Couples' Course - Student Testimonials

COUPLES’ COURSE - STUDENT TESTIMONIALS

Next Course - November 12-17.  Dominican Republic.

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Transcript

SPEAKER_06 0:00

Share a few highlights, whatever you feel you got out of the course. Speak freely.

SPEAKER_03 0:06

I think the most important thing um I get out of the course is the deep understanding of my masculinity, that's one thing. I have a deeper understanding of the psyche of the woman, of the women around the world, and a much, much deeper understanding of the fabric of relationships, how it's being woven together, and all these little strings that you put into a relationship to yeah, create a nice piece of relational uh tissue. Yes.

SPEAKER_07 0:44

Since I'm six years old, I'm studying men-women relationship. And this week was like so touching. Because some somehow it softened my heart so much. And I always loved men, but now it's more like, oh, I can be really soft around the good men. And I understood. And it's so I also understood what I can do, you know, to soften myself. Because so many times we think, oh, a man has to be different. No, I I have the choice. And I can make a difference, and then things around, you know, around me change. And this is what I learned from from my side.

SPEAKER_06 1:27

Wonderful. Anything you want to share around sensuality, around eros? If you don't, we can ask another question.

SPEAKER_03 1:34

Um put put the question more in more specifically.

SPEAKER_06 1:37

Like about did you what have did you learn about in the erotic provisioning? How to better erotically provision for your women, what she needs from you, what you can bring her, how you can be more better provider for her in the erotic realm.

SPEAKER_03 1:51

I understood in this week a lot about um male provision and uh how I fell short in quite a few fields in the past. And now I get, in a way, templates, I get ideas, I get experiments. We had somatic experiences doing the workshop that gave me a much, much better idea how to handle sensuality in a um in a good relationship. And all the tools that we received in this workshop are so great, their work so amazing. Um after the first time of practice, I say, oh wow, why didn't I get this in school uh 40 years ago?

SPEAKER_07 2:35

And what I observed is that it took like all the performance pressure off of both of us. Not only, you know, it's not an individual thing, it's like, oh, you don't have to perform. It's you get so many ideas how you can how you can penetrate and contemplate not contemplate, um give containment, the two things together. There are so many more ways that work in short time and in a long time, and that's like mind-blowing and trying changing.

SPEAKER_06 3:11

Uh respect for the masculine was a topic in this class. Anything you want to share as a man or a woman on how that impacted you or what you're taking away.

SPEAKER_03 3:22

Well, respect for the man. I understood much more about masculinity and about the respect men should have from their women, that men should have from the world, but also the respect men give to women and to the world and to building this world um in a much better place. And I had a much, much deeper understanding now about how to do it and how to be an architect. An architect of yeah, good, healthy relationships that will be for good for for uh benefit of this planet and of course relationships.

SPEAKER_07 4:01

I think the only thing I can do as a woman is a respect a man. I think I'm done.

SPEAKER_06 4:08

Any message for couples out there regarding this kind of work or this kind of approach to man woman related.

SPEAKER_03 4:19

Put the uh question a different different way.

SPEAKER_06 4:22

Like if the people who might be considering this training but are hesitant are like, is this for us? I'm sure every couple who came to this class was also wondering at some point, is this for us? If you have some message for them to help them decide.

SPEAKER_03 4:44

Well, training, I guess, on the planet, that way alone for couples, to have a much deeper understanding how relationships can work out in a very good way. The knowledge that is being shared here, you will never get it in any book or AI, whatever. It is so deep and it comes from so deep from the heart and from the soul. It's like secret knowledge, and you just get it here, and once it revealed to you, you think you found um yeah a big case of gems, diamonds, all at once. And now it's for us to bring this treasure back to the world and then and bring it into our relationship and of course into the world. Feedback.

SPEAKER_07 5:28

Yeah, and if you're looking for honesty, this is the place to go. It's yeah, it's not about bullshit, it's uh it's about being honest to yourself and honest to you know the partner. And I think if you're craving for that and if you're open for that, then this is the right space.

SPEAKER_06 5:46

Wonderful. Thank you. I do one more.

SPEAKER_03 5:48

Okay. Um if your relationship is working out, or even it's not working out, you can do a lot of things. You can do therapy, you can read books, you can get the advice of your friends, but you can also come here and change the way you look into relationships, you look in the world. And this will be the most Yeah, I think, changing process in this week for a relationship. Even if you've been together for 30 years or 20 years. Here you learn all the things behind it, how you can change it, and how you can go together in a happy future, I would say. Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 6:28

Wonderful. Thank you. Any highlights you want to share? Whatever you got, the biggest pieces for you to overview?

