You First- A Journey to Self

The Emotional Skill Most Ambitious Women Were Never Taught

Maria Fuentes

Most ambitious women are extremely capable—we can build careers, manage households, and hold everything together. But the skill most of us were never taught is emotional self-leadership: how to lead ourselves emotionally so we can feel grounded and safe within ourselves, even under pressure.

In Episode 2 of The Have-It-All Woman Series (Ambition, Love, and Emotional Mastery), we’re unpacking how high-achieving women often outsource emotional safety—to partners, work, control, productivity, or distraction—and why it eventually stops working.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • What emotional self-leadership really means and how to know when you’re outsourcing it
  • Why “being strong” can secretly be emotional suppression
  • The 5 emotional mastery skills that change how you experience love, success, and your nervous system
  • Why emotional self-leadership is when your body realizes it’s safe—even when life isn’t perfect

If you haven’t listened to Episode 1 on worthiness, go back and start there—this series is designed to build week by week.

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Next episode: how emotional outsourcing shows up most in romantic relationships and why ambitious women struggle more in love than they expected.

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