
Self Directed
Self Directed - A Podcast on Life, Learning, and Raising Free Thinkers. Hosts Cecilie and Jesper Conrad, full-time travellers since 2018 and parents of four, invite a new guest on the podcast every Thursday.
Episodes
123 episodes
117: Dr. Cam Caswell | Why Control Fails and Connection Works with Teens
Dr. Cam joins us to discuss parenting teenagers and why efforts to control them often create more distance. She explains how control can undermine trust and why focusing on connection leads to better results.We discuss the difference bet...
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Episode 117
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49:29

116: Jacob Nordby | Rethinking Freedom: Purpose, Ritual, and the Value of Being
In this conversation with author and speaker Jacob Nordby, we explore the paradox of freedom in modern life. Is it simply doing whatever we want—or does real freedom require something deeper?While many consider freedom to be about...
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Episode 116
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1:15:08

115: Yasmin & Andy | Beyond Boundaries: One Family's Journey from England to Jungle Living in Belize
Yasmin and Andy left a comfortable life in the UK to join a small off-grid community in the jungles of Belize.Fifteen years after cycling through Central America, Yasmin and Andy returned—this time with three kids and a desire for a diff...
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Episode 115
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57:56

114: Amanda Diekman | Radical Acceptance and Low Demand Parenting
In this episode, we speak with Amanda Diekman about how her parenting changed when her six-year-old son went into autistic burnout. He lost verbal communication, stopped eating most foods, and couldn't follow basic routines. Faced with a crisis...
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Episode 114
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50:18

113: Luz Olid and David Caballero | Education Evolution: Beyond Traditional Schooling
Luz and David from Evolving Education left careers in biotechnology to explore and document alternative education models worldwide. Frustrated by rigid schooling systems, they traveled to over 170 learning centers to understand how children lea...
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Episode 113
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112: Iris Chen | Untigering: From Control to Connection – Peaceful Parenting for the Tiger Parent
Iris Chen, author of Untigering: Peaceful Parenting for the Deconstructing Tiger Parent, shares how she shifted from a strict, high-expectation parenting style to a trust-based approach.Raised in a Chinese-American household, Ir...
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Episode 112
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57:02

111: Anne Kirketerp | Craft Psychology: The Link Between Crafting & Wellbeing
The moment you carve, knit, bake or start folding paper, something remarkable happens in your brain. The anxious spiral of thoughts quiets, stress hormones recede, and you enter a state that Dr. Anne Kirketerp calls "meaningful self-forgetfulne...
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Episode 111
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1:12:54

110: Asger Leth | Beyond the 9 to 5 – Finding Freedom & Creating a Space for Deep Conversations & Real Connections
What does it mean to truly connect in a world that’s becoming more digital by the day?Asger Leth is a Danish filmmaker, writer, and creative visionary known for his documentary and feature filmmaking work. He gained international ...
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Episode 110
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109: Dennis Nørmark | Are We Really Free? Pseudo-Work & Unfreedom: How Work & Society Keep Us Trapped
Much of modern work is defined by routine, efficiency targets, and the need to appear productive. But how much of it is actually necessary? Dennis Nørmark, Danish anthropologist, author, and speaker, argues that a significant part of tod...
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Episode 108
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57:12

108: Manisha Snoyer | Unschooling, Community & Rethinking Education
Traditional education often fails to nurture curiosity, creativity, and deep engagement. In this episode, we explore a different path—one that is flexible, self-directed, and built around each child’s unique interests. We discuss homeschooling,...
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Episode 108
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107: Jessica Joelle Alexander | Danish Parenting Secrets: Raising Happy & Confident Kids
What makes Danish parenting unique, and how does it raise happy, resilient kids? In this episode, we talk with Jessica Joelle Alexander, bestselling author of The Danish Way of Parenting, about Denmark’s highly regarded child-re...
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Episode 107
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1:28:28

106: Essie Richards | Breaking Free: Unschooling and Reimagining Education in the UK
How can unschooling create a safe and empowering educational path for children? In this episode, we talk with Essie Richards about her transformative journey from traditional schooling to unschooling in rural Cornwall, UK. Essie shares how her ...
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Episode 106
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1:01:19

