The REALationship Method
The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!
The REALationship Method
The Value of Patience and Self-Discovery Before Finding Your Person with Lucy
Use Left/Right to seek, Home/End to jump to start or end. Hold shift to jump forward or backward.
Chris and Lucy explore the complexities of modern relationships and the value of self-improvement before diving into dating. They share personal experiences about finding authentic connections in a digital world where genuine interactions have become increasingly rare.
• Lucy discusses starting her podcast and the power of manifesting goals
• The importance of enjoying in-person conversations instead of being constantly attached to phones
• How people reveal their true character during moments of conflict or stress
• Finding value in intellectual connection beyond physical attraction
• The evolution of relationship priorities as we mature and grow
• Accountability in relationships and calling out friends who don't act on their goals
• Views on dating people with children and different parenting approaches
• What separates their podcasts from others in the Hawaiian podcast landscape
• Finding comfort in being single while focusing on personal growth
Follow Lucy on Instagram @lucyinthegymwithweights and check out Lucy's Paradise Podcast.
Podcast Introduction and Guest Welcome
Speaker 1and we're recording five, four, three, two, one. Welcome back to another episode of the relationship method podcast. I'm chris, and today I have a special guest. Today, um, she's a fitness wellness coach she owns well, she hosts her own podcast in the hawaiian islands. Here here, um, let's give a round of applause for motherfucking lucy yay what's up y'all hey.
Speaker 2What's up girl, hey how you doing, doing good, doing good, good yeah, um.
Speaker 1So before we start, um, how did I get the yes from Lucy to come on this hoe?
Speaker 2To come on mine To come on mine.
Speaker 1Yeah, how did I get this?
Speaker 2yes, you kept popping up on my feed, weirdly enough, I think it's because I was doing podcast, Hawaii podcast research.
Speaker 1Uh-huh.
Speaker 2And then, like I would see these reels or whatever, Shut your ass. Ass for real. And I'm like yo, this dude's cool. I mean anytime, um, I run into any other filipinos anyway, like we're automatically cool but yeah I was like, oh, I just liked, you know some of the topics and you seem like you had a good personality, you know what I mean. So I was like, dude, come through, you know, and I appreciate you coming on that.
Speaker 1Oh, I appreciate you inviting me.
Speaker 2One of my favorites.
Speaker 1Oh, were, oh, thank you. Thank you, this is going to be one of my faves. Yay, because you and I have been chopping it up and stuff and dude, yeah, listen to her stuff. What is it called?
Speaker 2It is called Lucy's Paradise Podcast.
Speaker 1Lucy's Paradise Podcast.
Speaker 2So let paradise podcast. So let me ask you uh, how did you start that?
Speaker 1bitch, I had the idea for it.
Speaker 2It's so funny because they asked me this on every podcast of course, I had the podcast and I had about and you know what you're like. Oh yeah, I kind of want to, I kind of have this dream or this goal or whatever, but, um, I kind of was pre-planning it for like two years and I I still have the journal that I wrote a lot of stuff in and I actually like physically wrote in there like guests. I wanted, yeah, um, specific things like that and I'm a huge believer in manifesting. But it's crazy, even if I try to be skeptical about that, like looking back at that journal and being like holy shit, like like a lot of the stuff I wrote in there has like happened, you know yeah um, and I just I, you know, I really wanted to do it, I, I, I talking's fun I never shut the hell up.
Speaker 1It's therapeutic as well.
Speaker 2Yeah, talking to other people, uh, with like related problems or even like related topics, you know yeah, yeah, and I like to be informed and I and I like to have conversations with people.
Speaker 1Oh, facts.
Speaker 2Yeah, so there were so many things about it that I liked. I'm not really like super into like the whole camera and attention part of it.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2But again, in order to get like certain messages out there, like you kind of have to like get to a place where you're growing, you know.
Speaker 1This is true. This is true.
Speaker 2So when I lived in Los Angeles that's kind of a reason why I wanted to leave is I didn't like how obsessed everybody was with being famous, so it was not about creating anymore, it was just about being famous, and I liked the creating. I'd be stoked to be in a music video or whatever, because I get to give my ideas and create, but as soon as you suck that fun away, I don't give a fuck about being famous.
Speaker 2You know what I mean so it's like that shit was annoying, like, and so I was like dude, this shit's not for me. So there was a time I mean I was doing commercials and like movies and shit.
Speaker 1No, I got a celebrity over here.
Speaker 2That's not what I'm saying, but that's what I'm saying I mean I was in um chris brown's music video paradise with benny benassi and chris brown I'm gonna look for your ass that was probably one of the coolest things I did but, again. You can't even see me in that fucking video. You know what I mean, so it's like yeah, I have like the background pictures of me in it.
Speaker 2Yeah, yeah picture of me and benny benassi, but it's like I just have the story really you know yeah but I had a lot of really cool experiences like that, um, but yeah, I just I it's enjoyable, I love it, I I keep loving it every time I do a podcast or people invite me on theirs, and so yeah, it's, it's a good time I'm the same way.
Speaker 1Uh, I find it more therapeutic to just talking to people instead of like talking to. I like talking to strangers because there's no bias in it. You know I'm saying you know, yeah, are you the?
Speaker 2type that, like if you go to the dmv or whatever, like you'll try to make friends because, like I, I purposely have been trying to do that now uh-huh and like to avoid being on my phone. Right, because these are the opportunities that, like nowadays, like people are so on their phone I realize that, like we're at the bus stop or whatever, just I'm giving random examples.
Speaker 2I don't actually take the bus, but um, but um. I'm just saying like now time. Or like in line at the grocery store, right, yeah, as an example, we don't talk to anyone anymore. Like you don't, you really don't change because we're so obsessed with our phones and social media. So I've been purposely like, okay, I'm gonna like talk to this old lady, you know what I mean or I'm yeah like make a friend here at the grocery store.
Speaker 2So it actually like last night, for example, I met this girl that works in my building on like a different floor, and so you know what I'm saying. Like that, otherwise, if I were on my phone I would have totally not even engaged ah person you know so anyway, I've been trying to do that more really more aware in those, because you're supposed to be bored and what the phone has taken away is our ability to be bored.
Speaker 2You can't ever be bored anymore as soon as you are about to be bored, you grab your phone.
Starting a Podcast Journey
Speaker 1You know what I'm saying? It's like you're supposed to be bored okay, um, to answer your question, uh, I try to be friends with the, the person behind the desk, so I'll be trying to chop it up with him or her trying to get a discount.