SPEAKER_01 6:36

Yeah. Um I think for me some of the biggest highlights is really just being so feeling so called out on the shit that I need to work on and um how much I've missed that in my whole life. Um it brings me pain that I haven't found this sooner in many ways. Um, and now it feels like I need to do something with this information. I can't just like come inside me and sit. It has to, uh action has to come from it. Um, so yeah, I really enjoyed really taking in um just so much to bring forward into our relationship, into myself as a man in this world, walking this world, holding myself more accountable, holding other men more accountable that walk with me.

SPEAKER_05 7:24

A highlight for me has been being a woman who does this work and is deeply immersed in this field of work, is there's not a lot of environments or containers that I get to actually submit in or surrender in and get to be in a position where I just get to practice receiving because there's such high-quality instruction being provided to my man that I can relax into and surrender to and allow him to be learning on my body while I'm in a receptive state.

SPEAKER_06 7:51

We talked a lot about male provisioning. Uh, anything you want to say generally in that area, whatever it gets up for you, including if you want to talk about what you may have gotten regarding the erotic provisioning of your own.

SPEAKER_01 8:04

Yeah, I think there's something to be said about the curriculum that was given in such like simplicity and how easy it was to really receive as a man the feedback needed for a healthy relationship between me and my woman, a healthy relationship even between me and myself and the world around me, um, around just sort of like these levels and layers of provisioning. Um, and specifically something that's come up in our relationship is erotic provisioning, where I'm with a very incredibly advanced woman and meeting my own truths and my own deaths, even of where I've fallen short. And um, just in the last 24 to 36 hours of leaving this woman so satisfied, uh, has just like poured itself back into me like a waterfall. Uh, and so it's all it's all been worth it and just for that alone.

SPEAKER_05 9:06

For me, I once had a teacher say that you don't know anything unless you can teach it to an 11-year-old. And I would say there's no better way to describe Ohm's work of how much he's able to take incredibly large concepts and distill them down into like an essential oil that is digestible for like the average human to be able to implement into their relationships. And in the topic of provisioning, there's another piece around like me, I received like a lot of feeling validated in some things I haven't been able to put words to, where I haven't been provided for, either in this relationship or other relationships, or with my father or men in general that have me feeling like I can't show up in some particular way. And another piece that I love about this container is it's not either person's fault, but Omhot holds both parties accountable. So it's like you, this is where you are failing. This is all the stuff you need to do. There's nothing wrong with her. This is you need to take full responsibility. And you, these are all the things you need to do. And basically screw how he's showing up. Your job is to be open and receptive. And I really respond well to that of like, how can we both take care of our sides of the fence and continue to show up instead of like, I'll be more feminine once you're more masculine, or you know, you'll be more masculine when I'm more feminine. And that dance that is a bind that we can get caught in.

SPEAKER_06 10:30

Wonderful. Respect for the masculine was a big topic. Uh, share whatever came up for both of you around that.

SPEAKER_01 10:40

Yeah. Um I think for me, things that came up around respect for the masculine has been um how much I feel like it's something I should expect versus something that I uh need to earn. And sitting with the truth of that is just like a knife, a dagger in the heart of just like real truth, real honesty. And um I've never in my life received such a strong imprint of like true masculinity in many ways. And yeah, just feeling really called out uh in a healthy way and in a good way. And um feeling a lot of empowerment from that.

SPEAKER_05 11:30

How I was impacted about the area of the container that addressed respect and masculinity and respecting men and how we show up has been how much my side of the fence and my responsibility isn't to just respect everyone I'm around and isn't just to respect all men as a default, but it's to make a conscious choice to surround myself with men that I feel respect for, even if that's three people and to almost guard my heart and my openness and my receptivity and protect it by being more aware of the company that I keep, by being really intentional around like, oh, I notice I feel anger and just like resentment and disgust and lack of respect for this man. I'm not gonna surround myself with him because it's gonna bleed over into how I treat my man or how I treat other men because it's seeping into that. And so part of it to me is providing that containment around protecting your own mindset, your own perception of reality and almost like controlling your experience of reality by being like, these are the things I like experiencing and I like believing, and I'm gonna protect it with my life.

SPEAKER_06 12:40

Wonderful. Last one, any message for others? Both of you probably know a lot of people doing all kinds of personal work. Any message you have for them or anybody who might be considering the course, looking at the page and thinking, I'm not sure this is for me.

