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Bonding
Welcome to Bonding – a kinky podcast hosted by me, Sarah Butcher – AKA Sub in the City. I am a BDSM Coach, Kink Educator, Sex-Positive Therapist, and proudly collared submissive with over a decade of experience on the BDSM Scene. I’m on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters like yourselves to consciously explore what BDSM means to you. In this podcast, you’ll hear me talk about all things kink – so whether you’re new to the scene, or you’re a long-standing member of the community, welcome Kinksters, I’m looking forward to bonding with you.
Bonding
Bratting vs Topping from the bottom: How to get what you want from your Dom whilst remaining in surrender.
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Sarah Butcher
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Season 2
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Episode 8
Do you identify as a BRAT? Do you love to test your Dom and take control? Or do you wish you could surrender more?
In this episode I break down the difference between bratting and ‘topping from the bottom’ as well as giving all submissives some top tips on the ways to ask your Dom for what you want without it taking away from your submissive experience.
I break down some of the behaviours that you might notice when topping from the bottom, ask you some important questions to get clear on your intentions, and give a little reminder about how to co-create a power dynamic that works for ALL involved.
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