Move with Michela
Move with Michela is a self-development, wellness & motivational podcast that narrows in on overcoming the slew of challenges pervasive in life. This platform constitutes itself on moving with every season, phase, and chapter of your life regardless of the circumstances that may arise at one point or another. Your host, Michela DiGesu, illuminates this message through her lens and the many experiences she’s had to endure throughout her life. She provides insight on how she’s learned how to combat and therefore, effectively embrace the many phases presented on her journey thus far with a growth mindset. A space that invites you to be authentically you, no excuses—just you. The place where you will learn how to cultivate mindset shifts in order to continue moving no matter what obstacles and hurdles your life throws at you.
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Embrace being disliked, people’s opinions of you are none of your business
In today’s episode, I talk about why I think it’s of utmost value and importance to embrace being disliked. I delve into one of the 7 rules of life I resonate wholeheartedly with that articulates how people’s opinions of you are none of your business.
During every season and chapter of my life, I’ve learned how to get better at not caring about and not placing as much value on what everyone else could potentially be thinking of me or saying about me. Granted, we’re human and being human means sometimes we do find ourselves placing value on external acceptance indiscriminately. It’s swapping the narrative in our brain and feeding it to embrace the feeling of being disliked—that it’s okay to not be favored by everyone.
I believe there’s endless power in being silently authentic and allowing people to cultivate their own ideologies and opinions of you, good or bad, allow them to assume incorrectly and however they’d like to based off of their own perceptive lenses. People’s opinions have more to do with their own internal worlds than your persona, and most of the time it has very little to do with you or who you are.
Accept that and move on.
I hope this episode can serve as a reminder that you cannot live your life based on the potentiality of other people’s notions about you. Instead, continually block out the noise and persistently honor your inner compass on your trajectory.
Keep moving, keep going, and keep flourishing because the chatter of others’ opinions should not and will not dictate the outcome of your destiny in this life.
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