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Start Strong: A Simple, Sustainable Approach to Fitness

Kris Harris Season 5 Episode 14

We share a sustainable way to start and stick with fitness by shifting from quick fixes to small, identity-building habits. Stories, science, and simple tactics show how consistency, sleep, community, and systems create results that last.

• defining the Start Strong philosophy built on tiny daily habits
• why quick fixes fail and the brain craves instant rewards
• mindset reset and self-compassion after past attempts
• two-minute rule and habit stacking for easy consistency
• consistency over intensity with real client examples
• simple nutrition swaps and hydration anchors
• sleep as recovery and micro routines for stress
• community and accountability as force multipliers
• plan for obstacles and avoid perfectionism
• systems over goals and tracking leading indicators
• identity-based habits and a one-week action plan
• handling plateaus, setbacks and long-term thinking

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Kris Harris:

Welcome back to season five of the Kore Kast. I'm Kris Harris, and we're diving deeper than ever into the core ideas that shape everything around us. This season, we're exploring the essential questions, the breakthrough discoveries, and the game-changing conversations that matter most. From science and technology to philosophy and culture, we get straight to the heart of what's driving our world forward. Season five is going to blow your mind, so let's get started. Hey there and welcome to Start Strong. I'm Kris Harris, and if you're listening to this, chances are you're at one of those crossroads we all face. Maybe you're completely new to fitness, or maybe you've tried and stopped more times than you care to count. Either way, you're here, and that's what matters. Today, we're talking about something that's going to change everything for you. A simple, sustainable approach to fitness that actually works long term. Let me start with a story that might sound familiar. Sarah came to me after trying every fitness program under the sun. She'd done the 30-day challenges, the extreme workout plans, the restrictive diets. Each time she'd start strong, see some quick results, then burn out within weeks. She told me, Kris, I feel like a failure. I just can't stick to anything. But here's the thing, Sarah wasn't the problem. The approach was. But before we dive deeper, let me ask you something. When was the last time you felt truly confident about your health and fitness? Not just for a day or a week, but sustainably confident. If you're like most people, it's been a while. Maybe never. And that's not your fault. We've been taught to think about fitness all wrong from the very beginning. Sarah's story isn't unique. I've heard variations of it hundreds of times. There's Maria, who bought every piece of home workout equipment but never used any of it for more than a month. There's David, who joined three different gyms in two years. What do all these stories have in common? They all started with the same flawed premise that dramatic change requires dramatic action. But here's what I've learned after 15 years in this industry. The most dramatic transformations come from the most boring, consistent actions. The fitness industry has sold us this idea that more is always better. Work out harder, longer, more intensely, cut out entire food groups, transform your body in 30 days. But here's what they don't tell you. These approaches have a failure rate of over 90%. That's not because people lack willpower or motivation. It's because these methods are fundamentally unsustainable. So what's the alternative? It's what I call the start strong philosophy, and it's built on one simple truth. Small, consistent actions compound into massive results over time. Think about it. Would you rather lose 10 pounds in a month and gain it all back or lose 20 pounds over six months and keep it off forever? The choice seems obvious, but somehow we keep chasing the quick fixes. Let's talk about why we're so drawn to these unsustainable approaches. It's not because we're lazy, it's because we're human. Our brains are wired to seek quick rewards, and the fitness industry exploits this brilliantly. Transform your body in 30 days. Melt fat while you sleep. These promises tap into our desire for immediate gratification, but here's the truth anything worth having takes time. Your body didn't get out of shape overnight, and it won't get back into shape overnight either. Let's start with the foundation. Mindset. Right now, I want you to let go of any guilt or shame about past attempts. Every time you've tried and stopped, you learned something valuable. You discovered what doesn't work for you, and that's actually progress. Today we're starting fresh with a completely different approach. The first principle is to start ridiculously small. And I mean ridiculously. If you want to start exercising, don't commit to an hour at the gym five days a week. Start with five minutes of movement every day. Could be a walk around the block, some stretching in your living room or dancing to two songs. The goal isn't to get an amazing workout, it's to build the habit. I know what you're thinking, but Chris, five minutes won't make a difference. You're missing the point. Those five minutes are doing something much more important than burning calories. They're rewiring your brain. Every time you follow through on your commitment, no matter how small, you're proving to yourself that you're the type of person who keeps