THERE ARE 2 TYPES OF WOMEN IN THE WORLD1.  Those who believe that their full SOUL EXPRESSION can only occur independent of any   man, independent or any relationship with a man, independent of any marriage with a man.  

PODCAST WITH KELLY BROGAN - BDSM SCENE CONSTRUCTIONS FOR CATHARSISTimestamps:[00:00] Introduction[03:05] How BDSM intersects with trauma, pleasure, and healing[05:12] Understanding the father-daughter dyna...

ANSWER YOUR CALL!  OR GET OFF THE POT!Lauren and I giving some tough love to you women who are on the fence about answering your call.  We wholeheartedly urge you to take courage and step towards the bit of uncertain...

PODCAST WITH EYLA CUENCA —TOPICS:I feel for you people who binge watch my material.Containment for a birth doula.  Containment in birth space.The energetics of Contain...

SHIFTING PRIESTESS TRAINING FROM VIENNA TO NEW JERSEYHello Everyone.  Lauren and I are pivoting our next Priestess Training from Vienna back to Jersey City, NJ.We are doing so in response to the needs an...

POLARITY GLITCHES : 01 ARE YOU FOLLOWING YOUR MAN?  OR, ARE YOU ‘LETTING HIM LEAD’?Many couples who have switched from an egalitarian model of relating towards a more polarized form of relating are still feeling quite exh...

PRIESTESS TRAINING - BALANCING PERSONAL & PROFESSIONAL ENERGIESIt’s a common inquiry among women considering this training about balancing their work life with their desires for personal partnerships.  Lauren and I di...

PODCAST : WOMEN’S DISCONTENTMENT WILL END THE WORLD. TOPICS:Challenges of Eros in long-term relationships.The correct purpose of a long-term partnership.Dropping birth...

Priestess Training in Vienna!  March - July 2025The next run of the Priestess Training will be in Vienna.All the course details are at : https://omrupa...

Of Vegans and Nice Guys and SubmissivesA broad conversation on my favorite topics of BDSM, Masculinity and Man-Woman Relating in today's culture.— Om Rupani

SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS ARE ABOUT GIVING YOUR PARTNER WHAT THEY NEED, WANT & DESIRE.My personal relationship philosophy is no more complex than the above statement.  Give your partner want your partner wants.  C...

10 BDSM Skills That Can Inform All Relationships : 06 - Own Each Other! / Or, How Relationships Die!Owning a human being is a concept that is a bit out of date by normal standards.As with all things in the BD...

ANNOUNCING NEW IN-PERSON, 7-DAY RETREAT.  IN CYPRUS!  FEBRUARY ’25.I’m very excited to be announcing a new Intensive BDSM Retreat that I will be offering, starting in February 2025.  The worksh...

TALKING TO MY FRIEND JENELLE - A GRADUATE OF OUR PRIESTESS TRAINING.Janelle came into the Priestess Training with little to no knowledge about BDSM, and with very little connection to her own Dominant or submissive archetypes....

DO WOMEN NEED TO BE KEPT IN CHECK?Not all women.  But the women who have the desire for being in a hierarchical relationship should understand this point : One of the functions and responsibilities of th...

MEN - DON’T TRY TO PARTNER WITH A WOMAN WHO DOESN’T NEED YOU!Men need to be needed.  Men want to be useful.Men’s esteem is intricately connected to them making themselves into the kind of men who ...

Speaking on various topics related to BDSM, eros and man-woman relating.

What is a Reclaimed Woman - with Kelly Brogan MDKelly discusses her new book, The Reclaimed Woman which unpacks bitterness and resentment of the modern day woman through rich narratives and thoughtful critiqu...

ASK A PRODOMME!Conversation with Geraecka Lyonns about:The cathartic possibilities in BDSM play.Architecting humiliation play.Releasing shame and guilt through punishment s...

REGAINING OUR EDGE AS MEN - PODCAST WITH DANIELE WHITEIn this conversation, Daniel and Om Rupani discuss the concept of masculinity and the importance of men finding their edge. They address the false eq...

UPCOMING COURSES WITH LEAH PIPER. SACRAMENTO; MAY 10-12.Leah and I discuss the possibilities in both the tantric and BDSM traditions.  We will be teaching a new course titled : MAKING SEX DIRTY AGAIN, that will offer the ...

GRADUATES OF PRIESTESS TRAINING SHARING ABOUT THIER EXPERIENCEThe next run of Priestess Training starts on June 22.Several of our graduates share here about their experience with the course....

10 BDSM SKILLS THAT CAN INFORM ALL RELATIONSHIPS : 05 - END YOUR SCENE!Long-term couples are often struggling with recapturing the spark they felt with each other during the beginning of their connections.Reg...

MEN SHOULD RESIST THE URGE TO SPEAK & ACT ANONYMOUSLY IN THIS WORLD***************UPCOMING COURSE FOR MEN —-DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY :

THE SHADOW SIDE OF NICE GUY IDENTITY*(This is part of the module from the upcoming course DISMANTLING THE NICE GUY IDENTITY)Nice guys aren’t all that nice, it turns out.Nice guys are often h...