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Backyard Conversations with Toya: Embracing Your Inner Spotlight
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Speaker 1Hey , hey , hey , welcome back . Happy Sunday , welcome to Go . Ask Sawyer . This is session three of we're going to call it backyard conversation . I like that , session three with Toya from Universal Tees Talking about life . We have our animals here again today Talking about life . We go .
Speaker 1Talking about just everything that is encompassing of women or people , or humanity , or society seasons . I like that . Yeah , tonight we're looking at power , realizing our power , and what does shining , bright and main character energy mean to you , right ? So I like to pretend I'm the main character and again in my life , I am a podcaster before I'm actually a podcaster . I'm a writer before I am . I was putting out a bunch of dance videos . That's awesome Because I was the main character and I wanted to dance and have fun
Defining Main Character Energy
Speaker 1. So , like , what is main character ? Maybe ? I'll ask I don't know if that's the first question I have , but maybe what does main character energy mean for you ?
Speaker 2Okay . So to me , main character energy is literally that . It's like doing what you want to do . It's not looking for a consultation for your everyday things . Main character energy is not needing a supporting cat , really just like a freedom . It's a certain level of agency over your life that is very singular . Main character energy is self-definition . It's deciding who you are , outside of labels and responsibilities , and just being happy there and not feeling lost there , because sometimes , without our titles , you forget who we are . So I think main character energy is loving who you are outside of a title , a label , an accomplishment , a degree . Facebook likes friends , all of that I really like that .
Speaker 1You said A loving yourself . And then , outside of life , the likes and the titles and the validation when you're truly main character in your life and any listener can think about . When you're watching a movie and you see that main character , everyone's eyes are on them and they're just really focused on what they're doing . I want to ask my listeners too , or our listeners , like , what are you doing in your life ? That's main character . Like , how are you showing up ? I don't really care what anyone thinks . I am going to post this , I'm going to try this , I am going to . I wish my son Aspen was here because , like he also lives this very like main character , authentic . I love that . I do not care what anyone thinks and , like for a 19-year-old , I never thought that way at 19 . Yeah , no , and I just love that because when I see him living that life , it feels freeing and I think when we see people in our life living that like authentic main character , energy , it just looks freeing .
Speaker 2It looks so beautiful .
Speaker 1Man , they just do not care . Yes .
Speaker 2That actually reminds me I have someone who I asked to be a guest on my podcast , and I think that she is the epitome of that . Oh , I love that , and so I can't wait to hear and see her live that out . I think Mito's mad that Gunnar doesn't want to play with him .
Speaker 1Oh , Gunnar , I think that could be real .
Speaker 2I think that could be real , which is so funny . Migo's like Gunnar we're the same . Why don't you want to play ?
Speaker 1Can I ask what does this person encompass that ? You see that in them .
Speaker 2I see the healing . So she's very transparent with her story on just like social media . Like she was like living in one city and then she decided to move back home to Chicago . Two weeks later she decided she didn't like that . Now she's living in Atlanta . She decided that she wanted to go to Italy randomly , so she got on a flight to Italy and like she'll go out dancing by herself Her sense of fashion is amazing and so I think it's really that , and even just the freeness of me asking her to be on the pod , and I'm like , ooh , I really want us to do it in person , but I know you're moving , my girl . I took a flight to Milwaukee and I was like , oh okay .
Speaker 1So that's freedom , I think , the freedom to like , move about . So I think everything that you're explaining , the freedom like everything I hear you say , she's moving without looking for validation , she's moving without permission , she moves and does what she wants Absolutely . And I like , that is what I'm striving for and as much as like , I feel like I'm getting there , there are still parts of me that are like , should I , should I ? I don't know , and I think as an adult , it's a little bit harder , especially if you have kids . Right , you have to think about money and responsibility and whatnot , but that's where I'm trying to get .
Speaker 2Yeah , I think we're all trying to get there and I think it's so funny because before we started recording , you mentioned like I think you said that you think that I have like main character energy with like my podcast and like doing this whole consultant thing . And I'm like girl who you ? I definitely don't think I have main character energy the things that I've done . It took me so long to do them , literally on . I think it was my very first episode of my podcast , which is crazy .
Speaker 2I mentioned like I had wanted to do a podcast for like six months before I ever recorded one . I had bought all the equipment , set it up and just walked back and forth past it my whole life . The consulting idea , literally the website that I attached . I had made it like a year ago . Oh really , yes , I just like maybe shifted some things around on it , but I made that website maybe not a year , but like five , six months prior to yesterday when I decided to launch the business . And it's just this belief of like being afraid to compete when thinking about main characters . They know that they don't already . So that's why I kind of feel like I'm in limbo .