promises to themselves. Here's the science behind why starting small works. When you perform any action, your brain creates neural pathways. The more you repeat it, the stronger those pathways become. When you commit to five minutes of movement every day, you're literally rewiring your brain to see yourself as someone who exercises. After about 66 days, that behavior becomes automatic. Once you've established that habit, your brain naturally starts to crave more, not because you're forcing it, but because you've become the type of person who moves daily. Here's a powerful strategy I teach all my clients. The two-minute rule. Whatever habit you want to build, scale it down to something that takes two minutes or less. Want to eat healthier? Don't overhaul your entire diet. Just commit to eating one piece of fruit every day. Want a strength train? Start with two push-ups against the wall. The key is making it so easy that you'd feel silly not doing it. Now, let's talk about consistency versus intensity. Our culture glorifies the all-or-nothing approach, but sustainable fitness is about showing up consistently, even when you don't feel like it. It's better to exercise for 10 minutes every single day than to crush it for two hours on Monday and then skip the rest of the week. Now I can't talk about sustainable fitness without addressing the elephant in the room, nutrition. You've probably heard that weight loss is 80% diet and 20% exercise. While I don't love reducing health to simple percentages, there's truth to the fact that what you eat matters enormously. But just like with exercise, the same principles apply. Don't overhaul your entire diet overnight. Instead, apply the two-minute rule to your eating habits. Maybe you start by adding one glass of water when you wake up, or you eat one extra vegetable with lunch, or you swap out one sugary drink for water each day. I had a client named Tom who was drinking six sodas a day. Instead of telling him to quit cold turkey, we replaced just one soda with water. Once that felt natural, we replaced another. Within six months he was down to one soda a day and had lost 15 pounds without making any other changes. Small steps, massive results. Let me give you a practical example. Mike was a former college athlete who thought he had to go all out every workout. He'd show up, push himself to exhaustion, then be too sore and tired to exercise for the next three days. We scaled it back to 20 minutes of moderate exercise daily. Within three months, he was in better shape than when he was doing those intense sporadic workouts. Here's another crucial element: habit stacking. This is where you attach your new fitness habit to something you already do consistently. For example, after I brush my teeth in the morning, I do five squats. After I pour my coffee, I do a one-minute plank. The existing habit becomes the trigger for your new behavior. Speaking of Mike, his transformation taught me something crucial. Recovery is part of fitness. You can do everything right with exercise and nutrition, but if you're only getting five hours of sleep and constantly stressed, you're fighting an uphill battle. Poor sleep disrupts hunger hormones and impairs recovery. The good news? Apply the same small steps approach to sleep. Start by going to bed just 10 minutes earlier, or create one simple wind-down ritual. These tiny changes compound over time. Another crucial element is community and accountability. We've been sold this myth of the lone wolf, but research shows that people with support systems are significantly more likely to stick to their health goals. This doesn't mean hiring a personal trainer. Maybe it's finding one friend who wants to take evening walks, or joining an online community, or simply telling your family about your commitment. When you're surrounded by people who value health, those behaviors become contagious. Let's address some common obstacles you'll face. First is the perfectionist trap. You'll have days where you miss your workout or eat something you didn't plan to. The old you might say, I've ruined everything, I'll start again Monday. The new you says, that was one decision. What can I do right now to get back on track? Never let one bad day become two. The second obstacle is comparison. Social media will show you people who seem to have it all figured out, doing intense workouts and eating perfect meals. Remember, you're not seeing their journey, just their highlight reel. Your only competition is who you were yesterday. Focus on your own progress, no matter how small it seems. This brings me to one of the most important concepts, self-compassion. The way you talk to yourself when you slip up will determine whether that becomes a temporary setback or complete derailment. Most people are incredibly harsh with themselves. Imagine if your best friend said, I missed my workout, I'm such a failure. You'd tell them they're being ridiculous. So why don't we give ourselves the same kindness? Research shows that self-compassion actually leads to better performance than self-criticism. The third challenge is impatience. We live in a world of instant gratification, but sustainable fitness is a slow burn. You might not see dramatic changes in the first month, and that's okay. Trust the process. Those daily five-minute walks are building cardiovascular health. Those wall push-ups are strengthening your muscles. The compound effect is working, even when you can't see it yet. Let me share some practical strategies that work. First, plan for obstacles. What will you do when it's raining and you