Speaker 1I am oh my gosh, dude, it's an arm and a leg out here especially like to register your vehicle, especially you're not in the military anymore. Oh my gosh, it's like at least four or five bands and I'm like, oh no, I think I have to pay like 700 for for it $700?.
Speaker 2Yeah, it's a whole. I don't even want to get into it, but it's a whole thing. Yeah, I have the tights on.
Speaker 1So, yeah, I do that. And then at the grocery store I just listen to music. But when I'm waiting in line, the main topic in the line is like God damn, what's up with this person in front of me, why is he or she taking so long? And then we just go into this little rant. But yeah, that's how I start my conversations in a grocery store like motherfucker, hurry up. No, dude, exactly, I don't say motherfucker, but I'm like auntie, what's up, and that's it. You know, I don't.
Speaker 2I could be an asshole, but I'm not trying to get my ass beat once I step out of a safe way, but I'm not trying to get my ass beat once I step out of a safe way so I try to be super careful, but with a little toad yeah, apostrophe toad you know, interesting, interesting, super interesting yeah, one time I was recently I was at the grocery store and this old lady started paying with a check and I was like what I have not seen, that I haven't?
Speaker 1seen that in a long time. Either A check.
Speaker 2But, yeah, I had to.
Speaker 1You should have took a picture. I had to gain my internal patience. Really, how long were you in line for this check transaction?
Speaker 2I'm not going to lie. She was pretty quick at check writing. She's obviously a veteran check writer, so it wasn't that bad, but I was just shocked because I'm so used to everyone using their tap or their card or whatever but it wasn't that bad. It was only like a few minutes, so it was okay. But, um, I was just like dang, is this gonna take a long time?
Speaker 1but it actually didn't oh, okay, go ahead, auntie yeah yeah, you talked about tapping the card. I saw this thing. I was tiktok um that they'd be scamming people with with the, with the tap. You know, like uh at the atm, not the atm machine, but you know those machines at the tellers when you're at a grocery store or whatnot where you could slide it in information. Yeah, I've seen that in europe my identity.
Speaker 2My identity gets stolen all the time, but my identity has gotten stolen when I went to Europe and I only went to one ATM. I didn't even buy anything there. I mostly had cash, but I had to because it was like towards the ending of the trip. And I was like fuck, we are going to do stuff like off of our cruise ship. And my brother was like, oh, you should grab some cash. And I was like, oh damn, I mean, I don't, I don't live there.
Speaker 2So I don't know what's sketchy or not, you know but I went to one atm and they stole your shit, so I was back in california and I woke up the next day and I well I think I went to go get gas yeah and like my car didn't work and I was like wait, what the fuck? Yeah and yeah they, they made like a huge purchase at some like sporting store in europe in europe, like that day.
Speaker 2So I was like but like my bank knew I wasn't in europe, so when I went to the bank it was like it was cool I could get it like fixed real quick oh my god, money and they yeah they print you out a debit card but or whatever. But the bank I went to initially they're like oh, our pinner, our like debit card machines broken. So I had to drive. I had no gas. I had to drive to another branch like farther away yeah because their print machine. It was a nightmare.
Speaker 1I was like this is the worst day ever but like really that shit, I would uh complaint and um wrote a letter. Yeah, definitely, I was chill. I was chill. I try to be like good for you, good for you, try not to like lose my shit in situations like that you stressful.
Speaker 2I just like my car got towed yesterday. I was like my truck, I was just like whatever.
Speaker 1Were you parked somewhere that you were, I was parked illegally. Okay, see, yeah, see man.
Speaker 2It's still messed up, though, because, like my apartment building doesn't have parking spaces for everybody. Yeah, and I get off work three in the morning so I'm like there's no parking. What am I supposed to do? Yeah so, like last night, I just stayed up till like six until my neighbor went to work and I parked my car there oh, for real.
Speaker 1So, uh, where'd you party? Like in a red or in someone else's stall?
Speaker 2they let you park in the fire lane, which is basically on the street uh-huh um, they let you park there, but you have to move it by seven. So it's like if I get off work at 3 in the morning.
Speaker 1It's not going to get moved at 7, yeah.
Speaker 2What am I going to like? Am I really going to do that? Yeah, yeah, I just slept through my alarms Like I had alarms at everything.
Speaker 1Yeah, and I'm like bruh so.
Speaker 2It's a lot better though.
Speaker 1I don't think I've never gotten it towed the way you just did well, one time I got total.
Speaker 2I was at the club did you park illegally no, I was parked legally, but I guess you're not supposed to park at alamoana. I was at district and my friends like yo you're caught your truck's gone.
Speaker 2I think they just towed it and I was like I called them and I'm like yo, your car, your truck's gone. I think they just towed it and I was like I called them and I'm like yo, like you know how much is it? Blah, blah. They're like oh, we don't charge you at another day fee until tomorrow, because it was already like 2 am yeah so they're like technically you have until like tomorrow at 2 am, until the charges go up yeah okay, bet I hung up the phone.
Speaker 1I'm like let's keep partying like yeah, did you get it that day? I got it later.
Speaker 2But I was like, yeah, it's not worried about it right now, like what?
Speaker 1if you don't want me asking how much was that?
Speaker 2hoe, I mean compared to california, it was nothing okay, okay probably what I would have spent at the club. So I was like oh, okay, like that's it all, right, bye and I like hung up like yeah, I was like like I think it was like a couple hundred.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 2Yeah, but it's, yeah, it's. I also realized that when I went there, I was like, really I was like I would have paid y'all like 150 bucks to not tow my shit, and it rep yeah, and then like, yeah, it's, they're assholes, so like they'll probably charge you every 30 minutes or something crazy shit like that, like just price gouging oh, it's insane, but it's my apartment building is totally a scam.
Speaker 2So like the fact that my truck even got towed is like kind of fucked up for real yeah, technically you're not even supposed to park in a fire lane yeah, at all yeah so like the fact that they let us do that, but then are like oh, but at, but at seven you got to move it. Like that doesn't make any fucking sense.
Speaker 1What part of the island do you live? Is your apartment or is your complex?
Speaker 2Huh, I live in Salt Lake.
Speaker 1Is it gated? Yeah, gated. Does it have its own swimming pool and all like workout?
Speaker 2Oh, oh bougie.
