The Velvet Hammer Podcast

“Sacred. Sweaty. Single: Healing in Your Hoe Era”

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They called it a hoe phase... but what if it was your healing era?

In this episode, we're diving deep into the truth that nobody wants to admit: sometimes the late-night hookups, the fleeting pleasure, the bodies, the sweat, the mess—it’s not about being reckless. It’s about reclamation.

We’re unpacking:

  • Why sex can be a tool for healing after heartbreak, betrayal, or trauma
  • The difference between avoiding your pain and alchemizing it through experience
  • How a “hoe phase” can be sacred when it’s conscious, embodied, and for you
  • What self-worth, power, and desire look like outside of shame

If you’ve ever wondered whether your wild phase was actually a way back to yourself… this episode says yes. Loudly. And without apology.

Because healing doesn’t always look quiet. Sometimes, it moans.

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Hosted by Vee, a former dominatrix with 10+ years of experience, this is where intimacy, BDSM, kinks, and taboo desires collide. We go deep into threesomes, anal play, escorts, submission, dominance, and the unspoken truths about sex and power.

💋 Expect raw interviews, shock-value confessions, and real tools to spice your love life and master your fantasies. Come curious, leave hammer’d.

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