SPEAKER_01 12:56

Yeah. Um if you need to hear the truth, then you gotta come take this course. Um, it feels just like uh truly like a fine precision blade. Um, yeah, deeply cutting, deeply impactful, um, and and healing all in the same cut. Um I found myself, yeah, just like waiting to figure out when the next one is and to dive more into you know the individual work for me as a man. Um I can take this work with my woman and we can grow in our relationship together. Um but to come into that, I need to do my own individual work as well outside of it.

SPEAKER_05 13:41

Yeah, what I have to say is this is a hard container. It's triggering, it's gonna bring up emotional content. And anything that's coming up, in my experience, is wanting to come out, is wanting to be purged, is wanting to be released from your system. And that's what this is activating edge work. And it fucking hurts. And it's going to cut through all delusion and all illusion you have about who you are, how you are, how you are in a relationship, what's true about your relationship, whose fault it is, all of the things. And for me, it's like there are people in this life who this is not their work in the world. This is not what they came here to do. And for myself, I'm just like such a truth seeker. I can't lay in bed at night without knowing there's like a deeper truth that I need to find. And so who I recommend this for is people who life isn't working for, who don't have the life that they want and know and feel this call and yearning to something more. I would say something that I like about how Olm introduces this work is like, I'm not saying this is a fundamental law of the universe. This is just what I found works. I'm saying it's a fundamental law of the universe. And if you look around for people who really try this work on, is it works? It is a working dynamic. It doesn't mean other things can't, but this is one way that is a through line. And what I love that Ohm talks about is the through line isn't just to a happy, healthy relationship. It's what can come after through someone like in a king and in a queen energy that are in agreement and union with one another, and then what can come through both of their vessels. And that's the whole point of any of it. Thank you.

SPEAKER_06 15:20

Tell us your highlights from the course.

SPEAKER_02 15:22

Yeah, I'll I'll start. So two of the pieces that I really got out of this uh course were around containment and not this idea of just like I got you, but this idea, this deeper feeling of your whole life is well managed, well taken care of. Those places where um I can see you deeper because instead of just ignoring these places where there's little bracing or concerns, I have real attention on it. And there was some great tools given to actually be able to get the information without all the drama. That's a big change for us. Um, and then this process piece around um creating, well, let's see, uh later talked about creating agreements. Um, but yeah, so the the containment piece alone was was was huge.

SPEAKER_08 16:09

Thank you. Um yeah, one of the highlights for me was really realizing uh all the ways that um that I have um not really shown up um in a way that he feels rewarded, that he really feels um like I really receive what he provisions for me, that I don't really like give him the wins, um, and that maybe I have assumed that bringing forth the problems or the issues that I feel need more attention um is serving us, and actually they actually just deplete and um really create a a system of of loss for him and how deep, how deep that runs and and how much um I want. I want to create a winning circuit between us, and I really want to be able to receive what he gives and let him know how important it is and really let him feel that I I let it in, that it really touches me and that it's worth provisioning.

SPEAKER_02 17:17

I I'd like to add two, two other pieces too. One is around agreements, like we thought we had an understanding of what agreement was, but agreements are so much deeper, creating this win-win circuit, the circuit of reciprocity. Um that landed in a whole new way. There's so many ways where I thought agreement was one of us sort of getting our way and being able to go deeper to actually find the thing that's true between us that really works for us. Um, and then making sure she's filled with pleasure, like satiated with pleasure. I love the point that you know, you can't, it's hard to even diagnose a relationship until she feels well contained, cared for, and is satiated with pleasure.

SPEAKER_06 17:56

Wonderful. We talked a lot about uh respect being important and the dynamic, whatever you feel like saying about all that material.

SPEAKER_02 18:07

Mm-hmm. I'll start with that one. So this sense of respect is in like I'm providing so much in all the all the energies, everything that my presence, um, financials, um attention and care is all some form of provisioning. And and there's this way where and how valuable that is, and then that's met with like her reciprocity, her receptivity, sorry, her receptivity, her um her radiance and her rewards. And how one of the things that's so interesting about this is before I was coming from this place of almost like entitlement, of thinking like I'm deserve these things, and the respect piece landed deeply in my system of like I need to respect that I'm delivering these things and solid on that. And and by holding a sense of these things, these this should be respected, it should be respected in certain ways, um, from a loving place creates this uh bit more polarity in our relationship, which um brings out the sense of dominance and care that I really want to care for this woman who I feel truly respected. Do you want to add to that?

