The Emil Show - All Things Relational
Get ready to transform your life through the power of relationship skills. The quality of our lives depends on the quality of our relationships. But what is it that determines the strength or quality of relationships? For over 20 years Emil has been working in the trenches of relationship recovery and greatness. Developing his own unique conflict resolution style, he empowers people to take charge or their relationships and single handedly bring about desired outcomes. This show cuts through the fluffy stuff and gets to the nitty gritty of what makes a relationship work. He teaches practical tools and principles to transform the important relationships in life and bring about greater satisfaction and fulfillment.
The Emil Show - All Things Relational
5 Phrases to Unlock a Closed Mind
•
Emil Harker
- "I'm curious to hear your perspective." This shows that you are open to learning new things and that you value the other person's opinion.
- "Can you help me understand why you believe that?" This asks for clarification and shows that you are trying to see things from the other person's point of view.
- "What evidence do you have to support that?" This challenges the other person to think critically about their beliefs and to provide evidence to back them up.
- "I see things differently." This acknowledges that you have different beliefs, but it doesn't mean that either of you is wrong.
- "Let's talk about this more." This invites the other person to continue the conversation and to explore their beliefs in more depth.
It is important to use these phrases in a respectful and genuine way. If you come across as condescending or argumentative, the other person is likely to become defensive and closed off. Instead, focus on listening to the other person and trying to understand their perspective.
Here are some additional tips for unlocking a closed mind:
- Be patient. It takes time to change someone's mind. Don't expect to see results overnight.
- Be respectful. Even if you disagree with the other person, it is important to treat them with respect.
- Be open-minded. Be willing to listen to the other person's point of view and to consider their arguments.
- Be willing to compromise. If you are both willing to give a little, you may be able to find a solution that works for everyone.
Changing someone's mind is not always easy, but it is possible. By using the right phrases and techniques, you can start to open a closed mind and have a productive conversation.
Get your own copy of - You Can Turn Conflict into Closeness