The Wounds That Do Not Heal
In "The Wounds That Do Not Heal," host Tressa Brady opens up about her personal experience with domestic violence in military families, shedding light on an often-hidden issue. Through her raw and vulnerable storytelling, she shares the struggles, pain, and resilience she has witnessed and endured while seeking to provide help and support to those who desperately need it.
Tressa also interviews experts in the field of domestic violence, including psychologists, counselors, social workers, and survivors, who uncover the harsh realities and systemic challenges faced by military families. Together, they explore the unique dynamics and complexities surrounding domestic violence within this community, breaking down stigmas and fostering a crucial conversation that goes beyond the surface.
"The Wounds That Do Not Heal" aims to create a safe space for listeners to reflect, learn, and gain a deeper understanding of the impact domestic violence has on military families. This podcast strives to make a positive change and inspire action by offering valuable resources, guidance, and empowerment.
Join Tressa on this emotional journey as she advocates for change and supports those in need.
Episodes
29 episodes
Episode 30: Sworn to Protect, Compelled to Kill — The Preventable Murder of Megan Montgomery
In this episode, Tressa confronts the brutal reality of how systems designed to protect victims often do the opposite. Through the story of Megan Montgomery—a vibrant, hopeful woman whose life intersected with law enforcement, the courts, and a...
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Episode 29: Possession, Not Partnership: The Killing of Tashianna Blake
What happens when the very institutions sworn to protect us become the breeding ground for unchecked violence? In this searing episode, we step outside Hawaii—to confront the brutal murder of Tashianna Blake, a mother of two, whose life was sto...
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Episode 29
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Episode 26: Natasha Soto's Last Dance
Natasha Soto Rivera was a Marine, a newlywed, and a new mother whose life radiated promise. At just 20, she was thriving in one of the most male-dominated branches of the military. But behind the celebration, something darker was brewing.
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40:43
Episode 25: From Homecoming to Homicide: The Betrayal of Amy Contreras
Last episode, we mourned the consequences of untreated PTSD. This time, we confront something far more calculated: a story of entitlement, control, and the deadly cost of leaving.Sergeant Amy Colbert had done the unimaginable—survived wa...
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Episode 25
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Episode 24: The War Machine Doesn’t Stop—Even When the Battle Ends: The Desmond Family Tragedy
In this deeply personal and unflinchingly honest episode, Tressa will unravel the tragedy at the heart of a Canadian family’s devastation... and the sprawling system failures behind it. From ignored cries for help to institutional silence, and ...
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Episode 24
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Episode 23 (Part 2) What’s Done in the Dark: Unmasking Jordan Henning and Honoring Ashley’s Truth
**NSFW**In this episode, Tressa delves into the trial of Jordan Henning, exposing the ways Ashley Henning was failed by the system.We’ve dissected the crime, unraveled the investigation, and now, we step into the heart of the cour...
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Episode 23
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Episode 22: (Part 1) What’s Done in the Dark: Unmasking Jordan Henning and Honoring Ashley’s Truth
In part one of this gripping episode, we unravel the shocking case of Jordan Henning, who murdered his wife, Ashley Henning. Tressa uncovers how an anonymous source handed her explosive evidence that the trial and media did not expose—revealing...
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Episode 22
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Episode 21: Misplaced Honor: Exposing a False Idol and Celebrating the Real Hero, Madalyn Coulter
In this deeply emotional and thought-provoking episode, Tressa returns after an unplanned hiatus to tackle an array of systemic issues. From navigating the complexities of domestic violence, military accountability, and the enduring trauma of w...
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Episode 21
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58:46
Episode 20: Plea for Help, Shadowed by Blame: Dana Alotaibi’s Story
Dive into the haunting story of Dana Alotaibi, an OnlyFans model and influencer, whose life was cut tragically short. In this episode, Tressa explores the systemic failures, societal attitudes, and lack of empathy that left Dana vulnerable desp...
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Episode 20
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37:39
Episode 19 (Part 2): Warriors' Wounds: From Exemplary Service to Terrorism-the story of Shamsud-Din Jabbar
In this gripping episode, we explore the tragic stories of two Army veterans, Matthew Livelsberger and Shamsud-Din Jabbar, who committed shocking acts on New Year's Day. Both men, plagued by mental health struggles, spiraled into radicalization...
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Episode 19
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31:55
Mini Episode: Unanswered: They Refused to Name Ruby Alcantar (Tenorio)—So I Did. The Murder of a Marine Wife on MCBH, and the Silence That Still Echoes
Rest in peace Ruby. I promise I will not let them sweep this under the rug. Ruby Tenorio Obituary and Online Memorial (2024)YouTub...
