The REALationship Method
The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!
Episodes
92 episodes
Six-month Dating Rule and Which Phase is Better - Single, Talking, or Together?, with Aulani
Fireworks lit the sky, but what really sparked was a candid look at how culture, money, and boundaries shape love. We sit down with Aulani—a behavior-focused counselor and hula performer—to unpack the signals we miss and the standards that save...
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Season 5
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Episode 93
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1:13:16
How Therapy, Family, And Hip-Hop Helped Me Rebuild After Losing My Wife with Christian
First and foremost, excuse the poor sound quality of this episode. My mic malfunctioned and I had to resort to my trusty airpods.Enjoy this special episode with my cousin, Christian!Grief doesn’t end, it reshapes you—and that’s wh...
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Season 5
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Episode 92
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54:12
Anu Finds Love, Liking 'Noods", and What NOT to Say to a Baby with Sydni
Ever tried to love well while your brain is sprinting and your calendar won’t quit? We dive straight into the messy space where mental health meets relationships—how therapy, self‑awareness, and clean communication can turn chaos into something...
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Season 4
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Episode 91
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1:01:24
He Hit 485 Deadlift And Still Can’t Read Flirting, Send Help with Sage
A first mic, a sandy shoreline, and a set of hard-won lessons about love and timing—Sage brings a full-life story that hits both the studio and the heart. We dig into how he broke into radio through production, why tedious edits matter more tha...
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Season 4
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Episode 90
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1:06:26
Why Good Men Aren’t Gone, Labels, Lies & the Places We Find Ourselves with Kea
What makes someone “from” a place, and what belongs to blood, lineage, and lived experience? We bring that question home with Kea, who grew up in Hawaii, chased opportunity in Texas, and built a marketing career that runs on clarity, guts, and ...
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Season 4
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Episode 89
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59:17
Wing-Women Tactics and Friends with Benefits Pitfalls with Kace
Ever wonder how a new model goes from posting beach shots to landing paid shoots and brand trips without losing herself? Kace joins us for a candid, funny, and grounded conversation about building a modeling career from scratch in Hawaii—no age...
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Season 4
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Episode 88
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53:57
How A Dishwasher Became a Headliner, Social Media Resets, & Boundaries with Clout-Chasers w/ KittyPine
A single compliment in a dish pit changed everything. Kitty Pine walked us through the moment a chef called them the “best dishwasher” he’d ever seen—and how that flipped a switch from surviving to building a life in comedy. What followed wasn’...
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Season 4
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Episode 87
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1:00:28
DM Etiquette, Modeling Politics, and What Does 'I'm Busy' Really Mean with Shyla Marie
A model, mom, and photographer walks into our studio and refuses to give the safe, surface version of her story. Shyla takes us from beachside test shoots to real castings, through a tough pregnancy and a three‑minute delivery, and into the une...
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Season 4
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Episode 86
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1:09:55
Hoeflation, Sassy Men, and Zippy’s Mac Salad with Vicky
A cool studio, a hotter island, and a conversation that doesn’t flinch. We kick off with jokes about heat and Spam musubi, then Vicky takes us right into the heart of a marriage that never should’ve made it to the aisle—family pressure, fairyta...
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Season 4
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Episode 85
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54:33
Comprehension vs. Communication & What it Means to be 'Alpha' with Alexis Renae
What does it really mean to be the "alpha" in your relationships? Alexis Renae, CEO of Role Models 808, brings her unique perspective as both a professional model and dog trainer to this captivating conversation about boundaries, communication,...
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Season 4
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Episode 84
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1:02:22
Dating's Curious Double Standards, Masculine Vulnerability and Dating a Millennial with Karen
What happens when old friends reconnect to discuss the messy, complicated world of modern relationships? In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Chris welcomes his longtime friend Karen (aka "Kare Bear") to explore relationship dynamics that r...
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Season 4
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Episode 83
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1:15:44
ChatGPT Dating Advice, the 'Talking Stage', and Blocking Exes with Hokulani
Ever wondered what it's like to be a professional Tahitian dancer who's also navigating the modern dating scene? Hokulani joins Chris on the REALationship Method podcast for her first-ever podcast interview, pulling back the curtain on her life...