Speaker 1So I'm thinking about two things as you're talking about this . Number one , who are you competing with , Right and B ? Why do you
Overcoming Creative Perfectionism
Speaker 1think you get in your own way so much ?
Speaker 2So one the first question who am I competing with ? I am competing with the finished product of the vision that I see in my head , because I know what I've seen God give me as my podcast platform . I've seen myself in front of audiences . I've seen myself , you know , meeting people like doing things , facilitating things , being of influence . I've seen , and I see , other people who have podcasts that are there already . I've seen that . But I also see where I am now and I don't know how that is possible for me to get there .
Speaker 1Yeah , like I see this and I see here . Yeah , I don't .
Speaker 2And it's like , yeah , how am I supposed to do that when I can't afford high tech editing equipment and I don't know how to . I don't have the time to learn how to do all of these things and you know , you have to do it by yourself first . But it's also like I got my two little studio lights , but I don't really know much about lighting , I just turn them on and hope things happen , so that , and then also , if I'm being completely honest , there is comparison to the way that I see other people live out there . Yeah , things , and I think Is it a perfection Like ?
Speaker 1are you not a perfectionist ? But is it like what if it isn't as good ? Instead of like , mine's going to be different because it's mine .
Speaker 2So I think it's a combination . So I think for me it's like I know the content that I have is this quality , and the way that I put it out there I wanted to match it . I wanted to look like the quality of information , and I also know like in this day and age , people are very drawn to things that are aesthetically attractive , and if I don't feel like something looks good enough , I don't think people will listen to what I have to say .
Speaker 1Yeah , so Okay , I mean , and that's . I feel that I have a friend who recently created a business for women to help in sales . Is that Amy , amy , yeah , oh , yeah , amy , yeah , let's see , let's shatter . Hey , amy , and she I remember her talking about like she needed everything to be a certain way and we were talking about podcasting . She's like I'd want to let all the episodes out . I want to record all the episodes , and she's like and then you just like do it and throw it out there . She's like , and there's something about that that drives me crazy and I wish I could do that . But she's also very like she has a whole different way of doing things . Like put all her stuff together and had a team not a team , but like had people that helped her .
Speaker 1And in my head I'm like , man , I wish I was that driven . Yeah , whereas , like I don't know if I don't have the patience , I'm like I'm just going to figure it out , I'm just going to throw it out there and see what happens . Same , because it's a combination of my own authentic self . Yeah , and I do love watching content creators or creators that are literally just authentically figuring it out and they're showing the public and figuring this out . And then I also love people who , like they got it all together . I'm like , how did you get those links on there ? Like I've thought French has her sculpting systems and like you've clicked on her link and she has all these other links and I'm like , how does she do that ? Yeah , do I reach out ? Do I figure it out myself ? Like I just keep seeing things that I think would be great , but , like you , that I just could maybe overwhelm myself , yeah , and I'm like I don't even know what to do . Like , what do I do now ?
Speaker 2Yeah , and I think a large part of that is being okay , reaching out and asking for help yeah , because most times people are going to say yes , we overthink small things . And it's like just ask them , nine times out of 10 , people are going to say yes or like I don't know , so that I think it's that simple , there's nothing else to it . Also , just deciding where you are going to , because if I know that I want something to be a certain way , it's like okay , no matter what , you have to commit to the process of getting there . And I think main character energy also reminds me of the saying of like dancing in the rain . Yeah , like that's a part of being the main character . You don't get to decide the setting of the dancing in the rain . Yeah , like that's a part of being the main character . You don't get to decide the setting of the story all the time , but if you're the main character , you got to make it a story to pay attention to . Yeah .
Speaker 1Like sometimes it's going to work and sometimes it's going to flop . Yeah , sometimes this episode like I have some episodes that have so many listeners and others that have like 10 . And I'm like , was it the time I posted ? Was it the season I posted ? I hate that . I hate the whole algorithm thing now . Yeah , like I don't understand . But I'm also just trying to embrace , I'm putting out into the universe what I want and I know
Why People React to Your Shine
Speaker 1it's going to eventually do what it needs to be . Yeah , go , yeah .
