The Emil Show - All Things Relational
Episodes
52 episodes
# 52 - "The Three Degrees of Marriage"
In this powerful episode, Emil introduces a perspective that challenges how most people think about marriage: what if the quality of your relationship isn’t determined by who you married—but by the laws you live?Drawing on scripture, hum...
Teen Series E 3. - "Why Trying To Control Your Teen Backfires?" TES E 51
Are you struggling with a defiant teen, constant power struggles, or feeling like nothing you do is working as a parent?In this powerful episode of The Emil Show, Emil Harker sits down with parent coach Beth Hillman to break dow...
Teen Series E 2 - "Your Teen Isn't Rebellious, They Are Scared!" TES E. 50
Are you struggling with a defiant, anxious, or rebellious teen? You’re not alone—and you’re not doing it wrong.In this powerful episode of The Emil Show, Emil sits down with licensed marriage and family therapist Jonathan Sherman to unp...
Teen Series E 1. "Stop Rescuing Your Teen! It's Backfiring!" TES E 49
🚨 Why Helping Your Teen Too Much Might Be Hurting Them (And What to Do Instead)If you’re a parent of a struggling teen—or a professional working with adolescents—this conversation will challenge everything you think you know about helpi...
#48 - The Passive Aggressive Response
Dealing with passive aggressive comments are some of the hardest statements to respond to. Using the "translation" process it helps us protect our boundaries from these hurtful comments without creating a fight.
#47 - Creating Connection
What is emotional connection? Why does it often decrease over time in relationships and how can we get it back? Emotional connection or intimacy is sometimes hard to describe, but it's easy to kno...
#46 - Is Happiness a Choice?
Is happiness really a choice? What role should your partner play in your happiness? In this episode, Emil describes the roles and responsibilities we have as individuals and as partners regarding happiness. He explains why taking responsibility...
#45 - One Secret to Marital Bliss
What is the secret to a great marriage? This is the most frequent question that I receive. The answer is simple: seeking, receiving, and responding to feedback. In this episode, I share how feedback i...
#44 - Digging up the past?
What are the rules about bringing things up from the past? In relationships, partners often bring up the past during arguments in the present. Why does this happen, when is it legitimate, and how do we handle it? In t...
#43 - "Reel" Advice? You May Find Yourself With REAL Problems
It's vital to be critical about any marriage advice you find online. Here's how to ensure you're getting good, reliable information:1. Source Credibility:Reputable Websites: Focus on sites run by mental health profes...
#42 - Positive Mind Powers with Jeff D Buehner
Are you tired of chasing the life you want? Do you wish there was a way to make your dreams a reality? In this episode, Emil interviews Jeff D Buehner, author of The Sultan's Seven Secrets. Jeff shares how he came across an ancient man...
#41- Love and Aging
In this insightful episode, Emil welcomes his son, Hunter Harker, to discuss the crucial role relationships play in the overall well-being of seniors. Hunter draws from his inspiring talk to explore how strong social bonds directly contribute t...
#40 - Crossover with the "Just Love Them" Podcast
In this episode, Emil is interviewed by Shiree Best on her podcast, Just Love Them. What do you do when your kids are making poor choices?...
#39 - Tonic powers of validation
We may not be able to control the actions or feelings of others, but we can't deny our influence on them. In this episode, Emil explains how to maximize that influence. He shares the key to creating safety through listening and understanding an...
#38 - Keeping your Cool (And your friends) During an Election Year
Do you avoid discussing controversial topics with friends and family? Do conversations often get heated and uncomfortable? In this episode, Emil shares an effective communication tool that helps to turn moments of difference into moments ...
#37 - Difference between Codependent and Interdependent?
What’s the difference between codependency and interdependence in relationships? CodependencyDefinition: An unhealthy reliance on another person for emotional or physical needs to the point of sacrificing one's own wel...
#36 - Real Self Care and Self Love
Social media and popular psychology have skewed the way we think about self-love. It is more complex than simply relaxing or taking time for yourself. Self-love is the purest form of positive regard you have for yourself. Our relationships with...
#35 - Avoid Heartache in Dating pt. 2
Dating can be a challenging and stressful process. People often don’t know what to look for in a potential partner. In this episode, Emil resumes the discussion on how to find a successful relationship. He shares the list provided ...
#34 - Avoid Heartache in Dating pt. 1
Are you looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with? Are you wondering where to begin or how to find a good match? In this episode, Emil answers these questions and shares ChatGPT’s 15 things you need for a successful relationship. ...
#33 - Overcoming Addiction or Any Issue with Schedule
Set realistic goals. It is important to set realistic goals for yourself when you are trying to overcome addiction. Don't try to quit all at once, as this can be overwhelming and lead to relapse. Instead, set smaller, more achievabl...
#32 - Navigating Pornography with your Partner
Your partner is using pornography, now what? The strength of a relationship is not determined by whether pornagraphy is present, but by how it's navigated within the relationship. Pornagraphy use can cause shame, secrecy, and dishon...
#31 - 5 Myths about pornography
Why do men watch porn? Misconceptions about pornography use can be damaging to relationships. They affect how men and women view themselves and each other. This can cause unnecessary pain and distance in relationships. Emil shares 5 myths, then...
#30 - An Affair Has Happened....Now what?!
What do you do after an affair is revealed? How do you get the marriage back on track and rebuild trust? One of the best places to start is with a disclosure statement. To trust, there must be understanding. A disclosure statement is given ...