The Velvet Hammer Podcast
Welcome to Velvet Hammered — the podcast that seduces your mind, ties up your assumptions, and leaves your boundaries begging for more.
Hosted by V, a former dominatrix turned intimacy coach, and co-host Sherrilyn, Velvet Hammered dives deep into the world of kink, seduction, erotic power dynamics, and the raw, unfiltered realities of modern pleasure.
Expect filthy-smart conversations, late-night confessions, juicy BDSM tips, domination tricks, and wild stories that’ll leave you blushing… or booking a dungeon.
Whether you're kink-curious, intimacy-starved, or fully unhinged, this is the safe space where pleasure meets power — and no topic is off-limits.
🖤 Safe words. Strong opinions. Savage truths.
Get ready to be Velvet Hammered.
Episodes
51 episodes
“If You Can’t See Me, You Don’t Know Me: Stop Having Dark-Room Sex.”
Too many grown adults are scared of their own damn bodies. In this episode, we expose why people cling to lights-off sex — from hidden insecurities to fear of being truly seen. If you want confidence, connection, and real intimacy, stop p...
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20:56
“Voyeurism Isn’t Taboo: Don’t Be Scared to Watch… or Be Watched”
Voyeurism isn’t taboo — y’all just scared to admit you like being watched. In this unapologetically messy Velvet Hammer episode, we break down why the “eyes on me” thrill hits different, why watching can be just as intimate as touching, and why...
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19:43
“Why Toxic People Always Have Demon-Level, Nasty-Ass Sex”
Why is the sex always nastiest with the most toxic people? In this unhinged Velvet Hammer episode, we unpack why red flags come with premium stroke, why chaos makes the bedroom crazy, and why the “don’t text me back” people always flip yo...
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11:26
“Starved for Intimacy: Is Outsourcing Sex Cheating or Self-Care?”
When your partner stops giving intimacy—whether out of choice, control, or pure neglect—are you wrong for seeking pleasure somewhere else? In this raw and unfiltered Velvet Hammer episode, we unpack the truth behind sex deprivation, weaponized ...
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18:01
“Why You Should STILL Get Freaky in the Car (or the Garage)”
Car sex isn’t just for teenagers — it hits DIFFERENT when you're grown. In this wild Velvet Hammer episode, we break down why the car (or the garage) is still one of the freakiest, most adrenaline-filled places to get it in. From the thrill of ...
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31:01
“Why Straight Men Hide Their Freaky Desires From the Women They Love”
Why do straight men hide their freaky desires from the women they love? In this raw, messy, unfiltered Velvet Hammer episode, we dig into the real reasons men stay quiet about their kinks—fear of judgment, masculinity pressure, shame, intimacy ...
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15:26
“Can You Handle a Reloader? The Truth About Lovers Who Go Multiple Rounds”
Some people need recovery time — others reload like they’re built for it. But is it physical or mental? In this spicy Velvet Hammer episode, we explore what makes “reloaders” tick, how desire resets, and why round two can be even more int...
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34:28
“Why ‘Good Girl’ Turns Us On More Than We Admit”
It’s just two simple words — yet they can make your body melt, your pulse race, and your mind surrender. In this episode of Velvet Hammer we explore the psychology and power play behind praise: why being called “good girl” or “good boy” h...
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13:51
“Dinner, Drinks… and a Foot Fetish Confession 👀”
He opened doors, pulled out chairs, and was the definition of a gentleman. But three drinks in, the real confession came out: a full-blown foot fetish and a request to lick my toes 😳. Join us for laughs, wild dating stories, and an honest...
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23:20
“Wait… You Already Had My Number?! Awkward Dating Moments”
What happens when a guy takes your number… but your digits are already hiding in his phone under another name? 😂 Join V and her best friend as they share this hilarious story (yes, he really blamed it on his “niece”), talk about forgettab...
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17:25
Late Nights, Hidden Secrets: Bartenders, Nurses & Hotel Staff Affairs
Late nights, long shifts, and endless temptation—what really happens when the world is sleeping? In this episode of Forbidden Wayz, we dive into the secret life of infidelity among bartenders, waitresses, nurses, and hotel staff....