can't go for your walk? Have a backup plan. Maybe it's marching in place for five minutes or doing stretches. When you plan for setbacks, they become speed bumps instead of roadblocks. Let me share a paradigm shift that changed everything. Focus on systems, not goals. A goal is an outcome you want. A system is the process that leads to that outcome. You don't rise to the level of your goals, you fall to the level of your systems. Instead of setting a goal to lose 30 pounds, create a system of daily habits, drinking more water, eating more vegetables, moving daily. Focus on perfecting these systems, and the weight loss becomes a natural byproduct. Second, track your habits, not just your results. Don't just weigh yourself or measure your waste. Track your consistency. Did you move your body today? Did you drink enough water? Did you get adequate sleep? These process goals are within your control and lead to the outcome goals you want. Third, make it enjoyable. Find forms of movement you actually like. Hate running? Don't run. Try dancing, hiking, swimming, or playing with your kids at the park. The best exercise is the one you'll actually do consistently. And please, stop punishing yourself with exercise. Movement should be a celebration of what your body can do, not a penance for what you ate. Let's talk about tracking. Think beyond the scale. Those are lagging indicators showing what happened weeks ago. Leading indicators predict future success. How many days did you move this week? How many vegetables did you eat? These are within your immediate control. I recommend tracking just one or two indicators at first. The act of tracking creates awareness and accountability and gives you data during tough times when you feel like you're not making progress. Now let's address motivation. Here's the honest truth. Motivation comes and goes like the weather. What creates lasting change is building identity-based habits. Instead of saying I want to lose weight, start saying I am someone who takes care of their body. This subtle shift changes how you see yourself. When you make decisions from this identity-based perspective, the choices become easier. Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. Here's your action plan for this week. Choose one tiny habit, and I mean tiny. Maybe it's doing 10 jumping jacks every morning or eating one extra serving of vegetables or going to bed 10 minutes earlier. Do this one thing every day for the next seven days. Don't add anything else. Don't try to be perfect. Just focus on this one habit. Remember, you're not trying to transform your entire life this week. You're simply proving to yourself that you can keep a small promise. Once this habit feels automatic and it will, then you can add something else. This is how you build unshakable confidence and lasting change. As you start this journey, be prepared for plateaus and setbacks. There will come a time when progress seems to stall. First, understand that plateaus aren't failure. They're signs that your body is adapting. Make one small adjustment and give it time to work. And about setbacks, they're not detours from your journey. They're part of it. Life will happen. Instead of viewing these as reasons to quit, view them as opportunities to practice resilience. Before we close, think bigger picture. This journey isn't just about looking better. It's about what kind of example you want to set. When you consistently take care of your body, you're showing everyone around you that health matters. Think about yourself five years from now if you stick to this approach. Imagine having boundless energy, feeling confident, and being someone others come to for advice. That person starts with the tiny habit you choose today. The compound effect of small, consistent actions is absolutely mind-blowing. Before we wrap up, I want to remind you of something important. You already have everything you need to succeed. You don't need expensive equipment, a perfect diet plan, or endless motivation. You just need to start where you are, with what you have, and take the next small step. Your fitness journey isn't about becoming someone completely different. It's about becoming more of who you already are, someone who values their health, keeps their commitments, and shows up for themselves day after day. That person is already inside you. We're just giving them permission to emerge. Thanks for joining me on Start Strong Today. I believe in you, and more importantly, I hope you're starting to believe in yourself. Choose your one tiny habit and let's see what magic happens when you start strong and stay consistent. Until next time, keep moving forward, one small step at a time. Thank you for joining me on this episode of the Kore Kast. I hope you're feeling inspired and empowered to take your health and wellness journey to the next level. Remember, every small step counts, and I'm here to support you every step of the way. If you'd enjoyed today's episode, I'd love for you to share it with your friends and family. And if you're feeling generous, consider donating at the link provided in the description. Your support helps us to keep bringing you the core cast every week, packed with valuable insights and expert advice. For more resources, tips, and updates, don't forget to visit our website at www.kore-fit.com and follow us on Instagram at KoreFitnessAZ. Join our community and let's continue this journey together. Until next time, stay healthy, stay happy, and keep striving for your best self. This is Kris Harris signing off from the Kore Kast, and I'll see you next week.