The REALationship Method
The REALationship Method is a comedic podcast about dating, relationships, and advice, blending tips with plenty of tangents. With stories and experiences shared by the cast and guests, it offers cautionary tales to help you avoid making the same mistakes. So sit back, relax, and maybe learn a thing or ten!
Episodes
84 episodes
Hoeflation, Sassy Men, and Zippy’s Mac Salad with Vicky
A cool studio, a hotter island, and a conversation that doesn’t flinch. We kick off with jokes about heat and Spam musubi, then Vicky takes us right into the heart of a marriage that never should’ve made it to the aisle—family pressure, fairyta...
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Season 4
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Episode 85
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54:33
Comprehension vs. Communication & What it Means to be 'Alpha' with Alexis Renae
What does it really mean to be the "alpha" in your relationships? Alexis Renae, CEO of Role Models 808, brings her unique perspective as both a professional model and dog trainer to this captivating conversation about boundaries, communication,...
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Season 4
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Episode 84
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1:02:22
Dating's Curious Double Standards, Masculine Vulnerability and Dating a Millennial with Karen
What happens when old friends reconnect to discuss the messy, complicated world of modern relationships? In this raw and unfiltered conversation, Chris welcomes his longtime friend Karen (aka "Kare Bear") to explore relationship dynamics that r...
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Season 4
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Episode 83
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1:15:44
ChatGPT Dating Advice, the 'Talking Stage', and Blocking Exes with Hokulani
Ever wondered what it's like to be a professional Tahitian dancer who's also navigating the modern dating scene? Hokulani joins Chris on the REALationship Method podcast for her first-ever podcast interview, pulling back the curtain on her life...
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Season 4
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Episode 82
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1:04:30
Healthy Relationships turning Toxic, Spontaneous vs. Planned Partners & Pajama Talk with Kaylee Brooke
Ever wonder what your partner is really doing when they're "with the boys"? Or how a healthy relationship can suddenly turn toxic? Singer Kaylee Brooke Shimizu brings refreshing honesty to these questions and more in our pajama-themed heart-to-...
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Season 4
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Episode 81
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1:13:50
Failed Relationships, Triggering Self-Awareness, and Being On a Reality Show with Maelene
What if your failed relationships were actually preparing you for your greatest transformation? Maelene joins Chris on The Realationship Method podcast to share her powerful journey through three defining relationships that ultimat...
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Season 4
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Episode 80
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1:01:17
Cultural Context Shaping Relationship Expectations and Never Turning Down an Audition with Stacey
Actress, dancer, and bartender Stacey joins Chris for a captivating conversation about navigating creative careers and personal relationships with authenticity and resilience. Their discussion weaves between professional insights and deeply per...
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Season 4
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Episode 79
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58:05
Making the Hard Choices and Breaking Up when Nothing's Wrong with Kamaka Dias
What happens when you need to break up with someone you love, but nothing's wrong? How do you communicate effectively with a partner who processes information differently than you do? And why is the relationship between a man and his barber so ...
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Season 4
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Episode 78
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55:01
Difference Between GF and Wife Behavior, Advocating on Committed Partnerships, and the Evolution of Personal Love Languages w/ Tia Mailani
What happens when a driven Hawaiian model with dreams of becoming a pediatric oncologist opens up about love, cultural identity, and finding her match? Mailani Kekkuewa brings refreshing honesty to this conversation about navigating the modern ...
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Season 4
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Episode 77
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1:17:28
Indonesia to Hawaii, Anti-aging, and Meeting a Man from Church with Lovina
What happens when science and relationships collide? Lovina, a PhD student specializing in anti-aging biology, joins Chris to explore this fascinating intersection while sharing her unique journey from Indonesia to Hawaii.Born in Indone...
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Season 4
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Episode 76
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53:05
Tequila, TikTok, and Finding One's Voice with Brev
Meet Brev, the Filipino-Chinese content creator who's mastered the delicate art of balancing a 9-to-5 corporate job with a thriving social media presence. With his authentic storytelling and relatable content, Brev has captured the attention of...
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Season 4
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Episode 75
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56:21
How Grief Led to Comedy and Filipino Family Dynamics with Mia
When content creator Mia first received an invitation to appear on the Relationship Method podcast, she thought it might be a scam. Having heard stories of other creators losing their social media accounts to hackers posing as podcast hosts, sh...
