All Can No Can't | Mastering Resilience

105: The bottom isn’t the end. It’s where clarity finally shows up with {Guest Hilary Momberger Powers}

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What happens when your entire identity is built on being who others need you to be?
This conversation goes deeper than resilience—it’s about responsibility, recovery, and reclaiming yourself.

In this powerful episode of All Can, No Can’t, Jeff Luther speaks with Hilary Momberger Powers—the original voice of Sally Brown—about identity, addiction, leadership, and what it takes to stop living as a character and start living as yourself.

In this episode, you’ll hear:
-Why many high performers learn to perform for love early in life
-How trauma shapes identity—and how to outgrow it
-The real role of addiction in escaping the self
-Why hitting bottom can become a superpower
-Leadership lessons forged through adversity and accountability

This is a grounded conversation about resilience, mindset, leadership, overcoming adversity, and personal responsibility—without clichés or easy answers.

Chapters / Timestamps (Suggested):
00:00 – The need to be loved for who you are
02:00 – Child stardom and early responsibility
08:30 – Performance vs presence
10:00 – Addiction as escape, not rebellion
15:00 – Victimhood vs responsibility
19:30 – Recovery, choice, and rebuilding
27:00 – Turning scars into tools

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