The Emil Show - All Things Relational
Get ready to transform your life through the power of relationship skills. The quality of our lives depends on the quality of our relationships. But what is it that determines the strength or quality of relationships? For over 20 years Emil has been working in the trenches of relationship recovery and greatness. Developing his own unique conflict resolution style, he empowers people to take charge or their relationships and single handedly bring about desired outcomes. This show cuts through the fluffy stuff and gets to the nitty gritty of what makes a relationship work. He teaches practical tools and principles to transform the important relationships in life and bring about greater satisfaction and fulfillment.
The Emil Show - All Things Relational
A Relationship Can Change Overnight; For Better or For Worse
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Emil Harker
Emil speaks to Lisa.
Lisa’s 16 year old step son recently moved in her her and her husband. It has dramatically changed her dynamic with her husband and she is looking for ways to communicate the may improve the situation.
1) Determine desired outcome
2) Identify expectations
4 statements of conflict: criticisms, questions, declarations, commands
How to avoid defensiveness in conversation:
1) Share feelings and reasons
2) Put yourself in the other’s shoes
3) Check in
Once there is understanding and connections, you can shift to, “so what should we do about it?”
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