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Bonding
Welcome to Bonding – a kinky podcast hosted by, Sarah Salazar – AKA Sub in the City. Sarah is an Integrative Kink Therapist, Coach & Educator, and proudly collared submissive with over a 13 years of experience on the BDSM Scene. Sarah is on a mission to bring BDSM into the 21st Century and empower curious kinksters like yourselves to consciously explore what BDSM means to you. In this podcast, you’ll hear her talk about all things kink – so whether you’re new to the scene, or you’re a long-standing member of the community, welcome Kinksters!
Bonding
Slave vs Service Sub: Exploring the Differences in BDSM
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In this episode of Bonding, I dive into the nuanced differences between slave and service submission within the BDSM dynamic. I answer a listener's question about the two terms, discussing how each reflects varying degrees of power exchange and submission styles. While "slave" often evokes stronger emotions due to historical and non-consensual connotations, I explores how, in BDSM, it can also represent a consensual power dynamic. On the other hand, service submission highlights voluntary acts of devotion without the same intensity of control.
As always, I share the importance of intentionality and self-awareness in choosing these terms, reminding listeners that BDSM is all about customizing dynamics that feel empowering and consensual for both parties. Tune in to discover how to navigate these roles while being mindful of language and its impact.
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