The Velvet Hammer Podcast

“Shame in the Shadows: The Kink Secrets Killing Your Connection”

Forbiddenwayz

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Shame doesn’t just whisper—it sabotages. In this episode, V peels back the velvet curtain on the hidden dangers of silencing your desires, especially when it comes to kinks. When we hide what we crave, need, or fantasize about, shame becomes the third partner in the relationship—slowly suffocating intimacy, trust, and emotional connection. 

We talk about:

  • How unspoken kinks breed resentment, boredom, and emotional distance
  • Why vulnerability feels riskier than secrecy—and how that belief ruins relationships
  • The psychological damage of wearing masks in love instead of in the bedroom
  • How to create safe spaces for kink conversations without losing your power or mystique
  • Reigniting intimacy by killing shame before it kills the spark

This is a call to arms, hearts, and pleasure: Your partner can’t desire the real you if they don’t even know her/him or Them. Come curious, leave Hammer’d.

🎙 Velvet Hammer by Forbidden Wayz — where intimacy meets truth, power, and the kinks we’re too scared to say out loud.

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Hosted by Vee, a former dominatrix with 10+ years of experience, this is where intimacy, BDSM, kinks, and taboo desires collide. We go deep into threesomes, anal play, escorts, submission, dominance, and the unspoken truths about sex and power.

💋 Expect raw interviews, shock-value confessions, and real tools to spice your love life and master your fantasies. Come curious, leave hammer’d.

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