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Season 4
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Episode 82
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1:04:30
Healthy Relationships turning Toxic, Spontaneous vs. Planned Partners & Pajama Talk with Kaylee Brooke
Ever wonder what your partner is really doing when they're "with the boys"? Or how a healthy relationship can suddenly turn toxic? Singer Kaylee Brooke Shimizu brings refreshing honesty to these questions and more in our pajama-themed heart-to-...
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Season 4
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Episode 81
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1:13:50
Failed Relationships, Triggering Self-Awareness, and Being On a Reality Show with Maelene
What if your failed relationships were actually preparing you for your greatest transformation? Maelene joins Chris on The Realationship Method podcast to share her powerful journey through three defining relationships that ultimat...
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Season 4
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Episode 80
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1:01:17
Cultural Context Shaping Relationship Expectations and Never Turning Down an Audition with Stacey
Actress, dancer, and bartender Stacey joins Chris for a captivating conversation about navigating creative careers and personal relationships with authenticity and resilience. Their discussion weaves between professional insights and deeply per...
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Season 4
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Episode 79
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58:05
Making the Hard Choices and Breaking Up when Nothing's Wrong with Kamaka Dias
What happens when you need to break up with someone you love, but nothing's wrong? How do you communicate effectively with a partner who processes information differently than you do? And why is the relationship between a man and his barber so ...
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Season 4
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Episode 78
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55:01
Difference Between GF and Wife Behavior, Advocating on Committed Partnerships, and the Evolution of Personal Love Languages w/ Tia Mailani
What happens when a driven Hawaiian model with dreams of becoming a pediatric oncologist opens up about love, cultural identity, and finding her match? Mailani Kekkuewa brings refreshing honesty to this conversation about navigating the modern ...
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Season 4
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Episode 77
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1:17:28
Indonesia to Hawaii, Anti-aging, and Meeting a Man from Church with Lovina
What happens when science and relationships collide? Lovina, a PhD student specializing in anti-aging biology, joins Chris to explore this fascinating intersection while sharing her unique journey from Indonesia to Hawaii.Born in Indone...
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Season 4
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Episode 76
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53:05
Tequila, TikTok, and Finding One's Voice with Brev
Meet Brev, the Filipino-Chinese content creator who's mastered the delicate art of balancing a 9-to-5 corporate job with a thriving social media presence. With his authentic storytelling and relatable content, Brev has captured the attention of...
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Season 4
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Episode 75
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56:21
How Grief Led to Comedy and Filipino Family Dynamics with Mia
When content creator Mia first received an invitation to appear on the Relationship Method podcast, she thought it might be a scam. Having heard stories of other creators losing their social media accounts to hackers posing as podcast hosts, sh...
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Season 4
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Episode 74
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54:36
From Influencer to Playboy, Wedding Bells, Being a Homebody and Socially Awkward with Faith
Delve into the fascinating world of social media influence through the eyes of Faith, an entrepreneur who defies expectations at every turn. This candid conversation reveals the powerful contradictions that have shaped her remarkable journey fr...
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Season 4
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Episode 73
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1:08:12
Swiping Left on Dating Apps and Right on Authenticity with Lex
What happens when airline industry insights collide with modern dating adventures? In this candid conversation, Chris welcomes Lex from the Sidebar Pod to share her journey through both professional challenges and romantic explorations in Hawai...
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Season 4
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Episode 72
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1:06:18
Jocelyn Enriquez: Filipino Music Pioneer Returns
Thirty years after breaking barriers as one of the first Filipino-Americans to chart on Billboard, freestyle music icon Jocelyn Enriquez sits down for an intimate conversation about her remarkable journey through the music industry and beyond.<...
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Season 4
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Episode 71
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55:53
Finding Rhythm in Life's Unexpected Steps, Waking Up with One Sock, & Comfort Food with Aggie
The beauty of unexpected connections reveals itself in this conversation with dancer and instructor Aggie, where cultural touchpoints create an immediate bond that transforms what could have been a simple interview into a rich exploration of sh...
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Season 4
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Episode 70
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1:01:31
Dealing with Online Hating, Red and Green flags for a Cancer, Hairless Men and Side Pieces with Ashley
A creative soul finds her voice through adversity. That's the story of Ashley Abbott, model, singer, and mother who joins us for an intimate conversation about finding your path despite the noise of critics.Having known each other since...
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Season 4
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Episode 69
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37:52