Wifestyle Hustle

Kids and Online Life

March 06, 2024 Ellyn and Lauren
Kids and Online Life
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Wifestyle Hustle
Kids and Online Life
Mar 06, 2024
Ellyn and Lauren

We took on a big topic today. We discussed how we handled our kids being online through the ages. It is so hard to know, as parents, how to let go of the reins and let your kids start to go online. For us, it was something we avoided for a long time. There was no reason to let our preteens loose on the internet so we didn't. Did we handle it correctly? We think so for our kids. But that doesn't mean that is the way it should be or has to be for all kids. Every family has to make these decisions for themselves on the right timeline for them.

We tried not to scare the parents of young kids too much. There are some really good things on the internet that can provide real value. The hard part for parents is allowing those good thing through while providing a safe environment for our kids to explore. It can be a challenge. But it is possible.

Did you know we are on a new platform? Come check us out on Pinterest. We put more interesting things on our boards everyday on a wide range of topics.

Have you heard our episode on all the things we love about babies? You don't have to worry a bit about tough topics like the internet when you have sweet cuddly little babies. Listen to that HERE

Transcript

Music is by Oliver Massa. It is called Weekend Chores



Chapters

00:00   Introduction

01:06  The Importance of Allowing Kids to Be Online

02:00  Different Approaches in the Early Years

03:05  Screen Time and TV

04:05  Gradual Introduction to Internet Access

06:07  Benefits of Internet Use for Learning and Research

07:33  Positive Aspects of Social Media

09:18  Growing Up in a Digital Age

10:28  Transitioning from Traditional Research to Internet Research

11:58  Avoiding Absolute Statements and Adapting to Changing Times

13:39  The Permanence of the Internet

15:48  The Influence of Social Media and Perceived Perfection

18:28  Guiding Children in the Online World

19:49  Challenges and Risks of Internet Use

23:36  Parental Control Apps

25:12  The Internet Never Dies

26:38  The Impact of Online Bullying

28:15  The Role of Parents in Addressing Bullying

32:08  Gradually Letting Go and Trusting Your Teenagers

35:42  The Passage of Time and Cherishing Moments

36:20  Conclusion


Recap

Takeaways

  • Gradually introduce internet access and monitor online activities to ensure a safe and positive online experience for children.
  • Social media can have positive aspects, such as connecting with friends and learning new skills.
  • Teach children about the permanence of online content and the importance of being mindful of what they share.
  • Parental involvement and guidance are crucial in helping children navigate the digital world and address challenges like cyberbullying.
  • Adapt your approach to internet use based on your child's maturity level and individual needs.
Show Notes

We took on a big topic today. We discussed how we handled our kids being online through the ages. It is so hard to know, as parents, how to let go of the reins and let your kids start to go online. For us, it was something we avoided for a long time. There was no reason to let our preteens loose on the internet so we didn't. Did we handle it correctly? We think so for our kids. But that doesn't mean that is the way it should be or has to be for all kids. Every family has to make these decisions for themselves on the right timeline for them.

We tried not to scare the parents of young kids too much. There are some really good things on the internet that can provide real value. The hard part for parents is allowing those good thing through while providing a safe environment for our kids to explore. It can be a challenge. But it is possible.

Did you know we are on a new platform? Come check us out on Pinterest. We put more interesting things on our boards everyday on a wide range of topics.

Have you heard our episode on all the things we love about babies? You don't have to worry a bit about tough topics like the internet when you have sweet cuddly little babies. Listen to that HERE

Transcript

Music is by Oliver Massa. It is called Weekend Chores



Chapters

00:00   Introduction

01:06  The Importance of Allowing Kids to Be Online

02:00  Different Approaches in the Early Years

03:05  Screen Time and TV

04:05  Gradual Introduction to Internet Access

06:07  Benefits of Internet Use for Learning and Research

07:33  Positive Aspects of Social Media

09:18  Growing Up in a Digital Age

10:28  Transitioning from Traditional Research to Internet Research

11:58  Avoiding Absolute Statements and Adapting to Changing Times

13:39  The Permanence of the Internet

15:48  The Influence of Social Media and Perceived Perfection

18:28  Guiding Children in the Online World

19:49  Challenges and Risks of Internet Use

23:36  Parental Control Apps

25:12  The Internet Never Dies

26:38  The Impact of Online Bullying

28:15  The Role of Parents in Addressing Bullying

32:08  Gradually Letting Go and Trusting Your Teenagers

35:42  The Passage of Time and Cherishing Moments

36:20  Conclusion


Recap

Takeaways

  • Gradually introduce internet access and monitor online activities to ensure a safe and positive online experience for children.
  • Social media can have positive aspects, such as connecting with friends and learning new skills.
  • Teach children about the permanence of online content and the importance of being mindful of what they share.
  • Parental involvement and guidance are crucial in helping children navigate the digital world and address challenges like cyberbullying.
  • Adapt your approach to internet use based on your child's maturity level and individual needs.