Speaker 1No bougie, because I like gated communities yeah, sometimes gated communities don't stop the people, though I have enough of them here.
Speaker 2I don't think yeah, yeah facts. We need, we need. I don't know that's not what we need, but yeah, I just need to buy a house. That's, that's that's a loan yeah, yeah, that's where I'm at hey, va loan I'm remembering all these stresses and I'm like just just get to that uh va loan wants to donate money for me to buy a house do it.
Speaker 1Hey, um, I'll drop her, uh her at start a gofundme page. This and the third and all this bullshit. Uh, lucy, are you um taking, single, taking, mingling yeah, you want me to be on your relationship single method podcast and not talking about this shit horrible ad relationships um.
Speaker 2I'm single okay okay, okay, okay I've been single since last summer last summer, so that not long yeah, it's just a what several months yeah oh was it?
Speaker 1was it a good or bad breakup, or was it mutual umual?
Genuine Connections in a Phone-Obsessed World
Speaker 2That one's tough because it wasn't mutual, but I don't really want to talk about her too much. Yeah don't, which, by the way, she's already accused me of talking to her on past podcasts, which is not true. I've never once talked about her.
Speaker 1She did not talk to you and if you listen to this right now, she ain't talking to you, Mitch.
Speaker 2I have never talked about her on a podcast yeah definitely talked about past relationships yeah that was the one I stayed away from, but it wasn't mutual um, but she did break up with me a couple times and then it's one of them like I'll go into it a little bit. She did like accuse me of cheating because of like something her friend said and I was like bro, are you serious?
Speaker 1he said, she said type of situation. Yeah, like I'm not.
Speaker 2Those are stupid I'm not that dumb, yeah. Yeah, I was also accused um not to like talk about drama, but I was also fucking do it. This is a safe place, safe place I was also accused of because, like, I brought my friend around and like that's someone they suspected that like I was cheating with and I like, why would I bring her around, your friend?
Speaker 1Guy or girl.
Speaker 2It's a girl, but I was like I would be a horrible cheater if I brought her around Like la la la, this is my friend, I'm cheating on you with.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2Like what? And then I guess there were conversations we had that were not what we had and I was like like I don't know what you guys thought you heard, but 100, not true, my friend that particular friend is actually married with kids, uh-huh, and I was like I was like what, oh at least pick one of my gay friends.
Speaker 1You know like damn so I mean, did she have a little bit did?
Speaker 2she have a little crush on me maybe, but is that my problem?
Speaker 1no, no, it's not. You can't control another person's feelings and emotions.
Speaker 2My bottom line is I try to have genuine values when it comes to relationships. It's not that I've never like cheated in the past, but I know, like that's not, who I am.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2And I mean I can't even tell a white lie without having like immense guilt. So, like me, being a cheater would not, I would not be able to live with myself. You know what I mean. Yeah, yeah, yeah guilt. So like, for me, being a cheater would not, I would not be able to live with myself.
Speaker 2You know what I mean yeah, yeah, yeah um, I try to have authentic relationships and, yeah, I don't, I don't have one right now, but huh, yeah, if you know, if you have a friend, that's um, not I would say, like sweet kind not a nut job not drama, yeah, yeah, but like every girl is fucking crazy and I feel like.
Speaker 1Is this true? Like in your, let's say, experience? What's the political in your sex pool?
Speaker 2In my community.
Speaker 1Yeah, in your community, what is the typical female that you want or that you look for or that you're into?
Speaker 2Okay, well, that's a lot.
Speaker 1Is it a lot? Oh, give me five.
Speaker 2No, no, no, no no.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 2I'm just because the wording to me is everything and I'm not really looking for anything.
Speaker 1Okay.
Speaker 2Like. I'm not actively like. I'm not on any social media apps.
Speaker 1Atta girl.
Speaker 2So like anything, okay, like I'm not actively, like I'm not on any social media apps at a girl, so like you won't even be able to find me on any of those. Not that I, not that. Um, those don't necessarily work, um that's, I think. Like in this phase of my life, it's like I'd rather just meet somebody organically or like through a friend or like that shit when I'm out somewhere.
Speaker 2So I I nixed the whole dating app thing. Now will I go on a dating app, maybe in the future, maybe, um, right now, no, right now, like um. Like I said, I'm not actively looking, so I'm not gonna like go out to the club and my mission isn't to like go meet get booty yeah, like no, I definitely, and like we talked about that before yes, we did.
Speaker 2I just think that, like, your intention matters, and if you go out with the intention of like just getting laid like, you're not necessarily gonna find like like a really solid connection. You know what I mean. Yeah, I think like exchanging energy with somebody is like is super valuable, and like I don't I don't take it lightly as I I might have in the past I don't think like now, at this maturity level that I am at now in my life, I I'm not just like willy-nilly with stuff like that. Like, um, I'd rather be intimate with somebody that I'm in like a serious relationship with, and to me I think it means more.
Speaker 1You know what I mean yes like yeah I like your way of thinking because me and the boys and some females in this little circle that I'll be talking to, uh, we talked about how uh people my age now we're not trying to bang anything, we're just trying to find a connection or like, uh, they'd rather I don't like. The intellectual conversations are way more important than just sex. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2Well, there's a lot of different elements to relationships.
Speaker 1Yeah, yeah, but I think and.
Speaker 2I think people prioritize them, you know, in their own way.
Speaker 1Yeah, yeah so some people.
Speaker 2that is important, that's one thing they care about, so they do want to go out and get laid and that's all they care about. I'm not that person. I'm just at a different like. I want to find somebody that's like ambitious and like somebody who wants to like build a similar life that I want to build.
Speaker 1You know what?
Speaker 2I mean, and so it doesn't make sense for me to like just go and hook up with people, because the people that are doing that are obviously not the people that think like me. Yeah right, those are going to be the people that are like focused on their self-care, do maybe like in the gym all the time or whatever like no, knock on them though.
Speaker 2No, no, no, no no, I mean, if you want to go have your whole stage or whatever, like I think age appropriate is also. It's a thing thing, right, like after I got divorced for sure I was a hoe. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1Of course we all go through that yeah.
Speaker 2And I think to some level it's good because you find out what does not work for you.
Speaker 2And that behavior doesn't work for me and I don't like to live that way, and so I just try to do things that I'm going to be proud of. You know what I mean? Uh, try to do things that I'm going to be proud of. You know what I mean? Uh-huh and yeah. So also, I'm trying to be the best version of myself for whoever I find you know what I mean Out there. Oh, that's good. I'm really focused on like myself and like self-care and like stuff like that, and that's what I spend a lot of my energy on.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2And like I'm not looking because I'm not actively looking. Yeah, I'm focused more on the internal myself so that I can attract something that aligns.