Speaker 1So , speaking of all of that , let's talk about shining bright , yes , and what we think of . So when we shine bright , often we trigger other people . And I know , on our last week's episode we talked about friendships and you are very blessed to have people around you who are like , hoorah , you got this . I feel like most people in my life are like go get them , you got it , whatever . But I have noticed there's certain things that I do or say or act that trigger others and I don't always know , trigger them negatively . Yeah , but I don't , and they're not mad about it , but it's stuff that they say to me like , oh , I could never do that or oh , why would you do that or why would you post that ? Or why do you even care to ?
Speaker 1Because , like , I got really into TikTok again because I was bored and I don't know anyone on there . So I just started like posting a bunch of stuff on there every day and it became fun because I wasn't , I was literally not worried about anyone watching . And I was talking to some friends and they were like , oh , you're doing TikTok , like isn't that whatever , whatever . And I was like oh , so like to me , that is , I'm triggering something in them that they think it's stupid or a waste of time . We're like , when you're shining bright , when you're trying new things , when you're just like out there doing it , why do you think I mean I feel like I'm asking kind of a dog question , but we can talk about it why do you think that triggers other people so much when you're doing things that ? Why do you think they even think they need an opinion ? Well , am I asking too many questions ?
Speaker 2I'm trying to figure out which one .
Speaker 1Okay .
Speaker 2Where to put my brain , okay , so I think you're asking , like , why are other people giving their opinions about what you do ? I'm just going to go back to the good old saying of like people , be haters .
Speaker 1Yeah .
Speaker 2People be haters and you know what's even more crazy , sometimes they don't realize it . And I did one of my live events . I did , I had a whole talk about this . I forget what it was called , but like we have points in our lives where we haters a little bit , I think overly criticizing someone is just being a hater .
Speaker 2Yes , I believe that and you may not be hating on the thing like , oh , I wish I could dance , oh , I wish I knew TikTok it could be like some part of your subconscious or deep within you is like dang , this bitch really don't care , and I care so much I wish I could not care .
Speaker 2Yeah , that's real you know and they haven't addressed that and it's taken . This has been a season of just honesty with myself and I've pulled out parts of those that I noticed within myself . It's like you're overly critical of someone because they're doing what they have to do , but the problem is they're free and you're not . You're bound because you're still inside this box and they are not caring . They don't even care about your—nobody's thinking about you . No , we all think that we're just so special and like everyone's always thinking about us .
Speaker 2No one cares and I actually had that advice for someone just about , like , public speaking , like , oh , people who get nervous speaking in front of crowds , and I'm like here's what you have to remember . They don't care about you , they care about what you're saying . Yeah , they're not even looking at . Most of the time , people are waiting on it to be over . So it's like no one cares about you . They care about what you're saying . They're not even looking at . Most of the time , people are waiting on it to be over . So it's like no one cares about you . They care about what you're saying . But , yeah , I think it's that in those types of situation is they just ? They just have their haters and it may be undiagnosed .
Speaker 1Well , and I think what what you said is they don't even realize they are being a hater by saying , giving their opinion , whatever , putting their shit on you . Yeah , that it's like . But I just noticed the more I'm in my main character , the more I'm shining bright . You do attract . Well , you attract a lot of people . Yeah , attract a lot of positive and you also attract a lot of negative , and I've just really been trying to figure out how to handle that , but I think you don't . I was going to say I think what you said about just like OK , yeah , you don't handle it .
Speaker 2You realize too like we just live in a huge energy field , like Earth is just a huge force field . Yeah , and it really is like we're energetically connected to people . And so I think my favorite poem I say all the time is Our Deepest Fear , by Marianne Williamson , and she says as you let your own light shine , you unconsciously give other people permission to do the same . Yes , as you're liberated from your own fears , your presence automatically liberates others . If you are shining long enough , you will draw out darkness , you will draw out negativity . If you are negative long enough , like that's what's going to come to you , and you have to know , you have to decide which you want , and you have to also understand that those feelings fluctuate . You're not always going to be fucking roses and daisies and sunshine . You're going to be negative , you're going to be pessimistic sometimes , and we have to just accept the flow . We try to manipulate energy too much . Well , not energy , because I feel like you can't manipulate energy , but we try to manipulate just what naturally is . If today you feel like going to the gym and lifting weights , do that . If tomorrow you just feel like going for a walk , do that . If today you feel like sitting on the couch eating Cheetos , watching a movie . That's fine too , but I think that's the whole thing too , with trust in yourself . I know that I am a healthy person who cares about my body , so if I want to go and eat me a steak , dinner's what I'm gonna do , because I know tomorrow I'm probably gonna eat a salad . Yeah , like it's it's . Everything is a balance , everything is yin , and that's the same thing with energy and people , and I think that's what helps .
