Heal Your Codependency with Marshall Burtcher
What Replaces Codependency As You Heal: The Inner Advocate
What Replaces Codependency As You Heal?
Codependency is a strategy the body creates in order to preserve a sense of safety, connection, and self-worth within a chaotic, unsafe, unreliable relationship.
The sense of danger the relationship creates for the individual activates the body's natural fawning response (aka the please-and-appease response), prompting the person to do things that make themselves more appealing to the threat - all in hopes of reducing the risk of harm, abandonment, or replacement.
But before this happened, your body naturally advocated for you. You may not remember it, but there was a moment your body protested what was going on, spoke up, and confronted things. There was a moment where the word, "no", came out of your mouth naturally, without trembling or fear.
There were moments where you asked, without hesitation, for something you wanted, or shared something you liked, or asked questions. You instinctively explored, played, and wondered at the world.
Learn what your inner advocate is and how to start reconnecting with it in today's episode!
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[The The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings Is Back! We Start September 24, 2023]
Stop codependency and ignite your natural inner advocate by healing the fawn response. I help you achieve this through my 8-week program, The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings.
We start September 24, 2023.
The course is 8 weeks long (8 live classes, 2 pre-recorded modules).
Class is at 12:00pm, Mountain Time.
You get lifetime access to the recordings and to the live classes for this course.
$297 is the investment (3-month payplan available).
Enroll here: https://echt.freetheself.com
What Replaces Codependency As You Heal?
Codependency is a strategy the body creates in order to preserve a sense of safety, connection, and self-worth within a chaotic, unsafe, unreliable relationship.
The sense of danger the relationship creates for the individual activates the body's natural fawning response (aka the please-and-appease response), prompting the person to do things that make themselves more appealing to the threat - all in hopes of reducing the risk of harm, abandonment, or replacement.
But before this happened, your body naturally advocated for you. You may not remember it, but there was a moment your body protested what was going on, spoke up, and confronted things. There was a moment where the word, "no", came out of your mouth naturally, without trembling or fear.
There were moments where you asked, without hesitation, for something you wanted, or shared something you liked, or asked questions. You instinctively explored, played, and wondered at the world.
Learn what your inner advocate is and how to start reconnecting with it in today's episode!
***
Join my email community to get access to more episodes, tools, my writings, and more here: https://connect.freetheself.com
Join my Facebook community for more guidance, tools, and my insights: https://community.freetheself.com
Follow me on Facebook, Youtube, Instagram, TikTok, and my podcast here: https://links.freetheself.com
***
[The The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings Is Back! We Start September 24, 2023]
Stop codependency and ignite your natural inner advocate by healing the fawn response. I help you achieve this through my 8-week program, The Essential Codependency Healing Trainings.
We start September 24, 2023.
The course is 8 weeks long (8 live classes, 2 pre-recorded modules).
Class is at 12:00pm, Mountain Time.
You get lifetime access to the recordings and to the live classes for this course.
$297 is the investment (3-month payplan available).
Enroll here: https://echt.freetheself.com