Speaker 1so oh great, let me ask you this then have you ever had one of these moments where you, uh, hold on? It was a question too. I can't believe I liked her or thought she was cute, moment like, oh, oh man, she's hot, or yeah, she's kind of cute, but then along the lines you're like, damn, why did I ever like her? She's not even that cute anymore. Has that ever?
Speaker 2happened to you For sure, and I think you know people get so obsessed with physical or outward like beauty, but you have to remember that. Like. So I've read this book and, um, it's really good shit. I'm like gonna space on what the name of it is oh, girl, you read, I'm just playing I read a lot. Yeah, I'm like fucking nerd it's okay.
Speaker 2It's okay, I'm a geek, I'm trying to think oh, what is it called? It's called, oh, it's called deeper dating. The author is is this gay guy who's actually has a PhD? But it was really interesting. I didn't realize that reading the book and then I was like, oh my God, like crazy, like we should go out. But, um, it was a really interesting book and in this book they talk about you know, and and, and I'm not going to like quote it directly or anything like that, but basically the theme of it is that looks fade away. So it it teaches you how to approach dating in a different way because, um, which is good and bad, but people have internal, you know, beauty on the inside, where, like their personality, makes sense.
Speaker 2Cause there's a lot of girls I dated where I might not have initially thought they were attractive.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2But then, after like talking to them and like learning about their life or like seeing like them with their friends, I started to like them more. Uh-huh, you know what I mean. And this one girl that I recently was seeing, um, I, I went to one of her comedy shows and then that's when I was like, oh my god, I like her because I, I was like I like the way her brain works comedy show that's smart have I been to one of these comedy shows and watched her on stage yeah
Speaker 1oh, I think I know who it is. I'm not gonna say it on air, but I think I know. Okay, oh, okay, um, this happened to me years, years back, where I thought like a female was like super pretty and she had the intellectual mind too, right, right, but then we started working together and then she got pissy all of a sudden, right, and I was like, oh my gosh, I can't believe I thought you were cute in that type of way and I was like, oh, I'm done, she became super ugly.
Speaker 2This is where, like what I said earlier about every girl's crazy, so it's like hear me out. Every girl is, has a crazy to an extent yeah right. So what happens is you, you find a girl or whatever, and like you, you figure out what, what her crazy level is, and some people are totally manageable and some people not, right so but I think, and but that's everybody yeah it's kind of like the whole toxic thing, like everyone's obsessed with these fucking ism words that they learn from from like the internet.
Speaker 1Name me one. I don't think I'm following.
Speaker 2Like narcissist, like everyone wants to fucking use that word. Oh, narcissist, yeah, I hear that a lot. You're narcissistic or toxic.
Speaker 1You're narcissistic.
Speaker 2Yeah, you toxic, yeah I hear that shit a lot. That one is more annoying because people think that they can diagnose other people and I'm like, shut the fuck up. You don't even know anything about narcissism, but anyway, I'm just saying where was I going with that?
Speaker 1I really don't know. I'm just like I'll play Angin it up girl.
Speaker 2That's my belief anyway, that everyone has a certain level of crazy. It's not like oh, are you crazy? No, like, ok, if I literally like did the worst things I could do to you, like take, you know, whatever matters to you in life, and let's just say I took all of that away, I did that. Like yeah you would feel some level of like upset.
Speaker 1Yeah, definitely yeah.
Speaker 2Or you went to a bar and you're like drinking or whatever, and somebody just gets in your face Like you're going to get a level of right. That's my point. Everybody has the level to an extent. Now girls or people that have gone through traumas in their life, they have it more right. So there are different ways of crazy. I guess right, like when you're like, oh yeah, this girl is toxic or whatever they can be, I don't know if it's worse they could be like extrovertedly expressing that toxicity right. Or they like they're just like shitty in relationships, maybe they ignore you or whatever. And then you have the opposite where, like, people retreat Because people they react differently to traumas okay, right, yeah, you go into a fight or flight.
Speaker 2Um, so it's just. I think basically my point is when you, you don't know a lot about somebody, right, you get to know them, that's great. Oh yeah, my life, oh yeah, this is my family. Blah, blah, blah. This is all. That's all bs. What you really, when you really learn about somebody, is when you go through shit with them yeah, so when something bad happens to them. Right, you see how they interact with those people yeah when their best friend and them are fighting.
Speaker 2You see how they deal with those conflicts. That's where you really learn somebody. When there's moments of conflict, how does this person act under pressure? How does this person act during a conflict?
Dating Dealbreakers and Relationship Growth
Speaker 2because if you're gonna do life with them, you have to do life with how they react to conflict and how they react to traumatic things that happen to them well, fucking said, lucy yeah so if you are dating a person and they cannot react in a way that's in a team effort, right, like something bad happened and they retreat or they don't communicate with you, like that's how they're gonna deal with every problem that you have in your relationship, oh, you cut them loose so you just, you just have to figure out what will work for you. Uh-huh, and that is one of the most important elements you gotta figure out what works for you first uh-huh before I can even go and look for someone who matches up to that yeah, yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 2why a lot of my focus is on me, because if I can figure out what will work for me, it's really easy to. Then, when I go into the dating world, oh this is how you deal with that, that's not gonna work for me. Because I want to be in a relationship with somebody that understands the teamwork aspect of being a successful team, you know, and it's also really hard to date me and be a loser. I want someone who pushes me. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1Mean, yeah, I like that, I want that you push me and you make me better in these ways. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2So that's what I like.
Speaker 1So let me ask you, if you're in the let's say, hypothetically speaking, you're in a relationship right now, right, and it got to the point where this person isn't pushing you anymore to be better.
Speaker 2Are you going to drop her or a conversation will start? Yeah, I mean I think. Yeah, definitely a conversation, I mean okay you'll also kind of assess, like how much this person means to you, um, but I mean people also go through different things in life you know, life has ups and downs and sometimes in a relationship and I've learned this from being married is sometimes you're at 80 and they're at 20, or sometimes they're at 20 and you got to be that other other percentage for them yo fuck that there's also that too.
