Enneagram with JB: A Podcast About Enneagram Personalities

When Helping Becomes Hiding: The Enneagram 2, Trauma, and Finding Yourself After Losing Yourself

Jackie Brewster Season 4 Episode 10

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In this deeply personal and powerful conversation, Jackie sits down with Ro Elliot to explore a journey of healing, identity, and transformation that didn’t fully begin until age 58.

Ro is an Enneagram coach passionate about helping women—especially in midlife transitions—rediscover who they are beyond the roles they’ve carried. 

Ro shares her story of growing up with deep insecurity, navigating disorganized attachment, walking through chronic illness, and discovering the Enneagram later in life. Together, Jackie and Ro unpack how attachment, faith, and inner work intersect—and why it is never too late to come home to yourself.

This episode is for anyone who feels like they’ve lived most of their life for others… and are just now beginning to ask, “Who am I?”

If you feel like you’ve spent years showing up for everyone else…
this episode is your invitation to gently turn toward yourself.

Nothing about you is too late.
Nothing about your story is wasted.

You are still becoming.

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