Become New with John Ortberg
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Episodes
1065 episodes
14. How do you handle Criticism? (feat. Jackson Lane)
Good news: You don’t have to live for your critics anymore.John Ortberg looks ahead to Lent and invites us into a bold, freeing experiment: giving up condemnation altogether; the kind we receive, the kind we rehearse in our own heads, a...
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13. All Healthy Relationships Have This in Common (w/Dr. Rick)
There is now no condemnation. Which is especially good news for our closest relationships.In this conversation, John Ortberg is joined by longtime friend and clinical psychologist Rick Blackmon to explore how condemnation quietly sho...
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12. How to Break the Condemnation Cycle
John Ortberg asks a surprisingly practical question:What should I be looking for in people (especially the ones I disagree with) if I want to stop the cycle of condemnation?Along the way, John draws from:- Arthur Brooks on how conte...
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11. Jesus and Judgmentalism | John and Nancy Ortberg
Good news: There is now no condemnation.Awkward news: Christians still manage to find ways to do it anyway.In this episode, John Ortberg sits down with his wife (and favorite guest) Nancy Ortberg. Along the way, they explore: <...
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10. Why are Christians So Mean?
Why are Christians so mean to each other? Jesus said, “Do not judge.”So why does judgment feel so common, especially inside the church?In this episode of No Condemnation, John Ortberg explores one of the most uncomfortable and hones...
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9. How to Respond When Your Family Becomes Judgmental
There’s no condemnation for me.But if I’m honest… there’s still plenty of condemnation in me.So today we’re looking at one of the strangest, most uncomfortable, and most liberating stories in the Bible—a deeply messed-up family story in...
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8. Does God Condemn the World?
The world feels like it’s falling apart and it’s tempting to think condemnation is the only honest response.But what if God sees the world very differently?In this episode, we step back and look at the big picture: not just what’s b...
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7. What To Do When You Feel Defeated
What do you do when life crushes you? When failure is public, shame feels loud, and condemnation (external or internal) won’t let up?In this episode, we explore an unexpected truth: God often does His deepest work through dif...
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6. How Comparison Turns Into Condemnation
Comparison is the quiet engine behind condemnation.In this episode, we explore why sizing ourselves up against others feels so natural and why it so often turns us anxious, resentful, and judgmental. Drawing on insights from René Girard, so...
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5. How to Remove Condemnation from Your Mind (Luke 18)
We all have a them.The people we quietly feel superior to.The ones we distance ourselves from.The ones we’re pretty sure God should work on… preferably far away from us.In this episode, John Ortberg takes an honest look at how a con...
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4. Why It's Easier to Judge Other People
We’re surprisingly confident judges for people who barely know the math.In this episode, John Ortberg explores why condemnation feels so natural, why it’s usually way off, and how Jesus exposes the absurdity of our moral scorekeeping. U...
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3. "Neither Do I Condemn You" —Jesus
Condemnation doesn’t just come from what others say about us — it also comes from the stories we tell ourselves. In this episode of Become New, John Ortberg explores how easily we slip into self-condemnation, why shame has so much power over ou...
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2. The Question That Ends Condemnation
We live in a culture of condemnation.Online. In politics. In families. And, if we’re honest, in our own hearts.In this episode, John Ortberg explores why judgment comes so easily, what actually fuels it, and the one question condemn...
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1. There is No Condemnation in Christ Jesus
We live in a culture of condemnation: cancel culture, self-judgment, outrage, and quiet shame. Most of us are swimming in it without even realizing it.But the good news of Jesus points to a radically different reality: “There is now no ...
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How to Find Meaning in Your Story
Every person you encounter today is carrying a story you cannot see.In this episode, John reflects on the unseen battles every human being fights and the surprising truth that healing often comes not from focusing on our own pain, but f...
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Why Jesus Said to Give in Secret (Matthew 6:3)
John reflects on Jesus’ teaching from the Sermon on the Mount regarding giving in secret. His words weren’t just spiritual advice. They were revolutionary. In a world built on reciprocity, status, and public recognition, Jesus offered a radical...
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THIS Keeps Us Stuck
Why do some habits change and others seem impossible to break?In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked role of belief in transformation. Many of us confuse our habits with our identity. We say, “That’s just the way I am.” But Sc...
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In God There is NO Darkness (1 John 1:5 explained)
Darkness won't have the last word.Today’s reflection centers on a simple, powerful word: light. Scripture tells us that God is light, and in Him there is no darkness at all. That doesn’t mean we deny the reality of suffering, grief, or ...
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What is a PROPHET? (And why do we need them?)
What if faith isn’t meant to comfort us, but to disturb us?In today’s reflection, we explore conscience, prophecy, and the unsettling gift of a sensitive soul. Throughout history, God has sent “disturbing people” into the world—prophets...
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How to Stop Playing God (and Why It Matters)
What if one of the most important spiritual practices is learning to laugh at yourself?This teaching centers on Rule #62, a simple but liberating wisdom that emerged from the early days of Alcoholics Anonymous: Don’t take yourself too s...
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A Forgotten Virtue. An Obscure Verse. Honest Abe.
There is a virtue that doesn’t get much love anymore.It sounds cautious. Boring. Overly careful. But the ancient world believed that PRUDENCE was the hinge on which a good life turns. In this episode, John Ortberg reclaims prudence as a...
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This Therapy Practice Will Help You Forgive
Forgiveness is never simple. And it’s rarely quick.In this episode, John Ortberg explores a powerful, research-backed practice that helps move forgiveness from an idea into the heart. Drawing from the story of Joseph and his brothers, a...
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What Every Person Wants in Any Relationship
Every human being longs for significance.Not just to be busy. Not just to be successful. But to know that their presence has made a difference in someone else’s life. In this teaching, John Ortberg explores five relational needs identif...
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