Speaker 2Uh-huh, I'm not saying like, I'm not saying to allow it to be a habit because, once it becomes a habit, it starts becoming who they are yeah right, so you got to be careful of that. I'm just talking about the small instances where, like something maybe happened in their life the parent or something like that. That's what I'm talking about oh, okay, okay, okay, those specific short lulls now.
Speaker 2If you start now, if it starts being a pattern, like I dated a girl who always talked about working out and getting in shape and going to the gym but never once went into my gym in my apartment building, I was like, oh yeah, I have a gym downstairs. Like go go, never once after a while yeah after a while, that shit's gonna annoy the shit out of me bro, let me tell you, this happens to me all the time.
Speaker 1Uh, I'm not gonna say, but uh, people that I talked to would say, oh, I want to get, um, healthier, I want to get fitted Right. And I'm like, okay, you know what to do, you don't need me to like egg it on you, right? So I would you know, give them a start eating healthy, go to the gym, even take a walk, fuck the gym. Go for a daily eating healthy. Go to the gym, even take a walk, fuck the gym. Go for a daily walk. This and the third, and I still see the same person complaining and not moving. So I, I totally understand where you're coming from with what you just said and it hits home because I'm like, oh, my god, and sometimes you know what, no, it's happened to me right now. It's like I don't even say anything.
Speaker 2It's like, oh, I feel fat, okay, this is the thing, though Like, and not with everybody. You have this responsibility, but with my friends and if you're in my close um, my close circle of friends, you know this about me I will call you out because I love and care about you. I will be like, hey, blah, blah, blah. You know, you've talked about this goal of yours for six months now and I haven't seen you do anything. Even my my one friend, tyler, that I just had on my podcast. He calls me all the time when he's like, oh, I haven't been to the gym get your ass out.
Speaker 1What are?
Speaker 2you gonna do to change it though oh, I think being a really good friend is giving your friends those accountability now, not not all relationships you're going to do at that level.
Speaker 1Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2You can't be a coworker, that's just like bitching and you're like okay, yeah.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2Right, but you're doing a disservice by not calling them out. You should be like, bro, you've been talking about this for seven months. Get your ass in the gym, listen to motivational podcasts from whoever's going to inspire you yeah, whoever's gonna inspire you? Yeah, just do do something. Do a little bit, you know. Find a new hobby, even if it's a hike or something.
Speaker 1Girl, I like the way you speak because my ass would be like look here, bitch, you get the fuck up like we have.
Speaker 2We, I think we have some responsibility to push each other yeah better you know what I mean like why is this, you know like? Have you thought about that? Why is this person in your sphere of influence? Why did god put you next to that person? And that person's always talking to you for you to ignore him oh, that hits.
Speaker 1Wow. Wait, were you asking me, or is this?
Speaker 2I want you to think about that, oh no, no, I, I just did.
Speaker 1I was like god damn that shit, that shit was horror, that's, that's a fucking bar yeah, oh my, I'm just thinking of like the greater purpose yeah, yeah, yeah you.
Speaker 2You might have you like you being in that moment with this person could have been like something bigger than you think, right? I mean, maybe I don't know I I I'm just a believer of like everything's a test uh-huh so I just I'm like everything, everything's a test it is if someone's gonna come to me with something I'm like all right, this is a test, like.
Speaker 1I'm gonna treat it like, like such god doesn't give its toughest uh assignments to its weakest soldiers. I don't know if I botched that hoe, but it sounded good in my head, yeah holly, the setback, it's the comeback.
Speaker 2Yeah, there it is there.
Speaker 1It is like saying close let me ask you uh, this is from uh, from a follower can you date someone with kids?
Speaker 2yeah, I fucking love kids. I'm okay, first of all, I'm a kid okay, okay okay, okay, like my one friend, harmony iony, I'm like yo let's, let's. I want to go to Dave and Buster's bring your son Like I love kids. I don't. I mean that's not a bad thing. Yeah, you know, I don't, I guess. I guess some people would see it as like a baggage or whatever. Me not so much. I mean, kids are miracles, you know, and they're like the future generation. So I love kids. Yeah, yeah, not a big deal.
Speaker 1I like your answer. I think young me would be like hell. No.
Speaker 2Older me now is like yeah, I like to see how people discipline their kids and how they interact with their kids.
Speaker 1Are you talking about like the actual parent or the because?
Speaker 2you learn a lot about. Somebody right like this is the person I'm going to be a parent now with maybe in the future. So how do they discipline their kid or how do they treat their kid?
Speaker 1oh, I'm saying I treat them like real adults. Well, you know what? Not to an extent, but I do. I still do give like the ass whoopings, but it only takes, takes one like one good ass whooping and then like they're straight, yeah, yeah I don't think I would spank my kid.
Speaker 2I'm not against it why? I'm not against it, but, um, I think I would challenge my kid to think about things you know, and I mean that would probably be like my last resort, like I don't want my kid to be a fucking fugitive.
Speaker 1You know what I mean he won't, he or she won't. You just got to give him like a good whooping, yeah, yeah, just like one time it's culture. It's not abuse right yeah, I, yeah, I.
Speaker 2I just um, I'm just saying it wouldn't be like my, the first, my first thought, you know what I mean. There's other things you can do, like um, there are like in the military right, like it has to match um the crime has so much the punishment. Yeah, that type shit there are other ways that you can punish kids that are. They'll get the point across like take their electronics away. You can't. You know what I mean like making them do other things.
Speaker 2My mom used to make me read the dictionary and I was like what the fuck?
Speaker 1but look at you now. You have a mass abundance of words that come out of your mouth, that type shit. My biggest, I guess, punishment for my teens was taking their door away. That was the big one. I had to, because they're too old for me to spank and hit or whatever. They found ways to go around going on the internet because I took their electronics away, so they found ways to get away, uh, to go around, um, going on the internet because I took their electronics away, so they found other ways. So the best hackers, yeah right. So the best thing that I had like up my sleeve was take their privacy. And what better way to take their privacy away is take their bedroom door. So when I walk I'm like, oh yep, I see you, dog, the only privacy they're gonna get is like in the bathroom. But other than that boy, they're little brothers and sisters coming in the room running amok. I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 2Again, I'm not a parent so I have opinions that are not based on using them in actual life. Besides my nephews, my nephews are incredible human beings, so smart. One of my nephews is working to go to the air force academy hey, that's my other nephew. He's around the same age. He's looking at, um, you know, an rltc scholarship, something like that, and um, you know, I, I just I try to encourage them and just be like I'm going to support whatever decision you do.
