Wild + (finally fcking) Free: Real, Raw Stories of the Disruptors, Rebels + Revolutionaries

Pro-Ageing, Befriending our Bodies and Body Liberation with Deb Benfiled

Kylie Patchett Season 1 Episode 13

Deb Benfield has helped hundreds of women heal their relationship with food, eating, and their bodies in her 35-year career as a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist specialising in preventing and treating disordered eating.

She brings her wisdom, passion, and lived experience to the intersection of pro-aging and body liberation, and her work is rooted in helping her clients shift their body relationship from their life’s project to their life’s partner.

In this deep conversation, we cover:

  • The hierarchy of bodies, and the system of oppression any “other’d” bodies live in (including anyone who is NOT slim, white, young and beautiful) and the damage this does to our relationship with our bodies as we age
  • Deb's beautiful description of what body liberation feels like to her, and the sense of freedom and expansiveness this has opened for her in midlife
  • How to befriend out bodies and truly listen to their needs, needs which naturally change during transition points in life
  • The incidence of eating disorder remission in perimenopausal women when normal and natural body changes trigger a need to try to control as a result of feeling more vulnerable and less safe
  • The sea of ageism we are living in, the internal ageism inherent in the stories we have about what growing old means and a completely different way of framing age and ageing.
  • Fascinating research on our attitude to aging and how this impacts our actual experience of ageing

 

Find Deb online here. 

 

Also mentioned in this episode:

Sonya Renee Taylor’s work and her book Your Body Is Not An Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love 

 Jane Fonda’s interview on Wiser than Me with Julia Louis-Dreyfuss 

 Breaking the Age Code: How Your Beliefs About Ageing Determine How Long and Well You Live by Becca Levy

Ageism Unmasked: Exploring Age Bias and How to End It by Tracey Gendron 

 


 

 

✨ Ready to stop second-guessing your magic? GENIUS: YOU is your True Sidereal Human Design decoded for voice, visibility + purpose. A 60+ page personalised report and intuitive coaching audio that helps you finally see, speak + sell from your natural genius. 

50% off right now – don’t miss it → https://www.offers.kyliepatchett.com/genius




___


Come Say Hi on Instagram

Check our GSPOT: Where Genius, Truth + Legacy coliide

Browse KP offerings on our website

Learn about 1:1 Voice + Visibility Mentorships + Intensives here