SPEAKER_08 19:23

Yes, I would love to add that um I think I have created all kinds of weird distortions that um that deep, deep respect, even in language, even in addressing him, um, he even in in letting uh like really letting myself be quiet in moments and really see what his ideas, where he wants to take us, what how he wants to care for things, how a situation wants to be handled, that um all of that was almost like losing my own self-respect. And I realized that the more um I allow um my receptivity and my radiance to be the thing that draws that forward and that leadership forward, then actually I I can I can bow to this man with so much love and so much gratitude because his heart just pours forth for me. And um, and it's easy and it doesn't take anything or diminish me in any way. If anything, it makes me feel so loved and so cared for.

SPEAKER_06 20:30

Beautiful. Oh, you already said so many things, but if there's like one thing sticking out for each of you, like this I want to bring more of in my dynamic, this I want to contribute more to my partner. One thing that's in the foreground for both of you.

SPEAKER_02 20:43

Yeah, I'll start with this is I really want to bring a sense of leadership. And leadership to is, I love the transmission of leadership here. It's really taking ownership that things are functioning well in our relationship. This goes to the agreements part, the satiate part, the containment part. Um, there's all these subtle ways I was subtly making something her fault or blaming her or putting it on her in some way. And I love the fact that I'm just recollecting all that to take real ownership um to create the life and use the tools and move lead our relationship.

SPEAKER_08 21:22

And I'm when I really move forward with um really reminding myself how much my smile, um my tone, um the beauty that I bring forth in our life to him is so deeply loved and so deeply cherished, and that it's worth it.

SPEAKER_06 21:47

Beautiful. Any messages to couples out there who might be considering this kind of work training? Somebody who may be looking at it and wondering, huh, I wonder if this is domain, maybe not. Looks kind of scary.

SPEAKER_02 21:59

Right. Start on this one.

SPEAKER_08 22:01

Um, I'll say it is scary. It is scary because it really calls forth self-responsibility. And it's always so easy, I know, for me to go into victim mindset and to think that it's other people's fault. And um, and taking self-responsibility is scary. It makes you look at a lot of our own darkness and our own shadow, and um, it really calls us up into a higher place, and that is scary. It has been scary. There's been all kinds of things we've had to look at this week in very deep ways, and um try and own them. And it's not for the faint of heart by any means, but it's so well worth it.

SPEAKER_02 22:44

Yeah, um, that's beautiful. I'll mention uh she first started this this type of journey and working with um Sir Ohm, and I remember her coming home one day and she was had just heard a podcast and was in tears. I was like, whatever that is, you need you gotta take that. It was a priestess course. And I knew that I told her right then and there that this path is either gonna break us or make us. I could really feel it was gonna break us or make us, and what I love about this and landed for me even today was like it does, it keeps actually breaking us and then remaking us. And it's this ongoing cycle, and we stay with it. And the material here was so deep. Um, we've struggled with these issues for eight years. I'm really motivated for what we have. I have a whole new hope for what we're gonna be able to create, and I'm really excited. We just got married about a year ago, and um I'm really, really grateful to have this material. I think it's the kind of thing you know when you're in it, you're like, everybody should hear this. Like, why aren't they teaching this in school?

SPEAKER_08 23:47

Why isn't everyone here?

SPEAKER_02 23:48

Right. And the fierceness and the delivery is just what I needed to really move my system. So yeah.

SPEAKER_06 23:57

Wonderful. Thank you so much.

SPEAKER_08 23:58

Thank you so much.

SPEAKER_06 23:59

That's any own words. What were the highlights were for you? Any big pieces that stick out from the week?

SPEAKER_00 24:05

The highlights for me were the relationship lessons that were laid out, and really can simplify them. A very dense um amount of information, but for me it was just pay attention to my woman, contain her, and be consistent. And that will be a win. And um, and then setting her up for wins for us and me.

SPEAKER_04 24:35

I think for me, um, well, following your lead on the lessons that we learned, I definitely have learned to soften and give you my full receptivity without holding back and really feeling the difference that that makes in your system and how it brings your bigness out when I allow myself to soften, even as much as like when we're sitting on our mat, and rather than like holding myself upright, which is super exhausting, allowing myself to just like relax on you and let you have me.

SPEAKER_00 25:11

It feels so good when you do that. That's just when I reach for you and you just collapse into me. And you talked about that during the during the container, and yeah, it really felt good. And especially I like the trajectory of our week where it just got better and better and better, and you know, there was bumps and how we communicated those um mini breakdowns and how we came out of that really stronger and closer. And it was a beautiful week. I'm so thankful that I said yes to this.

SPEAKER_06 25:43

We talked a lot about uh how important respect is in a good dynamic and how much men need that thing. Anything to share on that topic?