Speaker 2I know we talked about friendship yesterday , with having friends . They have to understand that about the friendship , about you , about them . So it's just deciding you , deciding on people who understand that . And that's where friendship relationship has to be considered , because we don't necessarily want somebody that's exactly like us . We have to think about values . So do they feel like a main character and their values do they align with yours ? You know I recently had to discover my values and it told me a lot .
Recognizing When You're Misaligned
Speaker 2Yeah , you know I recently had to discover my values and it's helped me a lot . Yeah , it's helped me a lot about people that I'm close to , people that I have decided not to be as close to , and why . And it's like yeah , that's why I don't really fool with that , or that's why I really love being in this place or this and I , anything like . I have my values and I'm looking for jobs that align with my values friends , relationship aligning with my value . Everything my dog got to align with my values yeah , he does .
Speaker 1So , speaking of values and the people , do you notice a feeling in your body ? Or have you noticed a feeling in your body when you're around the people that are aligning with you or like this is feel , this feels good , this matches . Have you noticed any ? Um notice feelings so this is I'm gonna say no , no , you haven't like that weird gut , or that so okay .
Speaker 2so I'm gonna say I don't feel the feelings , or maybe I don't pay attention to them . When I'm in places where I'm aligned , but when I am not , that is when I feel . When I'm not in a place that I am supposed to be in , that's when I start to notice my body . And so , in that sense , when I don't feel anything , when I don't feel the anxiety , that's when I know I'm in a safe and aligned space . But when I'm in spaces where I'm picking up , like my spidey senses are tingling , that's when I feel .
Speaker 1So I'm so happy you said that , because I meant to say something yesterday and I totally forgot . I thought about it today how , like , when you're in environments around certain people that you're not supposed to be , like God will literally make everything go wrong and we'll just keep like fixing it and it's just . It's insane , like in hindsight of things like even jobs I've been in that I shouldn't have been . It was like I would gain weight in certain jobs . I didn't have the right friends , I lacked all motivation and , like you will start losing things around you and it won't always be right away , like it won't always be big . Yeah , but I think that's another thing to pay attention to . Like , when you're in certain places , are there certain things that are happening to me ? Yeah , are there certain things going wrong that I'm trying to explain away or fix away ? And like , no , he's trying to be like you're not supposed to be here and I'm trying to give you some signs ? Yes , but I know you keep looking for another sign . Yep , I'm just going to keep sending them .
Speaker 2Yep , and I feel like , with God it has a funny way , because you'll be like oh , I need a sign , why do I know I'm not supposed to be here ? And then something you feel in your body , something happens . You know , somebody does something that makes you feel a way , and then you're like , well , help me understand them . Maybe that wasn't the thing Help me . Or maybe you feel like God didn't put you there to fix the problem . It's like , no , no , that is not the case .
Speaker 1And so I think , recognizing that , like trust , trust , trust trusting yourself is so key , but you can't trust yourself until you are loving of yourself and you are consistent and you are doing the things that you should be , that you should be doing so in align with that , what you just said , and I've been going deeper and deeper into , like reading the Bible and like sticking with it and like understanding what faith looks like Okay , like true faith , like walking in faith , and I've been trying to figure out , like , what is faith ? What like ? What does that mean to me ? And right now it means understanding that I don't know what's going to happen . But the more I'm walking in places that make me feel happy , peaceful , like accepting the unknown is going to happen and it might be good and it might be bad , and I am just going to walk into that instead of and I don't know if you're like this , but like I get a lot of I get anxious with the unknown , like , oh my gosh , I wish I knew how this was going to play out .
Speaker 1I wish I knew how this person was going to act . That understanding and that , to me , the more I'm living in faith , is helping me live that main character energy . It's helping me shine bright , because it's kind of giving me that permission . I'm going to be loud and
Faith as Main Character Practice
Speaker 1I'm going to be okay and I'm going to be here and I'm just going to have faith that he is going to guide me . He , she is going to guide me where I need to go , and I think for so long I tried having control of situations , yeah , so I don't know if you're taking faith or if you want to take on it . So , first of all , congratulations .
Speaker 2Thank you On that journey . I hope that it is beautiful , it's been beautiful , but I think faith is super important , and that is a muscle that I don't think I have flexed yet . I think I am still trying to figure out what I have faith for .
Speaker 1Mm-hmm .