Speaker 1You know, or you choose yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.
Speaker 2But I'm so proud of them. My nephew just got his Billy Mitchell Award in the Civil Air Patrol.
Speaker 1What's that?
Accountability in Friendships and Dating
Speaker 2The Civil Air Patrol is an auxiliary for the Air Force, so they do like search and rescue missions.
Speaker 1And.
Speaker 2I actually did that when I was younger and I got my Amelia Earhart Award, which is cadet captain. So my nephew's a couple of promotions away from cadet captain, and so it's to me, it's to see him like kind of following my footsteps in a way, and right now he's like training up for the Air Force Academy, so I'm like sending him workouts and stuff and he's trying them out, but my nephews are incredible and they're like incredibly smart.
Speaker 1Yeah.
Speaker 2Super athletic and I'm just really proud of all of them my other just got his finance license and um has like a scholarship doing finance right now and he's doing incredible.
Speaker 1Oh, I'm super proud of my nephew so I think I would be a pretty decent parent, because my I mean, I don't parent my nephews, but I've been involved, very involved, in their lives yeah um well, they're like my pride and joys, you know you know what, down the future, we will see if, if it ever fucking happens, I would like an update and be like Lucy nope, nope, nope. I went to my friend's house. I would have been on that ass.
Speaker 2Her baby had his first steps with me.
Speaker 1Oh really.
Speaker 2Because I was like training him. I'm like yo.
Speaker 1I bet you the mom's like super jelly, I was like practicing, and then I had my, my, um, my necklace.
Speaker 2yeah, it was like dangling, so he or she was trying to. I was trying to get it, yeah, yeah he had his first steps and now he's walking all over the place oh, you can't stop that shit.
Speaker 1When that happens, you can't stop that hell. No, here's another question from a person. What so this person? He listens, he, it's a he. He listens to your podcast and he listens to to mine. So he wants to know what separates our podcast from the other podcasts on the island. So this is a local boy. Yeah, what separates us from the other ones? Well, I think, what do you think?
Speaker 2clearly a really clear line is that you talk about relationship stuff a lot more my podcast. It's a lot more open. It's a little more interview style slash anything political that involves Hawaii. I don't think you really talk much about political shit.
Speaker 1No, fuck, no, I'm on their head if I ever talk about that shit.
Speaker 2I think that's how we differ, uh-huh like mainly, I think. But thank you so much for for watching. I really, really appreciate yeah dead ass dope that he's a. Uh. He watches both of ours, so right yeah, I think it's.
Speaker 1What makes us different is because, um, a lot of the podcasts here and I'm not knocking on them, but they talk about more the Hawaiian culture. You hear it everywhere and I think with ours, your podcast, I haven't came across the Hawaiian culture you talk about. You know, you had what's that? What's that? What's that? What's that? Motherfucker, a tiger, joe Exotic yeah, joe Exotic. You had Harold on your shit and I wasn't even talking about like any Hawaiian stuff, and you know me, I'm not even knowledgeable in that stuff, so I don't even want to try and talk about it. You know, yeah, yeah, I don't know, we're like super consistent with our shit. Like I'm not going to lie, we're consistent. I know other podcasters out there that I had on here. They're consistent too, so like ups to them too. But yeah, you and I we're consistent with our shit.
Speaker 2Yeah, I think so my.
Speaker 1so my goal too for this year is to be on more podcasts, so I've I would love to be on more, yeah I've been on one um, the smoking section podcast, so far this year.
Speaker 2Last year I think I was on like three or four different ones, but, um, it's just, it's awesome to like um be able to like connect with people in different states facts yeah, yeah, yeah yeah come on, let me talk about this. Like the guy I just went on, his name is Corpse and I went on it's called the Smoking Section Podcast and like I'm like it's so funny, you have someone who doesn't smoke on your podcast. Like this is hilarious, you know. So it's funny because-.
Speaker 1Was this the one that's on your page online? Was it that one?
Speaker 2I think I put on my story.
Speaker 1Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2Yeah, it's on Spotify, but it was cool because we got to kind of talk about like. We talked about like weed specifically and like why I don't smoke weed anymore, like stuff like that. But it was interesting because he's a stoner, so he had a different perspective. I miss that shit he kind of got to like talk about that. So I mean it's a good time, but I want to get Kamaka Diaz on my podcast. That would be really cool Kamaka Diaz.
Speaker 1Who's that?
Speaker 2He's the one that has the Keep it Aloha podcast.
Speaker 1Oh yeah, I think I've seen that. I've seen that. Yeah, he said he's down. Oh, we're.
Speaker 2Yeah, and he was having surgery, I guess.
Speaker 1So hopefully he's feeling better and I can, I can reach out again. But hey, definitely do a goal for sure, definitely do, then I can. I can have one that we talk about hawaii shit. Oh man, hell yeah, that'll be dope, that'll be dope. I remember when I started this and I was just blasting the text right or the dms, he was one of them and I don't want to put out his business or whatever, he was going through some stuff, but I did reach out to him. I just never reached back. My dumb ass, I'm just. I'm just bad at that shit.
Speaker 2You know, I actually saw him out and I, like, thought it was him and I was like I'm not gonna bother him. And then it ended up being him and I was like dang it, I should have talked to him.
Speaker 1But yeah right, it's all good um when you're walking around the island, do people notice you? Or notice your voice and like?
Speaker 2so funny. So yes, my friend kayla came to visit from la okay and it I mean the timing was crazy too, because it was like two in the morning, so you went out. It was her birthday. So like I'm, like, I'm gonna take you, we're gonna sing you some birthday songs. You know what I? Mean yeah yeah, you know, I gotta show her a good time on her birthday oh, definitely so we went out for a little bit.
Speaker 2Now we're walking back to the car and I parked at international marketplace. Um, so usually when I go out I kind of stay around there. I like international marketplace and the places over there. But, um, me and her were just chit-chatting, we're walking and then this girl said something about a podcast. I actually didn't hear it. My friend kayla heard it and she said hey, I think that girl's talking to you and I was like what I turn around and she goes yeah, I see her, I watch your podcast. I'm like she was with her boyfriend and she's like oh yeah, like you should, I think my boyfriend should go on. And she was like promoting her boyfriend to come on the podcast and I'm like, oh shit, she's drunk no, she was.
