The Wounds That Do Not Heal
In "The Wounds That Do Not Heal," host Tressa Brady opens up about her personal experience with domestic violence in military families, shedding light on an often-hidden issue. Through her raw and vulnerable storytelling, she shares the struggles, pain, and resilience she has witnessed and endured while seeking to provide help and support to those who desperately need it.
Tressa also interviews experts in the field of domestic violence, including psychologists, counselors, social workers, and survivors, who uncover the harsh realities and systemic challenges faced by military families. Together, they explore the unique dynamics and complexities surrounding domestic violence within this community, breaking down stigmas and fostering a crucial conversation that goes beyond the surface.
"The Wounds That Do Not Heal" aims to create a safe space for listeners to reflect, learn, and gain a deeper understanding of the impact domestic violence has on military families. This podcast strives to make a positive change and inspire action by offering valuable resources, guidance, and empowerment.
Join Tressa on this emotional journey as she advocates for change and supports those in need.
The Wounds That Do Not Heal
Episode 17 (Part 2): Cults, Collusion, Coverups and the Hawaii Military Lore
In this episode, Tressa explores the dichotomy of Hawaii as both a paradise and a challenging station for military personnel, highlighting the high cost of living and unique dynamics that can create stress, especially for lower-ranking service members with families. The discussion then shifts to a broader trend of young men, including teenagers, resorting to extreme violence and murder when faced with rejection, emphasizing the alarming rise in teen violence since the 90s and the impact of access to firearms and lack of emotional control.
The episode underscores the importance of teaching young people about healthy boundaries and coercive control to prevent teen dating violence. The host shares personal insights and expert opinions on instilling these values in children from a young age.
Tragic stories of two women, Ms. Kayla Holder and Ms. Laau Jordan Laulusa, who lost their lives to young service members, are shared to highlight the devastating impact of emotional abuse and lack of self-regulation in relationships.
The episode concludes with a call to action, urging listeners to rate and review the show to help reach more people in similar situations and offering safety tips for those considering leaving abusive relationships.
Sources for today's episode:
Intimate Partner Homicide of Adolescents | Adolescent Medicine | JAMA Pediatrics | JAMA Network
Family mourns victims of Ewa Beach double-homicide; suspect charged, bail set at $2M
Ex-gf of Mililani murder suspect speaks out | KHON2
