PSA Lack of experience is NOT a red flag. Top tips for vetting a partner

Just with any dating process, determining whether someone is right for you, or has the potential to develop something with you takes time and awareness.

Within the world of kink, vetting is a very common part of dating and socialising. With vetting, we are checking out a person's vibe and whether we like them. It is a process of obtaining information about someone you wish to get to know on a sexual or romantic level. 

But remember, this isn’t about finding a good dom or a good sub. Instead, we are simply finding a good human to connect with and explore with safely.
 
I guide you through some kink related questions that can be good to ask to help you get a feel for a persons level of understanding and intention when it comes to entering into a kinky dynamic.

I hope these tips help you on your journey, and if you want to meet a community of likeminded kinksters then be sure to come along to our cocktails and kink social events in London – the next one is Thursday 8th August.