SPEAKER_00 25:54

Sally Ann is one of the most gracious people, and for me that translates into respect. Um, she appreciates so much my provisioning and um the life that we have, the life that we've created. It hasn't always been easy. 21 years there's been ebb and flows, and we were on a downward spiral a little bit before we came here and coming up, and we that we were getting close, and I feel that we're more than a 10% win on this. Um, and um so for me, that's the respect is when Sally's very I she's always very gracious, so I love that about her. It makes me feel very good to provide for her.

SPEAKER_04 26:36

I think for me that um I didn't realize how many like microaggressions of disrespect were just kind of built into my being from being raised in modern society, and really being able to sink in and feel the somatics of what respect feels like, for really admiring looking at my man's good qualities, being able to make um requests uh for the small cur the small like adjustments just uh from a place of graciousness rather than from like the cutting place that I was doing it before, having a week to practice that and be in the field so I could feel actually how much it hurts my heart and steals my softness when I like get into that cutting place was really powerful. And then as always, like seeing the impact of just like the more that my respect comes in for you, the more you want to provision, the more you want to give to me.

SPEAKER_05 27:46

Yes.

SPEAKER_04 27:46

Um, and the more attuned you are with my body, actually, when I'm in that place of softness and knowing that I need to have, I need to want my softness more than anything else. And I'm willing to give up everything else to claim that softness for myself and rely on you and need you.

SPEAKER_06 28:05

Wonderful. We talked a lot about a necessity of going giving good containment to our women. Anything on the topic of containment I think it's so critical.

SPEAKER_00 28:15

I mean, I think almost everybody when they got up and talked about their qualities said they want their contain, they want to be better at containment and they want to be consistent. I think, you know, 20 of the 20 men said that. Um and I think we're really it's valuable to hold space and hold energy for your women. And so she feels safe, and and that can lead to softness, it can lead to wins, it can lead to um deeper love for each other. Um, so the men, yeah, work on it and make sure that you're consistent with it. It's hard, it's a lot easier said than done, but we know what we have to do, and I know what I have to do, and now it's just do it.

SPEAKER_04 29:03

I really feel like this is a department that you naturally are very strong. Um and when you're in it, when your focus is on me, I feel very contained. And so I think that consistency was the biggest takeaway for me was like, oh, actually, I want this, I crave this all the time. And it's okay like allowing myself to be needy about it and to like ask for containment and stop this like nonsense of self-containing because I was raised, you know, we all have our backgrounds and our histories. I was raised to be very self-contained, very good at that. But the price of self-containment is my softness and my radiance. And so just realizing, like, oh, I can just ask for it whenever I need to. And if it feels like I I want your attention, that I want your containment, I can just request it. And there's no shame in that. There's so much beauty in being able to do that. And there's never a time that like you didn't meet me in that or say, like, oh, yes, in five minutes, or you know, like I don't know. It was a beautiful cycle.

SPEAKER_06 30:16

Yeah. Wonderful. Last one, any message to couples out there who might be considering this kind of training? Because it really actually may not be for everybody. So it's like if you were to tell them, hey, if this is you, this training might be for you. If this is you, this training actually may not work for you.

SPEAKER_00 30:33

Yeah, so yes. It's easy. Um, it's an easy yes. And it took me longer than most to get to yes, and I'm so thankful I did. And I'll take these lessons forever going forward. And I think this class will really impact couples going forward. And I think you have hit on a winning formula for couples. So I would encourage everyone to get out of their comfort zone, or if you're in a rough spot, say yes.

SPEAKER_04 31:05

I I do recognize that Ohm's not the teacher for everybody. However, I do believe that if you are in a heteronormative relationship, um, that this model will work for everybody. Uh, I do think in order to show up in this particular classroom with the intensity um that it's important that you want in your deepest soul to recondition your body and to take out the societal egalitarian uh desire and to really want to feel what the polarity of masculine, feminine energy and uh leadership followership feels like in your body. I know for us in our particular couplehood, we haven't really quite decided what we're gonna do with all that information, but at least having the clear structure to be able to have in our systems and the language and communication to fit our pieces together that are uniquely just ours is like has saved our marriage, really, at the end of the day, because I think we were in so much rupture and so much disrepair and disagreement, and now we have the path forward. Would you agree?

SPEAKER_00 32:25

I absolutely I said that in our wrap-up uh closing container, and um I feel completely different. I feel so hopeful, so optimistic. I can't wait to live my life with this woman for the next so how many years I have, and I'm so excited for all the things that we can accomplish, all the things that we can do, and all the great sex, you know, the great love that we can have coming up. Yay! Wonderful. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, sir.

SPEAKER_08 32:54

Thank you, Master.

SPEAKER_00 32:54

Thank you so much.