Dr D’s dating diaries
Episodes
30 episodes
The Beta male
Watch out for a man who calls himself an alpha male ladies - no true alpha every needs to tell everyone that’s he’s an alpha - he just is…
Mr Pearl
Talk about a small pipi syndrome. Mr Pearl sure had one amongst other issues.
Golden Oldie
Having a guy come up to you in Vancouver and asking you out on a date randomly is quite a rarity in Vancouver so how could I say no…
Professional Pool Player
The term professional as in athlete, pool player etc means that’s you play a sport and get paid for it as a living - a source of income. Boy was this guy surprised when he got called out on that.
Jewish Men
Let’s dispense with the stereotypes of miserly & super rich. Jewish men usually have good core family values and are well educated and appreciate a woman who is educated and strong minded. Except these 2 flashers and educators …
Consent
TRIGGER WARNING This episode deals with SA and anything that is non consensual. Just remember that getting triggered is not always bad, especially if it helps you delve into your emotions and heal from it. <...
The Narcissist
From love bombing to gaslighting, Dr D goes through all the warning signs when dating or marrying a narcissist. Take away message - see the red flags and take them for what they are.
Be vulnerable but never settle
Dr D talks about being secure and knowing your worth so that when men try to play you, you will be prepared. Never settle for anything that’s not worth your time especially when you are at your most vulnerable.
Psycho Barbie pt 2
Oxytocin - the feel good hormone that makes us start imagining a life with someone even before we have an established relationship. Holding ourselves accountable and not always playing victim, will surely help all of us be better partners and f...
Psycho Barbie pt 1
Dr Deez will delve a little more into pretty privilege, white privilege and the total lack of accountability that some ladies (and gents) have with regards to their behaviour. Having a personality trait does not mean a mental...
Poco Guy
Watch out for red flags ladies and run - in the opposite direction. When they are still calling you from their mom’s phone number or they think that the government is controlling us - think twice before entering the danger zone.&nb...
Vancouver Creepy
New Year’s Eve tends to bring out the creeps sometimes but thank goodness for good friends who know how to protect you when they sense impending danger even when you can not…
Stage 5 clingers
PSA - Dr D talks about the difference between a personality disorder vs a trait which all of us have - that is what makes our personality unique. This by no means ridicules anyone with mental health disorders but does help you understand ...
Coked Out!
Cocaine is one hell of a drug! You might be thinking you're talking to someone who's full of life and personality - and maybe at the time they really are... until that little party substance wears off and it's like you're talking to a brick wal...
Sugar Baby
If you want to have an interesting time or conversation, a Sugar Daddy will definitely fit that bill. Sugar relationships can be beneficial, but they can also get out of hand, so make sure you stay safe and set some hard boundaries! Oh, and als...
Scam Artists and Gold Diggers
It happens to everyone, and it seems especially on dating sites and apps. It might seem to be going well, talking for a while - maybe even a couple weeks or months...and then as soon as they get the opportunity, they hit you with the, 'hey by t...
Indian Sean
Listen, it's one thing to use an alias for security purposes or trust reasons. But to never tell someone your real name even after gaining trust, until it's too late...? Interesting choice, 'Sean'!
Cowboy Ryan
Listen up partners - therapy isn't all scary like you think it is. In fact, it will probably help you be more approachable, and less scary, no matter who you are. Don't let old social standards get in the way of you becoming your best self - yo...
Penpal Sean
Ladies, know your worth. If a guy isn't following through with plans over and over again, he probably isn't the right one for you. It's important to set those boundaries so you don't waste your time with future endeavors. Spotting red flags lik...
Steve and the 'No Friends' Red Flag....Creepy!
Listen ladies, it's already a red flag when a guy wants you to stay with him before you've even spoken on the phone or met face to face. It's an even scarier red flag when that man admits to not having any friends and wants to take you out to a...
The Difference Between Local Dating and International Dating...RESPECT
Giving people space and respect should be obvious behaviours, but it apparently isn't always. Certain parts of the world are much more in tune with this behaviour and moral standing than others, and it becomes quite obvious to Dr. D as she trav...
Let's Talk About Unsolicited Pics...Lookin' at You, Mr. India!
Remember when we mentioned boundaries in dating? Well this is exactly what Dr. D was talking about. It's one thing if that 'spicy' talk is mutual, but sending those things out of the blue is just that - unsolicited, unwanted, and quite frankly,...
A PSA and Comparison on Dating Cultures; Past, Present, and in Different Countries
***CONTENT WARNING: This episode contains topics of sexual assault***Dating and sexual culture are different all across the world, some more unpleasant than others. Today Dr. D advises us to come together to educate ourselves on p...