Speaker 2You know I struggle . My anxiety makes me struggle to decide . One minute I want to do this . The next minute I want to do that . The next minute I'm trying to do this , but then I feel bad because now I'm neglecting that , and so I think I need to have the faith to decide . Maybe the decision is faith . Faith is that you can do all of these things , even if you start with this one and you just have to trust it's going to unfold ?
Speaker 2Yeah , and I don't . And so I'm working on understanding faith first , building in it and then living a faithful life . Yeah , so I know I need to . I know the beauty of it and it sounds good , but the work I know is very difficult .
Speaker 1It sounds good , but the work is hard , I will say . Last November I started doing soap , so I read a scripture verse .
Speaker 2I observe oh , I thought you were going to make it soap . I thought you were going to make it , so I thought you were going to make it , so you got any here . I should Maybe that way next year .
Speaker 1I'm sure I was like , okay , no , but I love that perspective , yeah . But like , I just started doing that every day , like so I would write a Bible verse , I'd analyze it , like what it means to me , and then I'd pray on it and it would take me 10 minutes and I didn't know what I was doing with it . I just knew I wanted to get closer to God . I didn't necessarily I don't necessarily go to church . My church is with him in nature . My church is talking to him .
Speaker 1Being a gay woman , like the Bible was used against me a lot . I grew up in a white , very conservative Christian family , so I'm trying to understand it for me , and so that's how my journey started , because I wanted to have this relationship and not have people tell me how to do it , and so it's one of those things . I started it last November and I am so thankful . I didn't know what I was doing when I started it . Yeah , and it has . I felt like that's one thing that has saved me through a lot of weird dark moments , mm-hmm , because I could just count on that , and every day I would be like I'm just going to randomly pick a verse , and it was like that verse spoke to me that day . Wow , and so for me , that's how my faith started growing .
Speaker 1But again , my purpose for it was to understand all of this . Yeah , through the lens of everyone says being gay is a sin and this and that , and people accepting you or not accepting you . And I was like you know what ? I'm tired of people telling me what the Bible says or what Christianity says and I'm just going to go study it myself Because I don't know about you . But I feel like you and I are self-teachers . Yeah , like this podcasting stuff , like I'm just going to go on YouTube , I'm just going to buy some stuff and figure it out , and so that's where my faith has gotten stronger . And even like being willing to talk about it on my podcast or with people , or talking about like I also pull tarot cards and I Right , like I kind of do everything . I see everything as spiritual , I see everything as something larger talking to me , and that's how slowly I've been living in . This faith of this is working , this is bringing me peace , this is working . But again , I started that for myself because I wanted to just understand differently .
Speaker 2Yeah , and I think , however you approach faith , faith is a practice . Faith isn't a religious doctrine . Yeah , yes , and so , however you get to the work of faith , yeah , like , do that , right , like , I don't think we even have to make faith religious , it's a practice . You know what ? Right , like , I don't think we even have to make faith religious , it's a practice . You know what I mean ? You be having faith that you know a male might turn out . Right , that's real If he's trying , you know .
Speaker 2But I think that is a part of main character . Energy is having faith . It's moving in faith . It's dending in the rain , it's being free , it's not being bound . It's also being receptive to like I actually might fuck up , I might say something wrong , I might do something wrong . Hell , you might go into the religious aspect of faith and realize I need to actually be more in line with this text , and you never know . But you won't know until you try and you can't be afraid . And I think sometimes , when we think about main character energy , we feel like there's people behind us that are like less than Main character . Energy does not mean that you have people that are beneath you or love with you or you're better than anyone . It just means like , in this space , in this season , this is where I shine .
Speaker 1So I also see main character energy as this is my own life . Yeah , I am my best friend . I will die my own best friend . I have great people around me , but no one else is living this life . Yeah , no one else is showing up the way I show up for me , absolutely . And so if I'm doing that because this is my life , then no one can be behind me , because your life is your life , my friend's life , like I want my friends to live main character energy , because I'm noticing the more people I surround myself with that shine bright in positive ways .
Speaker 1That's where , like , real power is , and not like power , like we're going to take it on , but like power to like make change , power to create beauty , power to be creative , power to push other people to like do the best they can . And so that's where I'm like , I think your podcast , which is why I wanted to collaborate with you on this , because I feel like when you think about how many lives can you positively impact , like , that to me is real power . It doesn't need to be loud , and so , yeah , maybe a couple of people listen to my podcast and every once in a while , like twice a month , I'll get a text from a random friend or someone at work and they'll be like . I stumbled upon your podcast and couldn't believe it and I was like oh , my like , it makes me feel so good .