Speaker 2She seemed pretty sober okay okay, okay um, and then she was like yeah, he used to do drugs and he don't do drugs no more, and like no, no, no. And I was like oh, shit, okay, okay, but like I'm very open. Uh, you know, by the way, if anybody wants to come on my podcast, I I'm very open to having you know a wide range of people. I I'm not, I'm not really gatekeeping that, but um, um, it was interesting, it was really cool. My, my friend was visiting. I was like what the hell? And I was like yo, that's the first time anyone's like noticed that hey, that's, that's pretty cool, and just the fact that it was in waikiki it's kind of cool too, I think.
Speaker 1Atta girl.
Speaker 2Yeah, so it's cool.
Speaker 1I got one more from a person and this might be the last one. So having money Okay, so it was a long one Having money and success does not disqualify a person from being a horrible partner. Why do people want a person with their shit together and when they get that, get intimidated and decide and decides to leave them for a lesser value person?
Speaker 2that sounds like some trauma he's bringing up so let's break that this down so you want to read it again a little, just a little slower having money and success does not disqualify a person from being a horrible partner.
Speaker 1So if you have money and you're still a shitty person, you are still a shitty person. Yeah, and then why do? And then the question is why do people want a person with their shit together?
Speaker 2and when they get that, they get intimidated and decide to leave them for a lesser value person so that sounds like they're not ready to receive that right okay, I can see that now, yeah if you, if you, you know it, maybe you're not at the most successful place, that you are right and that could be intimidating for that person. It depends on the person, but yeah um, if you do find yourself intimidated by that, I mean, I guess in, I guess one option would be to like date someone and and this is very also like the wording like someone lesser. Like this is all subjective because, like what is his version of lesser you know what I mean I don't know, but oh shit, yeah, you're right.
Dating Someone with Kids and Parenting Views
Speaker 2So let's, let's say, let's say uh, let's say, it's money then say yeah, I think what is like someone who means it's a she though it's a she that asked this one.
Speaker 1Oh, it's a girl.
Speaker 2Yes, thank you so let's just say it sounds like she's the breadwinner uh-huh she dated a guy who couldn't fucking handle it. That's what that sounds like it sounds like she dated a guy that couldn't handle it or wasn't up to par. So in reality, they do you a favor when they do that, because if they realize that they're not, they are intimidated by you or they're not at a place where they feel like they could be an equal partner yeah they should just not date.
Speaker 2You go date somebody. You know what I mean when people tell me oh yeah, you're too much, okay, go get less I like lucy, coming in less for you yeah, yeah, yeah, if you don't want to date somebody that goes to the gym and eats healthy and like yeah vicious and does these things, then go date somebody else girl you're going. You went in on that one, yeah I just I think that's what happened to her now I'm just guessing fuck it.
Speaker 1That's what happened to her. Now I'm just guessing.
Speaker 2Fuck it. That's what happened, I'm guessing. Based on your question and the way that you worded your question, it makes it sound to me that, and um, or maybe I don't know, or maybe it's an observation Cause she did say like oh, just cause you're successful, it doesn't make you a great partner, right, you know? It's what that shows. Is that individually, you're great, right?
Speaker 1yeah, you could you can you know, do things for yourself. A, b, c and d in a successful way.
Speaker 2But then, when you get a partner, you might not be good at that, and that is a transition to yeah, that is yeah curve is okay. How do? How? Are we going to be a team? That that's definitely a learning curve, um, but I love how I'm talking about it Like I'm an expert, okay.
Speaker 1Yeah, you know what yeah?
Speaker 2I was married for like a year, so I don't know shit.
Speaker 1No, man, I like to. I like to hear other people's, cause I think everyone they've heard my shit.
Speaker 2So hearing other people's perspective on, like, certain topics and certain things, it's refreshing, so lucy. So the person, the person that realizes dang, I feel intimidated by whoever? Yeah, they need to look at themselves and ask themselves why do I feel intimidated by this?
Speaker 2and that's what they got to work on, you know, like yeah this person making more money than you and that's making you feel like emasculated in a way, or is is this person more ambitious than you? And then you're realizing, like you know, I'm not as ambitious as them, or maybe I'm not as fit as them and I'm not as like consistent in the gym yeah okay. So I mean, there's ways to change that. If you don't want to feel that way, then you can start going then fucking do it, just do it, nike, god damn.
Speaker 1Yeah, then you could.
Speaker 2I don't know, but um, that's an interesting one I I want to know more.
Speaker 1I don't know the drama like right, I want to know the tea. These random people what?
Speaker 2happened, but I think that's kind of what it sounds like. It sounds like she met this person and you're okay, and that that's happened to me, like I've dated people and then they just like disappeared because they they did not feel like they're up to par, or whatever I'm like okay, like you made a prejudgment before I was able to do anything, but that's fine, because, um I, when someone leaves you should let them oh, definitely yeah yeah, you don't hold on, yeah, don't don't be a jack and I say that and I, I still hold on um, I hold out you have a.
Speaker 1You have a good heart.
Speaker 2I hold out hope. But I forever live in the friend zone. I'm just kidding.
Speaker 1I remember you talking about that shit too. That shit is hilarious. Y'all should listen to our episode on her platform. It was funny.
Speaker 2Yeah, yeah, I don't know, being single is weird, it's weird. But I just every time I kind of like get get down or lonely or whatever, I just think to myself like um it could be worse no, I, I try to imagine like the person that is gonna find me oh and so that I try to, instead of like, oh, I feel bad about myself, I just try to focus on that. That's good.
Speaker 1And then how?
Speaker 2great that feeling is going to be like when I do meet them. So I try to focus on that. Like what would they be like? Or like stuff?
Speaker 1like that oh yeah, I had this discussion with Tiff, my wife, and like if we could live today as single humans, right? She told me that she can't, she wouldn't be able to adapt or adjust to what's. You know the whole dating scene. I told her, like to be real, like I would have been like fuck dating, I'd be all about me. Now, you know, like just yo fuck the, fuck the females. Like if I have the life that I have right now, I'm just, I'm doing me, I'll take care of you know, the kids and this and the third. But I think I'd be able to successfully live the single life opposed to her, where she doesn't know what she would do. She would. She said she would have like a hard time because there's a lot of fuck boys out here.
Speaker 2So yeah, but you wouldn't get like lonely fuck no oh my gosh p-o-r-n.
Speaker 1God damn. Why the fuck not? You feel me, I mean dang yeah, but that's not the same.
