All Can No Can't | Mastering Resilience
Welcome to All Can, No Can't – the podcast where we turn "I can’t" into "I can" and transform challenges into opportunities.
I’m your host, Jeff Luther, and I started this journey after dying on a CrossFit gym floor and getting a life-changing diagnosis. This experience forced me to confront what I thought I couldn’t do—and taught me just how much more I was capable of.
Each week, we’ll dive into stories, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you focus on what’s possible—even when life throws you curveballs. Whether it’s personal struggles, professional hurdles, or those quiet doubts that whisper "you’re not enough," this podcast is here to help you push forward.
Because when you stop fixating on the can’t and lean into the can, you’ll realize you’re stronger than you ever thought. Let’s do this together.
Let's Master resilience together.
All Can No Can't | Mastering Resilience
104: Most anxiety isn’t about failure, it’s about living someone else’s plan
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Most people aren’t stuck because they’re weak.
They’re stuck because they’re following a script that was never theirs.
In this episode of All Can, No Can’t, Jeff Luther talks with pathfinding coach Hillary Spiritos about resilience, mindset, leadership, and what it really means to build a life aligned with your values—not expectations.
In this conversation:
-Why Millennials and Gen Z question broken systems
-How childhood beliefs quietly shape adult decisions
-The pressure around college, success, and “security”
-Leadership that starts with personal responsibility
-Building resilience without burning your life down
This episode is for anyone navigating uncertainty, identity shifts, or the weight of external pressure—and choosing to face it honestly.
Suggested Chapters:
00:00 Questioning broken systems
02:30 Living someone else’s script
06:00 College, pressure, and expectations
12:00 Parents, projection, and fear
18:30 Childhood stories and adult choices
25:00 Redefining success and resilience
Guest Links:
Website: https://batouttahell.net/
TikTok/Instagram: @bat.outta_hell
Calendly: https://calendly.com/batouttahell
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