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Donuts & Divorce: A Family Law Podcast
Donuts & Divorce: A Family Law Podcast, is a podcast focusing on all aspects of family law. BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC is here to help navigate the waters of divorce and separation (including the who, what, when, where and how to do it), but also provide insight on the aspects of divorce and separation that are NOT always addressed in the courtroom (how to co-parent with someone you simply may not like right now, or how to determine what you can and cannot afford post-divorce).
Join host Dorothy O’Neil, one of the Founding Members of BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC, as she discusses the many topics surrounding family law issues, including divorce, custody, and child/spousal support. This podcast series is created by BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC. Visit us at boklawfirm.com for more information. This program should not be considered legal advice. Because every family's needs are different, please contact one of our family law attorneys to discuss your unique situation. If you have any questions, please contact Dorothy O'Neil at info@boklawfirm.com.
Episodes
51 episodes
Ep. 50: What is Discovery and How is it Used in Divorce?
In this episode, Partners and Founding Members Dorothy O'Neil and Rachael Bowe discuss the "Discovery" Phase of Divorce, which can also be called the "Information Gathering" Phase of Divorce. They dive into the various discovery options, ...
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Ep. 49: The Five Types of Family Mediation
In this episode, Mediator Dorothy O'Neil discusses the five types of family mediation: (1) Divorce Mediation, (2) Co-Parenting Mediation, (3) Premarital Mediation, (4) Blended Family Mediation, and (5) Couples/Marital Mediation.
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Episode 49
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Ep. 48: Name Changes for Adults and Children in PA
In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss how to change adult names (often as a by-product of a divorce), as well as how to change children's names in PA.
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Ep. 47: Personal Property - Dividing the Household Contents (and Pets!?!) in a Divorce/Separation
In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko address how personal property is divided in a divorce/separation. This can include anything from the pots and pans, personal belongings, and you guessed it, PETS!
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Ep. 46: Fault Divorce versus No-Fault Divorce in PA
In this episode, Dorothy discusses the differences between proceeding as a fault divorce versus a no-fault divorce in PA.
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Ep. 44: Refinancing Mortgages and Loan Assumptions in Divorce
In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Natalie Frazier regarding the post-COVID trends for refinancing your mortgage, loan assumptions, and where to be cautious.Natalie Corsello Frazier is a licensed Pennsylvania Loan Offic...
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Ep. 45: Why You Actually May Want Your Family Law Attorneys to be Amicable in your Case
In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Attorney Lisa Standish, owner of the Law Offices of Lisa Standish, regarding why it may actually benefit parties to hire attorneys who actually get along. Attorney Lisa Standish ...
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Ep. 43: Co-Parenting Teenagers in a Separation or Divorce
In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil interviews Erin Troup, LPC, NCC, CT, IMH-E IV®, owner of Sprout Center for Emotional Growth and Development, LLC. Together, they discuss the unique issues with co-parenting teenagers in both health...
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Ep. 42: School Choice: Whose School District Does the Child Attend?
In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss the issue of school choice, including where a child should go to school after separation or divorce.
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Ep. 41: Travel and Vacation with Minor Children After Separation
In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss traveling and vacationing with minor children after separation from your ex. Can you cross state lines with your children without your ex's permission? Can you...
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Ep. 40: The Custody Crazies: Do's and Don'ts in Custody Cases
In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko tackle the Do's and the Don'ts in custody cases, including the behaviors to really avoid, and why it is important to set healthy co-parenting practices as soon as you separate.
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Ep. 39: Step-Parent Adoptions in PA
In this episode, Attorneys Aleksandra Kocelko and Dorothy O'Neil discuss step-parent adoption in Pennsylvania, including the procedure, what is needed, and the law surrounding step-parent adoptions.
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Ep. 38: Hiring an Attorney? What to Ask at an Initial Consultation
Happy New Year and Welcome to 2024! In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil discusses hiring an attorney, and what to expect at an Initial Consultation, including what to bring, what to ask, and what to avoid.
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Ep. 37: The Social Emotional Lens of Infants & Toddlers in Divorce with Erin Troup
In this Episode, Dorothy interviews Erin Troup, who is a Licensed Professional Counselor specializing in early childhood social emotional needs, particularly attachment, grief & loss, trauma and anxiety. Erin is also the owner of Spro...
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Introduction to BOK Law & Mediation Services
We have been busy the last couple of months forming our brand new law firm, BOK Law & Mediation Services, PLLC! But we are back and ready to tackle the difficult issues surrounding divorce and separation in PA! In this introduct...
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Ep. 36: Top Myths about Family Law Cases
In this episode, Dorothy discusses and dispels 14 common myths, misconceptions, and rumors about family law cases.
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Ep. 35: The Online Mediation Movement
Dorothy is back! In this episode, Dorothy explains online mediation, its benefits, and how Dorothy has revamped her online mediation program. Learn about the "Four C's and the E: Communication, Convenience, Comfort, Cost, and Effici...
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Ep. 34: Divorce Recovery - What Happens After You are Divorced?
In this episode, Dorothy interviews Michell Butcher, MA, LPC, regarding how to recover after a divorce or separation is finalized. Often attorneys can get clients over the finish line, but there is still work to be done.Michelle B...
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Ep. 33: Relocation: Can my Ex Just Up and Move with the Kids?
In this episode, Attorneys Dorothy O'Neil and Aleksandra Kocelko discuss relocation in PA: what it is, whether parents can easily move out of state with children, and what the legal requirements are for relocation.
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Ep. 31: From the Outside Looking In - How Family & Friends Can Be a Support System for Divorcing Parties
In this episode, Attorney Dorothy O'Neil is joined by Michelle Butcher, LPC, to discuss how family and friends can be a support system for those going through a separation or divorce. More importantly, they discuss what family and friends...
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Ep. 30: Our Family Wizard, a Co-Parenting Resource
In this episode, Dorothy interviews Attorney Michelle (Elle) Barr regarding the benefits of using the well-known resource and app, OurFamilyWizard. This resource has been used in and out of courts to assist families transitioning to a co-...
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Ep. 29: Parental Alienation with Dr. Eric Bernstein
In this episode, Dorothy interviews Dr. Eric Bernstein to discuss Parental Alienation, and the impact on custody case. Dr. Eric Bernstein was previously interviewed in our Custody Evaluations episode.Dr. Bernstein is a Licensed Ps...
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Ep. 28: Cheater Cheater Marriage Defeater: Infidelity in Divorces
In this episode, Dorothy discussed cheating/infidelity/adultery, and its impact on divorces and separation.
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Ep. 27: Cohabitation Nation: The Era of Living Together without Being Married
In this episode Dorothy is joined by Co-Founding Partner, Attorney Aleksandra Kocelko to discuss cohabitation and living with someone with whom you are in a relationship, but not married. There are legal ramifications that people often do...
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Ep. 26: Narcissism: It is as Common as We Think with Tanya Bashor
In this episode, Dorothy interviews Tanya Bashor to discuss narcissism, and the impact of narcissism on divorce cases. Tanya Bashor is a Certified Narcissistic Trauma Informed Coach, Hypnotherapist & Brainspotting Practitioner...
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