The Emil Show - All Things Relational
Get ready to transform your life through the power of relationship skills. The quality of our lives depends on the quality of our relationships. But what is it that determines the strength or quality of relationships? For over 20 years Emil has been working in the trenches of relationship recovery and greatness. Developing his own unique conflict resolution style, he empowers people to take charge or their relationships and single handedly bring about desired outcomes. This show cuts through the fluffy stuff and gets to the nitty gritty of what makes a relationship work. He teaches practical tools and principles to transform the important relationships in life and bring about greater satisfaction and fulfillment.
Episodes
48 episodes
The Passive Aggressive Response
Dealing with passive aggressive comments are some of the hardest statements to respond to. Using the "translation" process it helps us protect our boundaries from these hurtful comments without creating a fight.
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24:32
Closing the Emotional Gap
What is emotional connection? Why does it often decrease over time in relationships and how can we get it back? Emotional connection or intimacy is sometimes hard to describe, but it's easy to kno...
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22:58
The Happiness Dilemma
Is happiness really a choice? What role should your partner play in your happiness? In this episode, Emil describes the roles and responsibilities we have as individuals and as partners regarding happiness. He explains why taking responsibility...
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15:55
The Secret to Marital Bliss)
What is the secret to a great marriage? This is the most frequent question that I receive. The answer is simple: seeking, receiving, and responding to feedback. In this episode, I share how feedback i...
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28:48
Digging up the past
What are the rules about bringing things up from the past? In relationships, partners often bring up the past during arguments in the present. Why does this happen, when is it legitimate, and how do we handle it? In t...
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34:00
If You Follow All the "Reel" Advice, You May Find Yourself With REAL Problems
It's vital to be critical about any marriage advice you find online. Here's how to ensure you're getting good, reliable information:1. Source Credibility:Reputable Websites: Focus on sites run by mental health profes...
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The Sultan's Seven Secrets with Jeff D Buehner
Are you tired of chasing the life you want? Do you wish there was a way to make your dreams a reality? In this episode, Emil interviews Jeff D Buehner, author of The Sultan's Seven Secrets. Jeff shares how he came across an ancient man...
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51:30
Relationships Matter: Health, Happiness, and the Senior Years
In this insightful episode, Emil welcomes his son, Hunter Harker, to discuss the crucial role relationships play in the overall well-being of seniors. Hunter draws from his inspiring talk to explore how strong social bonds directly contribute t...
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Crossover with the "Just Love Them" Podcast
In this episode, Emil is interviewed by Shiree Best on her podcast, Just Love Them. What do you do when your kids are making poor choices?...
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35:29
The Power of Validation
We may not be able to control the actions or feelings of others, but we can't deny our influence on them. In this episode, Emil explains how to maximize that influence. He shares the key to creating safety through listening and understanding an...
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Keeping your Cool (And your friends) During an Election Year
Do you avoid discussing controversial topics with friends and family? Do conversations often get heated and uncomfortable? In this episode, Emil shares an effective communication tool that helps to turn moments of difference into moments ...
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28:29
What is the Difference between Codependent and Interdependent?
What’s the difference between codependency and interdependence in relationships? CodependencyDefinition: An unhealthy reliance on another person for emotional or physical needs to the point of sacrificing one's own wel...
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25:02
Self-Love Is More Than Bubble Baths
Social media and popular psychology have skewed the way we think about self-love. It is more complex than simply relaxing or taking time for yourself. Self-love is the purest form of positive regard you have for yourself. Our relationships with...
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How to Navigate Pitfalls and Avoid Heartache in Dating pt. 2
Dating can be a challenging and stressful process. People often don’t know what to look for in a potential partner. In this episode, Emil resumes the discussion on how to find a successful relationship. He shares the list provided ...
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How to Navigate Pitfalls and Avoid Heartache in Dating pt. 1
Are you looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with? Are you wondering where to begin or how to find a good match? In this episode, Emil answers these questions and shares ChatGPT’s 15 things you need for a successful relationship. ...
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32:13
Overcoming Addiction with Schedule
Set realistic goals. It is important to set realistic goals for yourself when you are trying to overcome addiction. Don't try to quit all at once, as this can be overwhelming and lead to relapse. Instead, set smaller, more achievabl...
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31:17
Navigating Pornography with your Partner
Your partner is using pornography, now what? The strength of a relationship is not determined by whether pornagraphy is present, but by how it's navigated within the relationship. Pornagraphy use can cause shame, secrecy, and dishon...
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25:54
5 Myths about pornography
Why do men watch porn? Misconceptions about pornography use can be damaging to relationships. They affect how men and women view themselves and each other. This can cause unnecessary pain and distance in relationships. Emil shares 5 myths, then...
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41:44
An Affair Has Happened....Now what?!
What do you do after an affair is revealed? How do you get the marriage back on track and rebuild trust? One of the best places to start is with a disclosure statement. To trust, there must be understanding. A disclosure statement is given ...
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30:44
5 Phrases to Unlock a Closed Mind
"I'm curious to hear your perspective." This shows that you are open to learning new things and that you value the other person's opinion."Can you help me understand why you believe that?" This asks for clarification and shows tha...
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Some Of You MAY Really Dislike This Episode
Sexual intimacy is an important part of a marital relationship for many reasons. It can:Strengthen the bond between partners. Sexual intimacy can help couples feel closer and more connected to each other. It can also be a way for co...
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31:17
Be a Fly on the Wall
If you have ever wondered what a counseling session is like with me, or even just how counseling works, this episode is for you.Listen as I walk alongside with Mark and Jenn in an ACTUAL counseling session. The "Rock...
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44:27
How Much Drama Is TOO MUCH Drama?
A toxic relationship is when two people in a relationship become reactive to each other's reactions, also known as a defensive-defensive cycle. They are unwilling or unable to keep their composure in certain situations without becoming defensiv...
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