The Wounds That Do Not Heal
In "The Wounds That Do Not Heal," host Tressa Brady opens up about her personal experience with domestic violence in military families, shedding light on an often-hidden issue. Through her raw and vulnerable storytelling, she shares the struggles, pain, and resilience she has witnessed and endured while seeking to provide help and support to those who desperately need it.
Tressa also interviews experts in the field of domestic violence, including psychologists, counselors, social workers, and survivors, who uncover the harsh realities and systemic challenges faced by military families. Together, they explore the unique dynamics and complexities surrounding domestic violence within this community, breaking down stigmas and fostering a crucial conversation that goes beyond the surface.
"The Wounds That Do Not Heal" aims to create a safe space for listeners to reflect, learn, and gain a deeper understanding of the impact domestic violence has on military families. This podcast strives to make a positive change and inspire action by offering valuable resources, guidance, and empowerment.
Join Tressa on this emotional journey as she advocates for change and supports those in need.
The Wounds That Do Not Heal
Episode 11: The Systemic Failures of Criminal Courts that are Costing Women Their Lives: The Story of Jackelyn Wilson’s Preventable Murder
Judge DaSean Jones had a chance to stop a violent man from causing more harm. Instead, his leniency led to tragedy—a mother of four, Jackelyn Wilson, was killed in front of her children by a man with a history of violence.
Despite clear warnings and previous convictions, Jackelyn's pleas for protection were ignored. Her story is just one of many tragic tales that show how broken the system is that is meant to shield victims of domestic abuse but often fails them instead.
In this episode, we talk about the consequences of judicial negligence and the disastrous ripple effect it has on families. Why are violent offenders allowed to walk free, and what needs to change in the way our courts handle domestic violence?
Could Jackelyn and her children have been saved if the system took her threats seriously? Should judges bear responsibility for the preventable deaths of victims like Jackelyn?
What You’ll Learn:
- Who Jackelyn Wilson was and her tragic story.
- The series of judicial failures that led to Jackelyn’s murder.
- The violent history of Jackelyn’s abuser, Howard Ruffin.
- The systemic failures in handling domestic violence cases.
- Judge DaSean Jones’ controversial leniency on violent offenders.
Ideas Worth Sharing:
- “We don't punish these men until they kill. They assault and assault and assault, and the judges look the other way, and when they kill, they go, ‘How'd this happen?’” - Tressa Brady
- “The legal system is not set up to favor women. Not by a long shot.” - Tressa Brady
- “It shouldn't be surprising that one of the most common reasons women stay with their abusers is because they know the court won't punish the abusers; they'll get away with it, and then they will retaliate for the woman trying to expose them.” - Tressa Brady
Resources
- Tina Swithin, author of Divorcing a Narcissist: Instagram
- How the Cash Bail System Endangers the Health of Black Americans
- 32-year-old mother of 4 murdered allegedly by her boyfriend, victim's mother blames Harris County judge
- Terran Green denied bail on attempted murder charges tied to shootings of law enforcement
- National Police Association
- Houstonians Grow Increasingly Impatient with Pro-Criminal Judges Like DaSean Jones
