The Velvet Hammer Podcast

Sex = Intimacy Nope, ( And that's why you still feel lonely)

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You had the sex. The chemistry was wild. The orgasm hit...
 But why did you still wake up feeling empty?

In this episode, we’re breaking the myth that sex automatically equals intimacy. Because let’s be honest—bodies can collide without souls ever touching. We're diving into why so many people are confusing physical connection with emotional closeness, and how that confusion leaves us craving more, even when we’re technically “getting some.”

Let’s talk about:

  • Why great sex doesn’t guarantee deep connection
  • How to tell if you’re performing intimacy instead of feeling it
  • What real intimacy actually looks and feels like
  • How to stop using sex to fill emotional voids you haven't named yet

If you've ever left a hookup, a situationship, or even a relationship feeling unseen, unheld, or unsatisfied... this one's for you.

Because intimacy isn’t about getting naked—it’s about being known.

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Hosted by Vee, a former dominatrix with 10+ years of experience, this is where intimacy, BDSM, kinks, and taboo desires collide. We go deep into threesomes, anal play, escorts, submission, dominance, and the unspoken truths about sex and power.

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