questions or doubts, others have family members who...
Lindsay Alder (Enneagram 4): The gift of being acquainted with sorrow.
Today we’re talking to my dear friend, Lindsay Alder! Lindsay is a 4 on the Enneagram, and today she’s sharing what’s it is like to be deep diving in that rich emotional world of an enneagram 4. She talks about how rel...