Wicked Psychotherapists
What do therapy, ’80s and ’90s nostalgia, today’s hottest shows and movies—and a surprising number of Adam Sandler films—have in common?
Tanya Dos Santos and Erin Gray—two licensed psychotherapists with a wicked New England twist—are here to spill the tea and the therapeutic insights.
On The Wicked Psychotherapists Podcast, Tanya and Erin break down the mental health themes that matter most—anxiety, identity, burnout, self-worth, relationships, and resilience—through the lens of pop culture. From the rad classics of the ’80s and ’90s to today’s buzziest series and films, nothing is off-limits… especially when it somehow connects back to Adam Sandler.
Yes, we said it.
From revisiting old favorites to analyzing newer Sandler movies—and exploring the six degrees of separation of Adam Sandler—this podcast blends humor, nostalgia, and psychological insight in a way that’s smart, entertaining, and refreshingly real.
Whether you’re comfort-watching a childhood favorite, bingeing something new, or wondering why a goofy comedy hit you right in the feelings, we’re here to help you connect the dots between what you watch and how you feel.
Expect:
- Candid therapy talk with heart and humor
- Pop culture deep dives with a mental health lens
- ’80s, ’90s, and today’s movies and shows (yes, including lots of Adam Sandler)
- A dose of nostalgia, a dash of sass, and a lot of wisdom
🎙️ New episodes every Wednesday.
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Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy or mental health care, and listening does not create a therapist–client relationship.
Stay Wicked… and keep your mind well.
Episodes
114 episodes
From Pauly Shore to Click: Back in the Adam Sandler-verse
We kick things off with a very quick review of Pauly Shore Is Dead (yes, really), then dive into Click—and what it says about doomscrolling, burnout, and living life on autopilot.We talk about work, distraction, emotion...
We Watched Adam Sandler’s Bulletproof (1996) So You Don’t Have To
Let’s just say… this one was definitely a very 90s experience.We’re breaking down the buddy-cop chaos with Damon Wayans, the over-the-top action scenes, visible stunt doubles, classic Adam Sandler humor, and all the cheesy moments that s...
Heathers Revisited: 37 Years Later & 6 Degrees of Adam Sandler
“Greetings and Salutations!”We’re doing a special re-release of our Heathers episode in honor of the 37th anniversary of the film’s release (March 31, 1989). You might be wondering, “Is Adam Sandler in ...
The Psychology of Music: Why Certain Songs Hit So Deep
One of our most popular episodes is back—and it’s just as powerful as ever.Music isn’t just something we listen to—it’s something we feel.In this re-released episode, Erin and Tanya explore the deep connection between mus...
Our Adam Sandler Journey Continues: Breaking Down Punch-Drunk Love (2002
Our Adam Sandler movie journey continues, and this week we’re diving into the 2002 film Punch-Drunk Love starring Adam Sandler.In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we explore Barry Egan — a lonely, anxious, emotionally ov...
From Goofy to Heartfelt: Adam Sandler in The Wedding Singer
Join Erin and Tanya on Wicked Psychotherapists as they rewind to the 90s with The Wedding Singer! 🎤💔 Laugh along as they explore Adam Sandler’s journey from goofy comedy to heartfelt, emotionally raw performances.&...
Hustle: Adam Sandler as Your Therapist-Coach (Underdogs, Mindset & Mental Toughness)
This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, we’re breaking down Hustle (2022) starring Adam Sandler—and wow, this one hits different. 🏀✨We dive into Sandler’s powerful shift from comedy to coach, exploring the psychology behi...
Don’t Say It 3 Times! Revisiting Beetlejuice, the Cult Classic
In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Tanya and Erin venture into the bizarre, iconic world of Beetlejuice (1988), Tim Burton’s cult classic starring Michael Keaton, Winona Ryder, Catherine O’Hara, Alec Baldwin, and Gee...
That’s My Boy: Adam Sandler, Stupid Humor, and the Effects of Trauma
In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya dive into That's My Boy, one of Adam Sandler’s most controversial and over-the-top comedies.On the surface, the film leans hard into intentionally stupid...
Man-Child in the Classroom:Billy Madison's Tenure
In this episode, we revisit Billy Madison through a psychological lens, exploring what happens when emotional growth lags far behind chronological age. While Billy is technically repeating grades, he’s also emotionally regres...
