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The Wounds That Do Not Heal

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Episode 12: Expat Marine Brings More Violence to Australia: The Horrifying Murder of Kelly Wilkinson

November 19, 2024 • Tressa Brady

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Kelly Wilkinson knew she was in danger. She had a code phrase ready—"I'm considering moving back to Ohio"—to signal to her family that her life was at risk. But before she could use it, her worst fears came true.

This episode delves into a story of domestic abuse, systemic negligence, and a preventable tragedy. We explore how societal and institutional failures contribute to these heartbreaking outcomes and why Australia, with its relatively smaller population, sees approximately one woman per week killed by an intimate partner.

How can we hold systems accountable for their role in failing victims? And what needs to change to ensure no other family endures this pain?

What You’ll Learn:

Who was Kelly Wilkinson?
Family code words and safety planning in domestic violence situations
The role systemic failures played in Kelly’s preventable murder.
The scheme behind Brian Earl Johnston's abuse of Kelly.
How police negligence and judicial complacency left Kelly unprotected.
The social and institutional issues of domestic violence in Australia.

Ideas Worth Sharing:

“If a mother is being abused, then guess what? So are the children. Even if it's just that they're witnessing their mother being abused, that's abuse.” - Tressa Brady
“Australia is a country of about 26 million people, so less than Florida's population. And yet, approximately one woman a week is murdered by an intimate partner.” - Tressa Brady
“Leave no trace. Don't warn them. Don't meet up with them to talk or give them closure. Don't give them one last chance because the best predictor of the future is the past. Get out, but do so safely.” - Tressa Brady

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