The Wounds That Do Not Heal
In "The Wounds That Do Not Heal," host Tressa Brady opens up about her personal experience with domestic violence in military families, shedding light on an often-hidden issue. Through her raw and vulnerable storytelling, she shares the struggles, pain, and resilience she has witnessed and endured while seeking to provide help and support to those who desperately need it.
Tressa also interviews experts in the field of domestic violence, including psychologists, counselors, social workers, and survivors, who uncover the harsh realities and systemic challenges faced by military families. Together, they explore the unique dynamics and complexities surrounding domestic violence within this community, breaking down stigmas and fostering a crucial conversation that goes beyond the surface.
"The Wounds That Do Not Heal" aims to create a safe space for listeners to reflect, learn, and gain a deeper understanding of the impact domestic violence has on military families. This podcast strives to make a positive change and inspire action by offering valuable resources, guidance, and empowerment.
Join Tressa on this emotional journey as she advocates for change and supports those in need.
The Wounds That Do Not Heal
Episode 30: Sworn to Protect, Compelled to Kill — The Preventable Murder of Megan Montgomery
In this episode, Tressa confronts the brutal reality of how systems designed to protect victims often do the opposite. Through the story of Megan Montgomery—a vibrant, hopeful woman whose life intersected with law enforcement, the courts, and a culture of institutional silence—we explore the devastating consequences of unchecked power and delayed justice.
From the moment Megan met Jason McIntosh, a police officer with a history of violence, the warning signs were there. But like so many women, Megan did what she was “supposed” to do: she filed protective orders, sought help, and tried to escape. What followed was a chilling unraveling of legal loopholes, judicial delays, and systemic failures that allowed her abuser to remain armed, employed, and dangerously close.
This episode dives deep into the intersection of domestic violence, law enforcement, and the legal system’s complicity. We examine how stalking, firearm access, and institutional loyalty create a perfect storm for intimate partner violence—and why education, accountability, and reform are not optional, but urgent.
If you’ve ever wondered why survivors stay silent, why restraining orders fall short, or how abusers manipulate the very systems meant to stop them—this episode will leave you shaken, informed, and ready to demand better.
Megan Montgomery Charitable Foundation:
🔗About Us - Megan Montgomery Foundation
Here are key sources that document Megan Montgomery’s story and the systemic failures surrounding her case:
The main source for today’s show:
🔗 "The End of The World as I Knew It" by Heather Buckner – Good Housekeeping
🔗Upworthy
Offers a comprehensive overview of Megan’s relationship with Jason McIntosh, the abuse she endured, and the tragic events leading to her death. Includes quotes from her mother and highlights the invisibility of domestic violence behind curated social media images.
🔗WVTM13 News
Features interviews with Megan’s family and friends, reflecting on her life, her advocacy goals, and the creation of the Megan Montgomery Foundation. Emphasizes the emotional toll and the family's commitment to turning grief into action.
🔗People Magazine
Details Jason McIntosh’s guilty plea, Megan’s efforts to help other victims, and her writings during recovery. Includes courtroom statements and reflections from her family about the long-term impact of the abuse.
Resources for survivors and those seeking support (please access only from a device your abuser cannot access):
- National Domestic Violence Hotline
24/7 confidential support via call, chat, or text. Call 800-799-7233 or text “START” to 88788. - RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network)
The nation’s largest anti-sexual violence organization. Offers a 24/7 hotline and online chat: 800-656-HOPE (4673). - NCADV (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence)
Advocacy, education, and resources for survivors and allies working to end domesti