105: Sugata Mitra | How Learning Emerges Naturally Through Self-Organizing Systems
Sugata Mitra is a renowned educational researcher and innovator best known for his revolutionary "Hole in the Wall" experiment, which demonstrated the incredible capacity of children to teach themselves when provided with access to technology. ...
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Episode 105
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1:07:59

104: Dola Dasgupta | Unschooling in India: Embracing Choice and Navigating Challenges
How does homeschooling fit into India’s diverse cultural and educational landscape? In this episode, Dola Dasgupta shares her perspective on the challenges and freedoms of homeschooling and unschooling in a country where formal education is hig...
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Episode 104
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103: Peter Gray | Rethinking Education: The Power of Play and Self-Directed Learning
Together with Peter Gray, we explored the concept of self-directed education. Peter Gray emphasizes the importance of play and independence in children's learning. The discussion highlights the shortcomings of the traditional sc...
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Episode 103
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1:31:09

102: Naomi Fisher | Changing Our Minds: How children can take control of their own learning
Naomi Fisher is a clinical psychologist, writer, and speaker with a focus on self-directed learning, unschooling, and child development. A mother of two, she draws on her professional expertise and firsthand parenting experiences to challenge c...
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Episode 102
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101: Jacob Nordby | Embracing Change and Creative Living through Self-Discovery
Jacob Nordby grew up in a strict Christian cult, isolated and homeschooled. He’s an author, creative guide, and advocate for living authentically. Jacob Nordby’s story is one of transformation; he shares how he found freedom and pu...
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Episode 101
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100: Amrit Sandhu | The Power of Consistency, Meaningful Conversations, and Gratitude.
We celebrate our 100th episode by welcoming back our first guest, Amrit Sandhu, for a journey through our podcasting evolution. Reflecting on early challenges and triumphs, Amrit shares insights on how consistency and passion can elevate creati...
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Episode 100
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99: Meryl Danziger | Unlocking Musical Potential: Following Joy, Not Rules
Meryl Danziger, founder of Music House and author of Sing It! A Biography of Pete Seeger, has redefined music education through curiosity-driven exploration. With a Master’s in Music from Goddard College and a career as a professional ...
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Episode 99
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1:34:34

98: Rebecca Jean-Charles | It Takes a Village: Community Building and Unschooling
Traditional schooling isn't the only path to socialization for children. In this conversation with Rebecca, we explore how homeschooling and unschooling empower families to build communities that align with their values.We discuss how th...
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Episode 98
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1:02:37

97: Marta Obiols Llistar | How Unschooling Transforms Teens: Self-Discovery & Resilience
What happens when you step outside traditional education to empower teenagers to discover their true selves? In this enlightening episode, we sit down with Marta to explore her journey into unschooling and its profound impact on her children an...
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Episode 97
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59:20

96: Rebecca Jean-Charles | Edugenic Harm: The Hidden Abuse of the School System
In this episode, Cecilie & Jesper Conrad sit down with Rebecca Jean-Charles to explore the concept of Edugenic Harm—how traditional education systems inadvertently harm children by normalizing control, disconnection, and compliance...
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Episode 96
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43:31

95: Marta Obiols Llistar | Teacher Turned Unschooler
Marta Obiols Llistar, a former teacher, explains why she left the traditional classroom to embrace unschooling. Marta shares how John Holt's philosophy reshaped her parenting and life, from rejecting rigid educational systems to trusting her ch...
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Episode 95
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43:02

94: Charlotte Addison | Finding Freedom Through Unschooling
Charlotte Addison is among our favorite people: A fellow traveler, unschooler, and someone with whom we have co-lived for an extended period and more to come. Together with Charlotte, we delve into how unschooling and lifelong lear...
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Episode 94
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93: Dr. Michael Greger | How Not to Age & How Not to Die: Unlock Longevity with Nutrition Insights
In this episode, we welcome Dr. Michael Greger, the best-selling author of How Not to Die and How Not to Age, who has revolutionized our understanding of nutrition and longevity. Dr. Greger dives into the transformative journe...
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Episode 93
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