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Design the Type of Marriage YOU Want

Emil Harker

Designing your marriage is the process of intentionally creating the kind of marriage you want. It's about setting goals, communicating openly, and working together to build a strong and lasting relationship.

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There are many different aspects to designing your marriage, but some of the most important include:

  • Communicating effectively. This means being able to share your thoughts and feelings in a clear and respectful way. It also means being able to listen to your partner's thoughts and feelings without judgment.
  • Setting realistic expectations. It's important to have realistic expectations about what marriage will be like. No relationship is perfect, and there will be ups and downs. But if you have realistic expectations, you'll be less likely to be disappointed.
  • Agreeing on values and goals. What's important to you in life? What are your goals for the future? It's important to discuss these things with your partner and make sure you're on the same page.
  • Being willing to compromise. No two people are exactly alike, so there will be times when you need to compromise. This doesn't mean giving up on your own needs, but it does mean being willing to meet your partner halfway.
  • Making time for each other. It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of life, but it's important to make time for each other. Go on dates, talk about your day, and just enjoy each other's company.

Designing your marriage takes time and effort, but it's worth it. By intentionally creating the kind of marriage you want, you can increase your chances of having a happy and fulfilling relationship.

Here are some additional tips for designing your marriage:

  • Read books and articles about marriage. There is a wealth of information available about marriage, and reading can help you learn more about what it takes to have a successful relationship.
  • Talk to other couples. Get advice from couples who have been married for a long time. They can share their experiences and offer valuable insights.
  • Attend marriage workshops or counseling. If you're struggling in your marriage, there are resources available to help you. Marriage workshops and counseling can provide you with the tools you need to improve your relationship.

Designing your marriage is an ongoing process. It's something you'll need to work on throughout your marriage. But if you're willing to put in the effort, you can create a marriage that is strong, loving, and fulfilling.

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