The Velvet Hammer Podcast

“Why Straight Men Hide Their Freaky Desires From the Women They Love”

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Why do straight men hide their freaky desires from the women they love? In this raw, messy, unfiltered Velvet Hammer episode, we dig into the real reasons men stay quiet about their kinks—fear of judgment, masculinity pressure, shame, intimacy anxiety, and the belief that their partner “can’t handle” who they really are.

We’re unpacking male pleasure, hidden fantasies, vulnerability, and why men open up sexually to strangers before they ever feel safe with their own partner.

If you want a freaky man, you have to be a safe space for his truth. This episode gets real.

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Hosted by Vee, a former dominatrix with 10+ years of experience, this is where intimacy, BDSM, kinks, and taboo desires collide. We go deep into threesomes, anal play, escorts, submission, dominance, and the unspoken truths about sex and power.

💋 Expect raw interviews, shock-value confessions, and real tools to spice your love life and master your fantasies. Come curious, leave hammer’d.

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