All Can No Can't | Motivation Podcast

081: People Don’t Care What Happened to You — They Care How You Respond

Jeff Luther | Mens Coach

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What if the thing holding you back isn’t what happened to you—but how you’re responding to it?

In this solo episode of All Can No Can't, Jeff Luther gets raw and real about one of the hardest-earned lessons from his near-death experience: people don’t care what happened to you, they care how you respond. Not in a heartless way—but in a deeply human one. Because the truth is, your story doesn’t define you—your comeback does.

Jeff breaks down what happens when life hits hard—divorce, betrayal, layoffs, illness—and why the most powerful thing you can do isn’t wallow in it, but rise from it. From surviving sudden cardiac death to rebuilding a coaching business and proving what’s possible, Jeff shares how choosing “can” over “can’t” became his blueprint for transformation.

This episode challenges you to rethink victimhood, take ownership of your comeback, and understand that your response is your legacy. If you're navigating chaos, loss, or disappointment, this message will light a fire in you to keep going—not for sympathy, but for strength.

People don’t remember your excuses. They remember your grit.

Tune in, take notes, and flip your story into a strategy.

Chapters
00:00 – Intro: All Can No Can’t Mindset
01:00 – Why This Solo Episode Matters
02:00 – People Don’t Care What Happened to You
04:00 – Emotional Reactions and the World Moving On
06:00 – Your Response Is Your Legacy
07:30 – Jeff’s Cardiac Death & Comeback
09:00 – Choosing Can Over Can’t
11:00 – What Your Kids Remember
12:00 – Flip the Story: What Will You Do Next?
13:00 – Weekly Challenge: Be the Reason
14:00 – Outro + Coaching Invite

Host: Jeff Luther
📍 Website: jeffluther.com
📱 Instagram: @allcan_nocant
💼 LinkedIn: Jeff Luther
🎥 YouTube: @allcan_nocant


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