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30:39
Are Threesomes Worth It? Pleasure, Jealousy & Truth Bombs
Everyone talks about threesomes—but do they actually live up to the fantasy? In this episode, we unpack the good, the bad, and the sweaty reality of adding a third. Do threesomes spice up relationships, or are they just way too muc...
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20:42
The First Time You Had or Asked for Anal — Uncensored Stories
Let’s be honest: anal play is the ultimate taboo for a lot of people. In this unfiltered episode, I sit down with my guest co-host Level to ask: When was the first time you tried it—or asked for it? We dive into the awkwar...
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26:08
What It’s Really Like to Be Paid for Pleasure | Male Escort Tell-All
Step into the world most men only fantasize about. In this exclusive interview, I sit down with Level, a working male escort, to reveal the raw truth about what it takes to live this double life. From wild client stories to intimac...
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19:17
“Girls Trip Turned Girls Gone Wild… Literally”
What really happens on girls trips when the drinks hit, the clothes drop, and the tension finally explodes?In this unfiltered episode, Issa spills every messy, sexy detail from her wild girl-on-girl vacation — from flirty eye co...
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19:16
“Cuckolding Confessions: When He Wanted to Watch”
Ever been watched while someone else had their way with you? In this explosive episode, Issa and Sherilyn dives deep into the messy, freaky, and emotionally complex world of cuckolding — where submission, desire, an...
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19:40
“Once You Go Flavor… You Never Go Back: Dating Outside Your Race & Loving It 🍫🍦🌶️”
Why limit yourself to just one flavor… when the whole menu is right there?In this mouthwatering episode of Forbidden Wayz, Essa and Sherilyn dive into the messy, thrilling, and often controversial world of interracial dating. From cultur...
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25:34
“Name-Calling in Bed? Why Being a ‘Sl*t’ Felt So Damn Good”
What happens when shame turns you on? In this explosive episode of Forbidden Wayz, Essa and Sherilyn dive headfirst into the wild world of degradation kinks, slut play, and the blurred line between disrespect and desire. Why do certain wo...
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26:19
“Touched in Public, Ordered Dessert with a Moan: The Thrill of Public Play 🍽️💦
Ever tried to keep your cool while your lover had their hand between your thighs—right as the waiter asked if you wanted fries or salad?In this dangerously delicious episode of Forbidden Wayz, Essa and Sherilyn slip into the taboo world ...
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28:42
“Is He Gay… or Just In Touch With His Prostate?”
Let’s talk about the peach. 🍑 Because the moment a man shows interest in anything back there, people start asking: “Wait… is that gay?”In this episode, we’re blowing up the myth that booty play defines your sexua...
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22:05
“When Loyalty Feels Like Lockdown: The Price of Monogamy”
You’ve got the commitment. The ring, the title, the routine. But where did the heat go?This episode dives headfirst into the tension between monogamy and sexual aliveness. We’re getting raw about the truth so many coupl...
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33:05
“Sacred. Sweaty. Single: Healing in Your Hoe Era”
They called it a hoe phase... but what if it was your healing era?In this episode, we're diving deep into the truth that nobody wants to admit: sometimes the late-night hookups, the fleeting pleasure, the bodies, the sweat, the mess—it’s...
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29:21
Sex = Intimacy Nope, ( And that's why you still feel lonely)
You had the sex. The chemistry was wild. The orgasm hit... But why did you still wake up feeling empty?In this episode, we’re breaking the myth that sex automatically equals intimacy. Because let’s be honest—bodies can collide w...
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33:06
Sexless Marriage: Who’s to Blame?
Is intimacy fading in your relationship? In Sexless Marriage: Who’s to Blame?, we dive deep into the emotional, psychological, and physical reasons behind intimacy struggles. Through raw conversations, expert insights, and real-l...
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28:04
"Wasting Time: Breaking Free From Relationships Past Their Prime"
"Why do we stay in relationships that have clearly run their course? In this episode, we dive into the uncomfortable truth about holding on to love that’s expired. From fear of change to guilt and everything in between, we unpack the reas...
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