Dating in your 40's

Episode 46 - Librarians, Low Effort, and Lukewarm Interest

Natalie Season 2 Episode 46

If you’ve ever had a guy assume your profession for absolutely no reason, this episode is for you. First, I talk about a guy who confidently decided I was a librarian—based solely on the fact that I read books. Then, I dive into the painfully slow fade of someone who seemed interested… until his response time went from thoughtful messages to one every two days. Spoiler: it ended with an underwhelming coffee invite that made me question why I even bothered. If you’re tired of low-effort dating, lukewarm interest, and men who don’t even try—this episode is a must-listen.


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