The Courageous Life

The Transformative Power of Humility | Dr. Daryl Van Tongeren -

March 21, 2023 Joshua Steinfeldt Season 3 Episode 74
The Courageous Life
The Transformative Power of Humility | Dr. Daryl Van Tongeren -
Show Notes

Every so often a researcher comes along and changes the game. Named a Rising Star by the Association for Psychological Science, Dr. Daryl Van Tongeren is doing just that. A leading mind on the science of humility - his work and his new book Humble, have helped debunk many of the myths around this ancient virtue, explaining why humility is a powerful strength at home, at work, in leadership, and how it can lead to thriving relationships.  

In this wide ranging and deep conversation Daryl will share more about:

  • The link between humility and authenticity (or feeling at home in our own skin)
  • The myths and misperceptions about humility including that humility is a weakness. 
  • The relationship between experiences of awe, big nature, and humility
  • Humility as a skill - how you can learn to be more humble with dedication, practice, and feedback
  • Why humility is best cultivated in community
  • How to handle tough feedback
  • How to use humility to stay open to learning, to empathy, and to compassion
  • The case for more humble leaders, why organizations need them, and why employees and teams value humility. 
  • And more!


More about Dr. Daryl Van Tongeren:

Daryl R. Van Tongeren, Ph.D., is an Associate Professor of Psychology at Hope College. As a social psychologist, his research focuses on meaning in life, religion, and virtues. He loves asking deep and enduring questions about what it means to be human (darylvantongeren.com). His research has been covered by the New York Times, Chicago Tribune, and NPR. In 2016, he received a Rising Star designation from the Association for Psychological Science. In his free time, he enjoys running marathons and surviving triathlons. You can learn more about Daryl's work at darylvantongeren.com.

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