Tea & Glitter
I'm Ivy of the Les Vixens, host of Tea & Glitter. I'm a lesbian burlesque performer dedicated to creating safe spaces, empowering queer babes, and sharing the glitter grind. Come hang out with me while I spill the tea & give you that gay girl glitter on how to live a more peaceful, productive, and pretty life.
Episodes
21 episodes
the glitter grind
get all the bts on what it's like running a queer burlesque troupe, performing, and what it takes to create sapphic events. spoiler alert: it's a lot of work, diva! you also get to know the Les Vixens origin story. hope you enjoy this honest &a...
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Season 2
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Episode 3
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44:44
queer joy is resistance
things in this country might be a total dumpster fire but i'm here to tell you that queer joy is resistance. taking care of ourselves is resistance. leaning into our community is resistance. we're going to be alright. between now and whatever i...
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Season 2
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Episode 2
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41:15
imposter syndrome sucks
i'm baaaack! with a new episode, and i've missed you so so so much. this one is a ramble about how i handle imposter syndrome, comparing myself, negative self-talk, and the strategies i use to get myself centered & back to kicking a$$! i ho...
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Season 2
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Episode 1
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49:11
happy anniversary! q&GAY
a whole year of Tea & Glitter?! *throws confetti* thank you all so much for joining me on this adventure. here's a super honest and juicy q&GAY to celebrate! find out if I'm single, if I get turned on giving lap dances, and so much more...
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Season 1
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Episode 18
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54:21
no contact cuties - a life of acceptance
we have a lot going against us as queer kittens, and navigating relationships with people who don't accept us can be a painful part of the journey. but you've got this - and you'll find so much peace & joy on this journey that those idiots ...
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Season 1
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Episode 17
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50:39
male gaze vs. the sapphic gaze
breaking away from the male gaze and reclaiming our space, freedom, autonomy - oooh, baby! let's get into it! what the heck is the male gaze? what's the sapphic gaze? well, let me tell ya! CLASS IS IN SESSION! your favorite lesbian teacher is h...
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Season 1
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Episode 16
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49:32
sober life
oooh baby this episode gets PERSONAL. it's all about why i'm sober, how long i've been sober, what it's like being sober in the entertainment industry, and also some super personal traumas i've been through. wee! trigger warning: i do t...
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Season 1
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Episode 15
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56:43
body image: ending the war
WWTSD? Find out in this episode! we’re talking about body image and ways that we can stop being so dang MEAN to ourselves. and how to find neutrality so that the WAR IS OVER and we can start healing. ilysm & want the best for you!...
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Season 1
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Episode 14
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50:19
mean girls, trolls, & haters
mean girls & haters can really ruin your pretty little day, and i just won't stand for it! in this episode i'm sharing my perspective shifts & how to reclaim your power from the trolls dedicated to dimming your light. you are brilliant ...
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Season 1
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Episode 13
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41:50
mental health hotties
mental health, the stigma around it, and making better choices for ourselves - these are some of the things we're chatting about today. i share (and overshare) in the hopes that talking about my own mental health can help shine a light and less...
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Season 1
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Episode 12
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50:12
breakups 💔 THE WORST
breakups are THE WORST. wlw & lesbian breakups are even WORSE. in my opinion but also scientifically proven. in this episode we're talking about how to survive a breakup in the least messy way possible. it's our longest episode yet but i GO...
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Season 1
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Episode 11
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1:05:55
juicy q&gay - episode TEN! omg
ooooh girlies & gays! we made it to the 10th episode! I'M SO HYPED! in this episode i'm answering some juicy listener questions - like am i interested in dating or nah? does being a top mean i'm a touch-me-not? what to do when your partner'...
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44:48
the girlfriend episode (pt. 2)
hi, cutie pies! we're closing out this two-parter with LIVE, LAUGH, LESBIANS! Or the other 3 L's that I think it takes to make a relationship work: Love. Lust. and Lifestyle. i'm sharing some of my best relationship advice & how i wish lesb...
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Season 1
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Episode 9
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42:53
the girlfriend episode (pt. 1)
in this episode we answer the age-old question: how to get a girlfriend! but also like... are you actually ready for a girlfriend? how the hell do we flirt with girls when girls are terrifying? will the idea of rejection keep you from ever appr...
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Season 1
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Episode 8
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39:22
femme invisibility
hi, hotties! welcome to episode 7 of Tea & Glitter! in this episode, we're talking about femme invisibility - my experiences with it and thoughts about it, and how i feel it affects the LGBTQ+ community as a whole. style plays a huge role i...
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Season 1
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Episode 7
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37:13
romanticizing your life <3
THIS IS MY FAVORITE EPISODE SO FAR!!! in today's episode we talk about something that is near & dear (and queer) to my heart because it literally changed my life. finding the magic in the mundane. romanticizing your life. because you deserv...
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Season 1
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Episode 6
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33:13
defining your queerness
hi, sweet angel babies! welcome to episode 5, where we're talking about defining our queerness - our style, our identities, and our queer sexual dynamics! masc vs femme and toxic masculinity, gay culture putting us in boxes, and giving ourselve...
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Season 1
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Episode 5
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27:58
internalized homophobia - SO fun!
oof. this episode is EMOTIONAL. but i think totally necessary. we talk all about internalized homophobia & shame, and how to heal from both. i hope you find some comfort & support in this episode, and THANK YOU for all the love & su...
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Season 1
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Episode 4
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39:41
the in's & outs of coming out!
hi, bbs! in this episode, i share all my love & knowledge about coming out - how to come out to yourself, and how to come out to the people in your life. i'm here for you - i'm part of your support system and i hope you feel that in this ep...
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Season 1
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Episode 3
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35:14