Speaker 2That's not, as I don't think it's fulfilling as like in a relationship way you're right, it's not fulfilling, but however I personally, like I'm not. I'm not a fan of porn.
Speaker 1That's good, uh, don't be horrible yeah, us guys, um, we learned our stroke from the best, um, but anywho, uh, not, uh, we'll let we'll like be like in a relationship, I think, being older, because we've, if we've gone through, we're able to like not even think about it, because kind of like it's better to have loved and lost and never loved before.
Speaker 2There it is, yeah, so we've experienced it, yeah.
Speaker 1So it's like OK, I know what to do, I know what to expect. If it does happen, it's going to happen, does happen, is gonna happen. And I the the loving thing, the loving part about it is is that when you're old and if it does, when it does happen, it's organic, because you're not on the sites you're fucking, you're just doing you, you just happen. It just happened along where you're doing you and someone came along and just matched your shit yeah, yeah, I imagine like me being at the bookstore and like running into somebody, exactly.
Speaker 1Ooh, oh. What is that? How to Be a Superior man? No, it's this book when the Wild Things Are.
Speaker 2Oh wow, when the wild things are. Why are you reading that?
Speaker 1Right. Oh, the illustrations are fantastic. I can't read them, you know what I'm saying but yeah, read them, you know what I'm saying. But yeah, I do miss a barnes and noble. I ain't gonna front barnes and noble like they don't have one on the island.
Speaker 2I don't think my wife is in there somewhere I don't know which one, but she's walking around. She better be reading some good shit. If you're reading some shit, I'm gonna be like what's what's good shit to you? Autobiography is fantasy like good shit, because I read a lot of like I guess, I don't know fictional fantasy type shit I think, just just just someone who reads would be cool even how about magazines?
Speaker 1is that okay?
What Makes Their Podcasts Unique
Speaker 2no, like, like books, you want books, yeah, yeah like like no intellectual person like no pictures in that hoe just that's probably just why I'm single like everyone's just dumb harry potter books are okay, just kidding I love harry potter oh, okay huge harry potter fan okay, I read the fantasy books. I read the first four twice and then I read the last two, but um, yeah, I slither in all the way. I mean I'm wearing green. Oh, gang gang gang, gang bitch.
Speaker 1Yeah, um, how about, uh, what's it called? Uh, you ever chicken soup, those chicken soup books, are they? Uh, if a person's reading that are you, are you okay with that?
Speaker 2yeah, I mean just any type of book can they read? If you can read, that's a huge.
Speaker 1I mean yeah yeah, yeah, you know what I mean, but have the focus to actually read an entire book or a novel.
Speaker 2I'm not trying to judge what you read you know what Definitely judge. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1Fuck it.
Speaker 2It sounds very judgy.
Speaker 1I'm fucking doing it.
Speaker 2It would be dope if you were a reader. Uh-huh, that's cool, whatever.
Speaker 1But I mean audiobooks.
Speaker 2it's better neurologically to actually read a book For real, Because you're reading the pages.
Speaker 1Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2It's different than listening.
Speaker 1Oh, that's facts. Yeah, yeah, hey, that's what's up. When I'm training exercises in the army or when we're out in the field, I actually bring a book. And, yeah, I do. I'm not on Netflix or nothing.
Speaker 2I go back and forth. Oh, really, uh, yeah, I do, I'm not, I'm not on netflix, or nothing, I'm just back and forth oh really, from netflix to book I have an audio. No, like I have an audio book oh and then I have I'm reading like four different books right now, and then I have, like I have an audio book, I'm listening, I'm listening, to spare, uh-huh, the one about, um, prince harry oh it's pretty interesting is it?
Speaker 2yeah, because he has a pretty interesting perspective, being like not the king, he's, he's like the prince, you know yeah, it's interesting, like how much the media has like um scrutinized him yeah, yeah his whole life and like then that's the book's called spare. Like he's just like the spare person. Like that's fucked up dude, like what?
Speaker 1oh shit, I didn't think about it like that in the military. Yeah, I know that.
Speaker 2So I I know that, so right now I'm in those chapters and it's pretty interesting.
Speaker 1Let me ask you you're reading four different types of books right now. How do you keep them separate?
Speaker 2They're separate books.
Speaker 1No shit, but I'm just saying how do you not intertwine the plots from each book? Because if I was reading reading maybe I'm just not as smart as you, but if I was reading four books at the same time I'd definitely be like, oh shit, this character is supposed to be in that book. Um, this plot is in this book.
Speaker 2I'll be totally fucked okay, okay, well, I guess one easy. I don't really know, but I think one easy way is like one book, for example, is written by like Trump's relative, so that's like all about Trump.
Speaker 1Oh, ok, that one's easy.
Speaker 2And then the other one is like a story, so like obviously the characters in the story have nothing to do with Trump. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1Yeah, In my mind I can separate those.
Speaker 2fine, but there's a couple others, too, that I'm reading. Um, there's a couple others, too, that I'm reading, but, uh, like, one one is really just about like the mind and like consciousness. Yeah, so I don't know, they're just so. I guess that's probably it.
Speaker 1To be in your brain, Lucy, I'd have fun. I'd be like.
Speaker 2I found an interesting life.
Speaker 1Yeah, I'll say yeah, we all do. Yeah, lucy, that was fun.
Speaker 2That was fun.
Speaker 1That was fucking fun as hell. Do you have any shoutouts or anything before we dip out?
Speaker 2Kamaka Diaz, come on my podcast.
Speaker 1Yeah, kamaka Diaz.
Speaker 2I don't know. Yeah, boy, if anyone has any, any single Very minimal. Crazy Kind People want to hang out.
Speaker 1That could pump her own gas yeah.
Speaker 2Yeah, honest points if you cook.
Speaker 1Cook what kind?
Speaker 2I'm like shouting out to my future wife right now. Yeah, if you could cook, if you cook I love food If you're a sweetheart and if you celebrate holidays and you have minimal family trauma.
Speaker 1Holla holler at her. Uh, where can these people find you at?
Final Thoughts on Being Single
Speaker 2um, oh my god, my shit's so. So you can watch my podcast, lucy's paradise podcast, or add me on instagram lucy in the gym with weights there it is, gang, gang, ho, uh.
Speaker 1With that being said, shout out to KO Studios. Thank you for the lovely home, rafi Bayi. Thank you for the lovely beats man. I'm Chris, I'm Lucy. Yeah, there it is, and we out this bitch. Peace, aloha, aloha. What the fuck, yay.
