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Helping People Grow
Growth is normal, all we have to do is create the right conditions. In the Helping People Grow podcast you will learn the five conditions for life-change and how to create them in your most cherished relationships.
Based on the book Helping People Grow written by John Dehnert
Episodes
14 episodes
Episode 14 – Practice Five: Stick With it
The temptation to go faster and do more keeps us from giving our best effort to personal growth. In this episode, John talks about the pervasive danger of “hurry” in the human heart. Our solution? Rejecting life lived at the speed of culture an...
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Episode 14
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16:06
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Episode 13 – Practice Four: Help it
Helping people grow is easier when we have a triage process that points to effective next steps. In this episode, John walks through four options that help loved ones select the right “tools” to break through growth barriers.Amazon:
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Episode 13
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23:12
Episode 12 – Practice Three: See it & Say it
In order to grow we have to see the things in our lives that need changing. Come to find out that’s nearly impossible to do on our own. In this episode, John explains what it takes to look beneath the reflective surface of our lives and then ta...
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Episode 12
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21:10
Episode 11 – Practice Two: Ask For It
Leading people to life change is an “inside job” so it only works when we’re invited into their internal world. In this episode, John breaks down the two kinds of permission we need to influence others: ambient permission and active permission....
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Episode 11
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16:50
Episode 10 – Practice One: Wear It
Becoming your truest self can be extremely hard so it helps when someone models what it looks like to move toward that. In this episode John introduces the practice of living in the center of your own growth process, all the while welcoming oth...
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Episode 10
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16:28
Episode 9 – Life Changing Condition Five: Caregiving validates the life-changing conditions
In a transactional world like ours, it can be hard for people to trust our motives. In this episode, we look at caregiving as the final life condition that authenticates our love for people as we help them reach for change and growth.
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Episode 9
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30:58
Episode 8 – Life Changing Condition Four: Affirming the right messages
Every person alive is receiving messages all the time. Our response to those messagesdetermines our ability to change and grow. In this episode we look at how to affirm the healthy messages and refute the unhealthy messages.Amazon: ...
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Episode 8
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34:31
Episode 7 – Life Changing Condition #3 – Vulnerability Opens the Door to Life Change
In this episode, we look at the value and practice of vulnerability. Relational safety is an amazing gift; it’s the doorway to change and growth. But what good is that doorway if we won’t walk through it? Vulnerability is how we allow the safe ...
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Episode 7
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36:16
Episode 6 – Life Changing Condition #2 – Truth is the Raw Material of Life Change
In this episode, we look at the second life changing condition, “Helping people say ‘yes’ to the truth.” Our loved ones cannot grow without living in the truth—no one can. Moreover, life only works when we live in the truth. Why? Because truth ...
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Episode 6
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28:45
Episode 5 – Life Changing Condition #1 - Safety is the Doorway to Life Change
In this episode we discover that relational safety is the essential first ingredient in the growth process. It is the “doorway” to life change because you can’t create any of the other conditions without safety.Amazon:
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Episode 5
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27:38
Episode 4 – We Grow Best Together
We grow best in the right kinds of relationships and communities. But what do those relationships and communities look like? John previews the five essential life changing conditions that lead people naturally to change and grow: safety, truth,...
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Episode 4
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32:33
Episode 3 – Living your Intentions – Part 2
In this episode, we look at pushing through the barriers that keep us from living our intentions. John shares about the value of “pushing back together;” focusing on practical ideas for closing the gap between our stated and actual intentions.<...
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Episode 3
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39:34
Episode 2 – Living your Intentions – Part 1
John introduces the big idea of living your intentions. There is a huge difference between having intentions and actually living them. How do you intend to help your important people become their truest selves? John examines the barriers that k...
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Episode 2
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Episode 1 – Welcome to the Helping People Grow
In this podcast launch John begins to talk about the process of life change and growth—which he wrote about in his book, “Helping People Grow”. He asks, “Who do you love? Who are the people who matter to you?” It’s our love for people that moti...
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Season 1
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Episode 1
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