Speaker 1And that was my purpose for this . Maybe you can talk about why you got into your podcast , but , like , I got into it because friends said I like what you have to say and you should do this or that . I think you and I both talked about like life coaching and all the things , and so , like , this was the only way for me to , right now , throw some advice out there and maybe someone wants to hear about . Yeah , and it'll reach who it's supposed to . Yeah , why did you start yours ?
Speaker 2You
The Power of Positive Impact
Speaker 2know , what's so crazy is I don't even . It was just deposited into me , right , because I started my podcast in 2020 . And it wasn't podcasts weren't big then . I think people were just starting to , and I don't even know Just got locked in . Yeah , I don't even know where I got the influence from , yeah , but God was just like you're going to do a podcast , and so I was just needing I was holding a lot . You know , I was new . I wasn't as new , but I was in Milwaukee I'm not from here I was struggling to , like , find trust .
Speaker 2The community Life was just , really , it was in a strange place and I just needed an outlet to be honest , and I didn't use my voice a lot . Growing up , I told you I don't like confrontation , and so I never knew how to have difficult conversations . So my podcast was where I would have difficult conversations , just like without directly saying it to a person . But a lot of the times when I'm talking , it's an experience that I've had or it's something that I've been through and there's someone that I have in my mind , that I'm articulating to , and so it gave me . I'll say whatever I needed to say , without the confrontation of , like you know the person or the people , and people were just like yeah , yeah , me too . And I was like oh , I thought that was what was up , right , so I just love .
Speaker 1Oh , I don't know what was wrong , right . So I just love like that's one of my favorite things , yeah , and so I think that your , what you do , just talking about different experiences that you have , like that really positively impacts you , yeah , and that gives people permission to like , oh my gosh , I feel that way too . I'm not alone . And I think that's the biggest thing is so many people feel alone in their own emotion or they don't know how to be vulnerable or speak about it , and so , like listening to other people just say like , yeah , this is my thing too . It's like , oh , I'm not , that's really cool that I'm not there . So I'm encouraging everybody find your main character , energy , shine bright . Find what you have faith in or whatever faith means to you . Listen to Universal Tease . She's got a new season three coming out . Do you have a date ?
Speaker 2I do not have an exact date , but it's coming , it's in the works . Okay , it'll be August 2025 . So I got some guests that I'm going to be recording and then me and be talking about a few things .
Speaker 1I like guests because I feel like we learn from each other Absolutely . I can talk all day long , but when we're having shared experiences , then it's like oh my gosh .
Speaker 2And perspective . You need perspective . We get so stuck in what we believe is true that we never think of outside perspective . I love a good moment where somebody shares something with me and I'm like , huh , I was just in this one track mindset and you just gave me a whole different avenue , like it just opens up so much more for you mentally .
Speaker 1I love that . I 100% agree with that . Well , is there anything else you would like listeners to know about main character energy , or shining bright
Turn Your Light Switch On
Speaker 1, or just being themselves ?
Speaker 2I would say you already shine bright . You just have to turn the light switch on . It's there , Whether you believe it or not . No matter what situation you're in , no matter how much money is in your bank account , no matter where you live , no matter what your job is , we all have a light that exists . You just have to have the courage and the faith to turn the switch on .
Speaker 1Yeah , just turn it on and light will . What is it outshine ? Darkness , mm-hmm . Every time , yep , like every time . So I really appreciate you being on and coming over and having some backyard conversations . This has really been kind of a highlight and I will say , before this happened , this was one of those like I'm really doing this , really , like I want to have a little mini-series with you and it's going to happen , and then this felt like a very big accomplishment for me .
Speaker 2I love that Little old me , little old me over here . I love that .
Speaker 1Yeah , so I want to thank you for that . So now you got to come over to Universal TV . I got to fill out my form . I'll just text you . Okay , text me . I would love to come on , even though I always love your lives Absolutely , I'm always like you know what's happening .
Speaker 2I can't wait . I'm always in the lives , yeah , in their lives . Yet I'm getting back y'all . I'm coming out of the darkness myself .
Speaker 1Yes , Be good . We all need a season to relax , and then we get new ideas . Yeah , so all right y'all . Thank you for joining us . I hope you pulled some bits out of here . Healing , what is healing ? Loving yourself deeply , how ? Who do you surround yourself with Friendships and then , of course , realize your power ? Because you are amazing and they are so , so worth it .
Speaker 2Yes , and we need you here no-transcript .
