After countless low-effort matches, ghostings, and confusing conversations, I’ve finally met someone who feels different. In this episode, I share what it’s been like to date someone who is sweet, emotionally present, physically confid...

Some dating conversations feel like an interview, others feel like a monologue, and some… just leave you confused. In this episode, I share my bizarre exchange with a former Marine—who went from serving his country to selling ...

If you’ve ever had a guy assume your profession for absolutely no reason, this episode is for you. First, I talk about a guy who confidently decided I was a librarian—based solely on the fact that I read books. Then, I dive in...

I’ve been wracking my brain over the shockingly low level of effort in dating where I live. Is it just me? Or is this an actual cultural thing? A friend of mine said that women in my area have just accepted t...

Ever had a conversation so good that you knew it was going somewhere… only to be completely ghosted the next day? In this episode, I talk about my five-hour-long phone call with a guy who seemed like he was actually interested...

Dating in my 40s sometimes feels like a high-stakes action movie, and honestly? I am thrilled to be dodging these emotional bullets. In this episode, I break down one of my latest dating encounters—a guy who seemed promising u...

Another one bites the dust

Year-end summary of my dating in 2024

Boundaries are a critical part of any healthy relationship, especially when it comes to dating.

You deserve more than a relationship that leaves you feeling empty. You deserve more than settling for less than what makes you truly happy. You deserve to be with someone who respects your boundaries, values your needs, and wants to see you th...

It’s about rediscovering the person you are outside of a relationship so that when you enter one again, you do so as your authentic, empowered self.

We all have those people in our lives who come and go with such irregularity that it’s hard to know what their intentions are. These are the people I call "the boomerangs." 

the next time someone pops up with that vague, “How’s it going?” ask yourself: Do I really want to continue this ambiguous dance? Or is it time to let them drift away for good?

Third love is something to embrace fully. It’s about trusting your instincts and your heart while also allowing yourself the freedom to choose what’s best for you.

Dating can be challenging, but it’s important to recognize when someone isn’t giving you the effort and attention you deserve.