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Season 4
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Episode 74
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54:36
From Influencer to Playboy, Wedding Bells, Being a Homebody and Socially Awkward with Faith
Delve into the fascinating world of social media influence through the eyes of Faith, an entrepreneur who defies expectations at every turn. This candid conversation reveals the powerful contradictions that have shaped her remarkable journey fr...
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Season 4
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Episode 73
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1:08:12
Swiping Left on Dating Apps and Right on Authenticity with Lex
What happens when airline industry insights collide with modern dating adventures? In this candid conversation, Chris welcomes Lex from the Sidebar Pod to share her journey through both professional challenges and romantic explorations in Hawai...
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Season 4
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Episode 72
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1:06:18
Jocelyn Enriquez: Filipino Music Pioneer Returns
Thirty years after breaking barriers as one of the first Filipino-Americans to chart on Billboard, freestyle music icon Jocelyn Enriquez sits down for an intimate conversation about her remarkable journey through the music industry and beyond.<...
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Season 4
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Episode 71
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55:53
Finding Rhythm in Life's Unexpected Steps, Waking Up with One Sock, & Comfort Food with Aggie
The beauty of unexpected connections reveals itself in this conversation with dancer and instructor Aggie, where cultural touchpoints create an immediate bond that transforms what could have been a simple interview into a rich exploration of sh...
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Season 4
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Episode 70
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1:01:31
Dealing with Online Hating, Red and Green flags for a Cancer, Hairless Men and Side Pieces with Ashley
A creative soul finds her voice through adversity. That's the story of Ashley Abbott, model, singer, and mother who joins us for an intimate conversation about finding your path despite the noise of critics.Having known each other since...
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Season 4
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Episode 69
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37:52
Beyond the Algorithm, Discovering Unknown Siblings, and Breaking Niche's
Mekel Kasanova isn't just a voice actor, streamer, podcaster, and content creator – he's a testament to forging your own path when you don't fit the mold. Growing up as the shortest among thirteen siblings in a family of musical prodigies, Meke...
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Season 4
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Episode 68
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1:02:24
From Tomboy to Center Stage, Finding Balance, & Dating app disasters with Acari
What happens when musical talent meets motherhood and cultural heritage? Bay Area vocalist Acari joins us for a captivating conversation that weaves between her professional singing career, parenting journey, and creative aspirations.Fr...
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Season 4
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Episode 67
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1:01:35
The Art of Flow: DJ Q-Bert on Scratching, Spirituality, and Creative Evolution
Ever wondered what goes on in the mind of a turntable virtuoso? DJ Q-Bert, one of the most influential scratch DJs in history, pulls back the curtain on his extraordinary journey and creative process in this revealing conversation.The l...
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Season 4
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Episode 66
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51:03
Pimping out friends, Pretty vs Hot/Sexy, Supportive Exes & Coming Out w/ Rancelyn
When TikTok star Rancelyn Lucero steps into the studio, what unfolds is far more than just another interview. Her natural charisma and refreshing honesty transform a simple conversation into a profound exploration of authenticity, relationships...
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Season 4
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Episode 65
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51:33
Introducing Children to a New Partner, Celibate Green Flags & Getting 86'd w/ Anu
What happens when the right person comes along after you've given up on dating apps? Anu returns to the Relationship Method podcast with a refreshing love story that defies modern dating norms. From meeting through mutual friends to consciously...
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Season 4
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Episode 64
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55:10
From Hawaii to Texas: A Singer's Journey Through Life's Seasons with Kali
Hawaiian-born R&B artist Kali talks about her musical journey from military kid to creating the "Fuck Girl Season" concept for her work as she navigates the music industry on her own terms. She shares deeply personal insights about expressi...
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Season 4
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Episode 63
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48:12
The Value of Patience and Self-Discovery Before Finding Your Person with Lucy
Chris and Lucy explore the complexities of modern relationships and the value of self-improvement before diving into dating. They share personal experiences about finding authentic connections in a digital world where genuine interactions have ...
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Season 4
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Episode 62
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55:01
Hidden gems in attraction, Humor in unexpected situations, and Human instincts vs Societal norms with Christian
On this episode, I popped my online podcasting cherry (pause) with @christianhasasthma We talked about, cultural connections and upbringing, high school experiences and personal growth, navigating relationships, fashion trends and i...
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Season 4
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Episode 61
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39:38