All Can No Can't | Mastering Resilience
Welcome to All Can, No Can't – the podcast where we turn "I can’t" into "I can" and transform challenges into opportunities.
I’m your host, Jeff Luther, and I started this journey after dying on a CrossFit gym floor and getting a life-changing diagnosis. This experience forced me to confront what I thought I couldn’t do—and taught me just how much more I was capable of.
Each week, we’ll dive into stories, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you focus on what’s possible—even when life throws you curveballs. Whether it’s personal struggles, professional hurdles, or those quiet doubts that whisper "you’re not enough," this podcast is here to help you push forward.
Because when you stop fixating on the can’t and lean into the can, you’ll realize you’re stronger than you ever thought. Let’s do this together.
Let's Master resilience together.
All Can No Can't | Mastering Resilience
120: Choose Yourself: Rebuilding from Rock Bottom with Hakeem Born McFarlane
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Hakeem Born McFarlane speaker, coach, and founder of the Choose Yourself movement joins Jeff Luther to talk about what it actually takes to rebuild your life from zero.
Hakeem's story involves losing his little brother to cancer at 16, chasing identity through Division I sports, battling addiction and incarceration, and ultimately rebuilding his life on a foundation of radical self-honesty and daily systems. This isn't a redemption story. It's a story about responsibility.
In this episode, Jeff and Hakeem get into the Choose Yourself philosophy what it means, where it came from (eight days in isolation), and how the boundary bullseye framework helps you stop building your life from the outside in. They also dig into forgiveness, the real cost of choosing yourself, and what self-belief actually requires when no one's watching.
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