The Psychology of Hallmark Movies: Why We Keep Coming Back for Comfort, Predictability, and Hope
Why are Hallmark movies so comforting—and why do so many of us come back to them again and again?In this re-released episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we dig into the psychology behind Hallmark movies and explore what m...
Stand By Me (1986): Why This Coming-of-Age Story Still Hurts (in the Best Way)
In this rereleased episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, hosts Tanya and Erin revisit the 1986 classic Stand By Me—a film that continues to shape how we understand friendship, growing up, and emotional resilience.Thr...
Why Adam Sandler Movies Work: The Psychology of Grown Ups 2
This week we slip into Adam Sandler’s middle era — the years where comedy meets identity, family meets frat boys, and basketball shorts somehow become a personality trait. We’re not reviewing Grown Ups 2 as much as using it as a gateway into Sa...
Stay Gold: The Psychology of Belonging and Survival in The Outsiders
This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya break down the emotional heartbeat of The Outsiders — a story about loyalty, grief, and the desperate need to belong. We dig into the psychology behind Ponyboy, Johnny, and the Gr...
Good, Evil, and Daddy Issues: A Little Nicky Therapy Session
This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya dive into the hellishly funny world of Little Nicky — Adam Sandler’s misunderstood son of Satan. We’re unpacking family dynamics from the underworld, sibling rivalry that could li...
Hubie Halloween-Protecting Salem one Thermos at a Time
This week on Wicked Psychotherapists, Erin and Tanya are heading to Salem for a wicked good time with Adam Sandler’s Hubie Halloween 🎃We break down all the laughs, the heart, and the surprisingly deep psychological layers behind this mis...
Breast Cancer: A Psychotherapist's Story
In this re-release of a powerful episode, Erin is interviewed by Tanya about her journey with breast cancer. Erin shares how the diagnosis and treatment affected her emotionally, how it shaped her perspective as a psychotherapist, a...
High School & Beyond: How Those Years Shape Us as Adults (Re-Release)
This episode is a re-release of one of our most popular conversations! Tanya and Erin dive into the world of high school, reflecting on how those formative years shaped who we are as adults. From discovering your identi...
Just Go With It (2011) | Psychology of Love, Lies,Pretending
Join Tanya and Erin on Wicked Psychotherapists as they break down the romantic comedy Just Go With It (2011). From surprise streaming finds to the hilarious (and sometimes outrageous) twists in Adam Sandler and Jen...
Beyond Loss: Exploring the Lesser-Known Griefs
We all know grief after death or major loss—but what about the other kinds of grief we rarely name? In this re-release of one of our most powerful episodes, Erin and Tanya explore the hidden and lesser-known griefs that quietly shape o...
FUBAR: Season One Re-Release | The Wicked Psychotherapists
Season One of The Wicked Psychotherapists is back—raw, unfiltered, and totally FUBAR. Join licensed psychotherapists Erin Gray and Tanya Dos Santos as they unpack the chaos of life, relationships, and mental health with the...
The Balloon Boy Saga: Fact or Fiction?
Dive into the captivating world of the Balloon Boy Hoax with Tanya and Erin. In this episode, they unravel the layers of this sensational event that gripped global audiences in 2009. Explore the Heaney family's eccentric...
Exploring Adam Sandler’s Murder Mysteries
In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, Tanya and Erin continue dissecting Adam Sandler's filmography by diving into his recent movies 'Murder Mystery' and 'Murder Mystery 2' on Netflix. They discuss the evolution of Sandler's c...
Happy Gilmore 2 (Netflix Review) | We React to Adam Sandler’s Sequel
We react to Happy Gilmore 2 — the surprise Netflix hit!*There Are Spoilers*Adam Sandler is back as Happy in Happy Gilmore 2 — and we’re reacting to Netflix’s wild new sequel. From over-the-top golf chaos to surp...
From Surviving Middle School to Grown Ups: Friendship, Nostalgia & Adam Sandler
In this episode of Wicked Psychotherapists, we dive into Adam Sandler’s Grown Ups and dig into the psychology behind nostalgia, childhood friendships, and the lifelong patterns we carry into adulthood. From the Gen...