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Episode 18 (Part 1): Warriors' Wounds: From Combat to Conspiracy, the story of Matthew Livelsberger
This podcast episode delves into the tragic events surrounding Matthew Livelsberger, a 37-year-old active-duty Special Operations Soldier, who committed suicide and detonated a vehicle-born improvised explosive device (VBIED) outside Trump Towe...
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Episode 18
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35:20
Episode 17 (Part 2): Cults, Collusion, Coverups and the Hawaii Military Lore
In this episode, Tressa explores the dichotomy of Hawaii as both a paradise and a challenging station for military personnel, highlighting the high cost of living and unique dynamics that can create stress, especially for lower-ranking service ...
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Episode 17
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33:09
Episode 16 (Part 1): Cults, Collusion, Coverups and the Hawaii Military Lore
TW: Suicide and rape discussed in this episode:In this episode, we delve into the dark and often hidden world of military corruption, domestic violence, military sexual trauma, and conspiracy theories. Listeners will hear about ...
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Episode 16
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47:59
Episode 15: Crisis on Hawaii's Military Bases: Holding Leadership Accountable for Domestic Violence and the diabolical plan to murder Catherine Walker
Dive into the unsettling realities of Hawaii's military bases, where a pattern of domestic violence and unexplained murders have gone alarmingly without major systemic changes. This episode unravels a chilling case that underscores the systemic...
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Episode 14: Shattered Idols: The Hidden Abuse by Service Members and the Harrowing Murder of Andreen McDonald
Andre McDonald seemed to have it all—an Air Force Major with a successful wife and beautiful daughter. But behind the facade of this San Antonio power couple lay a dark reality of control, abuse, and ultimately, murder.When 29-yea...
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Episode 14
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41:28
Episode 13: Holiday Heartbreak: Military Failure Leads to the Death of Three. The Preventable Murder of Sarah Lewis and Her Beloved Baby Girl
This podcast episode is a heartfelt and intense reflection on the challenges and dangers that holidays can bring, especially for those in abusive relationships. Tressa shares personal experiences of abuse during holidays, highlighting how incre...
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Episode 13
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26:16
Episode 12: Expat Marine Brings More Violence to Australia: The Horrifying Murder of Kelly Wilkinson
Kelly Wilkinson knew she was in danger. She had a code phrase ready—"I'm considering moving back to Ohio"—to signal to her family that her life was at risk. But before she could use it, her worst fears came true.
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Episode 11: The Systemic Failures of Criminal Courts that are Costing Women Their Lives: The Story of Jackelyn Wilson’s Preventable Murder
Judge DaSean Jones had a chance to stop a violent man from causing more harm. Instead, his leniency led to tragedy—a mother of four, Jackelyn Wilson, was killed in front of her children by a man with a history of violence.Despite ...
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Episode 10: Moral Injury, Mistreatment, and Murder: The Tragic Story of Private John Needham and Jacqwelyn Villagomez
John Needham was a decorated soldier, an artist, and a man battling demons after serving in the Iraq War.Despite surviving the horrors of war, his battle with PTSD, traumatic brain injuries, and moral injury led to a tragic outcom...
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Episode 9: Selena Roth: The Advocate
The youngest of nine, Selena was a force of nature—a talented violinist, star athlete, and dedicated military intelligence analyst.But behind her achievements lay a dark secret: a troubled marriage marked by manipulation and contr...
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Episode 9
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Episode 8: Honor Walk: The Meghan Santiago Story
What happens when the system designed to protect fails those who need it most?In this episode, I will share with you the tragic story of Meghan Santiago, a devoted mother and military spouse who endured unimaginable abuse at the ...
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Episode 8
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38:58
Episode 7: All Things Love and War… and Legal Advice: An Interview with Expert Attorney Amanda J. Hill
How does the intersection of military law and state family law impact the rights and protections available to military spouses? And do you lose your TRICARE after divorce?I invited attorney Amanda J. Hill to cut through the confus...
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Episode 7
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47:24
Episode 6: Keep Rising (Part B) - Expert Interview with Dr. Megan McCoy, Certified Financial Therapist and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
How can financial therapy change your view on money and relationships?Dr. Megan McCoy, the nation’s first financial therapist and a licensed marriage and family therapist, talks about how financial therapy can help when dealing w...
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Episode 6
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44:41
Episode 5: Keep Rising (Part A)
Is the traditional wife trend merely a nostalgic fantasy, or does it conceal a sinister reality? In this episode, I peel back the layers of the picture-perfect stay-at-home housewife image to expose the insidious nature of economic abu...
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