Alex Lehmann Podcast - Masculinity, BDSM, Leadership

ALEX LEHMANN PODCAST

TOPICS:

• What can men get out of BDSM training?
• Holding FRAME vs. Giving CONTAINMENT.
• Leadership is needed to be a good Dom, to hold a scene from beginning to end.
• A man needs to be self-contained first if he is going to contain anyone else.
• It takes a while for men to come into their own.  It makes sense that women pair with men older than themselves.
• First contain your woman, then see what problems still exist in your dynamic.
• Women are getting sick of weak men, en masse.
• There is a difference between showing a woman your heart and asking her to contain you.
• Arousal lives on the other side of Containment.
• Understanding archetypes and their necessity.
• The Dom & sub archetypes hold the erotic reservoir; the husband & wife archetypes do not hold eros.
• Role Play is a gateway to switching over from domestic archetypes.
• Human beings seem experts today in screwing up great Loverships.
• Mastery as a genuine source of self-esteem.
• Contribution as a genuine source of self-esteem.
• The man who finds himself right is very attractive.
• It’s good for men to fail early and often.
• Leadership mastery translates to different domains — from erotic to professional.
• Leaders promise a brighter future.

— Om Rupani 

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