Episode 43 - Dodging Bullets Like I’m in The Matrix

Dating in my 40s sometimes feels like a high-stakes action movie, and honestly? I am thrilled to be dodging these emotional bullets. In this episode, I break down one of my latest dating encounters—a guy who seemed promising until his insecurities started screaming through his messages. We went from a decent conversation to him over-explaining his financial success, subtly dismissing my concerns, and then suddenly deciding we weren’t a match… only to immediately ask me out. The flip-flopping? The weird energy? The unmatch at the end? Hilarious. If you’ve ever dealt with a guy who can’t figure out what he wants but somehow expects you to be impressed, you’re going to love this one.

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