Life in the Middle with Sharona Patrice

Episode 23: Circle of Friends

Sharona Patrice Season 2 Episode 23

Do you have a circle of friends?

A recent social media post about friendship circles inspired me to share my take on the different levels of friendship and how someone moves from our outer circle – acquaintances and colleagues – to the inner circle of people we share our most vulnerable and deepest thoughts and feelings with – our core group of VIP friends. I talk about managing expectations across the circles, the reciprocation of friendship, and the challenges of transitioning friends between the inner and outer circles.

I hope this episode helps you to reflect on your circle of friends and deepens your understanding of the importance of authenticity and connection at each level of friendship.


Episode Gems:
“We are calling people our besties, or we're saying this is the person who's a friend, but are they though? Are they showing up the way that you would want a friend to show up?”

“I think we need to be more critical and we need to really look at who we're letting into that core (friendship) circle.”


In this Episode:

  • 00:41 Talking about levels of friendship and the significance of friendship circles.
  • 02:02 The definition of a friend and what being a friend means to me.
  • 07:40 Three circles of friendship.
  • 11:24 My expectation about the core circle/VIP friends access and the value of those reciprocal friendships. 
  • 14:16 Reason, season, and lifetime friends.
  • 18:15 What happens when you let people in the core friendship circle?
  • 20:52 Assessing your circle of friends.
  • 24:35 A clear understanding and expectations from our friend circles.
  • 27:13 The importance of having an understanding of who you want in your circle of friends.


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