The Addiction to Momentum_ Why Some Churches Cant Stop Running

Church leaders often confuse constant motion with progress, using momentum to mask deeper issues that need addressing. Slowing down isn't failure—it's a faithful choice that allows space for healing, growth, and sustainable ministry that Jesus himself modeled.

• Momentum feels like growth but can actually be directionless motion
• Constant activity often hides anxiety, unhealed trauma, or unresolved conflict
• Churches fear pausing because silence might surface pain or inadequacies
• Warning signs include always saying "we don't have time," launching new programs without evaluating old ones, and postponing conflict resolution
• Healthy solutions include canceling one thing without replacing it, processing unresolved issues, and teaching congregation why slower seasons are spiritually valuable
• The goal isn't less impact but deeper health—healthy churches grow stronger, not just faster

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Transcript

Is your church addicted to momentum?

Speaker 1 0:09

Is your church addicted to momentum ? Why do some churches seem absolutely incapable of slowing down ? The foot is always on the gas all the way to the floor . But behind the polished cameras and calendars and packed programming lies a deeper issue a lot of times , and it's this addiction to momentum . And today on the podcast , we're going to explore why some church leaders stay in constant motion and why it might be costing in their health and their team and in their congregation . So if your church feels like it's always going , doing , but never stopping to breathe or reflect or to heal , today's podcast is for you , because we're going to talk about the subtle signs of ministry burnout , the hidden wounds that we avoid , and how we might be slowing down , how slowing down might actually be the most courageous leadership move you could make for the next quarter anyway . All right , thanks for joining me today .

Speaker 1 1:10

My name is Todd Rhodes , one of the co-founders over

Momentum feels like growth

Speaker 1 1:13

at chemistrystaffingcom , and I'm your host right here on the Healthy Church Staff Podcast . What if your church ? What if the reason your church can't stop running is because stopping would force you to face what's broken ? It's easy to stay busy , it feels really productive . But is all that momentum really masking something deeper , and I think in some churches it is , and today I'm going to try and unpack for you why some churches , I think , need motion to avoid emotion and what to do if it's your church , so stick around , because we're going to talk about the healthiest move your church might make this year Could just be to slow down .

Speaker 1 1:53

All right , let's talk about momentum just for a second . Okay , momentum , it feels like growth . Okay , break it all down . That's really the bottom line . Okay , break it all down . That's really the bottom line . Our busyness , our momentum feels like growth , but it isn't always Because , if we're honest , momentum can feel like success . People are showing up , the events are happening , the calendars are packed , but there's a danger with all of that too . Not all movement is progress , and sometimes momentum is not just motion . It's motion without any kind of direction or intention .

Speaker 1 2:30

And in ministry , momentum , this movement , can also be like a drug . It keeps us from sitting in silence , it keeps us from asking hard questions or naming brokenness . And sometimes , sometimes , momentum , you keep going and going and you never see where you've gone off the rails . And you keep going and going and pretty soon you've got a train wreck because , like I said , sticking with that analogy somewhere along the line , and all that momentum , you went off the rails and you never corrected . So have you ever felt like slowing down , never corrected . So have you ever felt like slowing down might make the wheels fall off ? That could be a symptom that your church might be addicted to momentum , because churches that are addicted to momentum often fear any kind of pause because that silence is going to surface some pain or inadequacies .

Motion as a coping mechanism

Speaker 1 3:22

Okay , so when anxiety , when activity , a lot of times when there's a lot of activity , it can hide that anxiety . So there's often maybe some unhealed trauma behind the relentless pace that we keep . So maybe your church has gone through a split , maybe there was a moral failure , maybe things just feel a little fragile and churches go through struggles and conflict and even moral failures quite often , more often than what we'd like to admit . But if your first reaction when something like that happens is just to keep your head down and barrel 90 miles an hour faster , that is probably not the right thing to do , because instead of processing or grieving or healing , we just think we got to keep going . We got to keep going , we got to launch another initiative and we're going to pivot . We're going to chase what's next and we never take the time to sit in our silence and mourn and heal . The anxiety is not going to go away . It just gets buried deeper and deeper . And you can't preach peace while you're operating from panic . Sure , you can put on a good front , but that panic is going to surface at some point .

Speaker 1 4:42

What I'm really trying to say here is that this constant motion , this movement , this constant , we got to charge the next hill all the time . I'm all for charging hills , matter of fact . I can't be a part of an organization or a church that doesn't have a couple of hills that they're trying to climb right . But that constant motion , the never-ending motion , is often a coping mechanism and burnout is just around the corner . It's the body eventually saying it could be your body , it could be the church body as a whole just saying eventually I can't take it anymore , I can't take the stress anymore .

Speaker 1 5:21

So what I'm encouraging you to do is it's okay to slow down . It's okay to slow down . It forces us to face some of the uncomfortable truths and stop . It helps us to expose things that really need to be exposed . It will expose unresolved conflict . It will expose unhealthy systems . It will reveal the real conversations that we've been avoiding . Are all of these things that we want to tackle ? No , is that part of the reason why we keep going and going ? Yes , but we gotta stop . This can't continue . Somebody's gotta fall off the merry-go-round sooner or later , and usually when they fall off , it's not pretty . There's no wonder we keep moving . That stillness , that slowness , that pause in the motion , the forward moving motion , the pause , and having our foot on the accelerator it feels dangerous

Signs of momentum addiction

Speaker 1 6:20

. But here's what I want to say to pastors and church leaders Slowing down for a season isn't failure , it's faith .

Speaker 1 6:29

Okay , jesus retreated , he Sabbathed , he said no , he walked when other people wanted him to run , and maybe your church honestly doesn't need another big initiative right now . Maybe you need a season of intentional stillness , and if that thought terrifies you , it's probably exactly where God wants you to work . So let me talk quickly , going a little long today , but that's okay , because this is important Signs that you might be addicted to this momentum . Okay , let me give you some warning signs . We don't have time , for that is your team's favorite phrase . You'll launch new programs without evaluating old ones . Maybe there's conflict that keeps being postponed until after this next big thing happens . Maybe rest is seen as a reward , not a rhythm , and if I just get through this , then I can take a little bit of rest , but you never are able actually to do it . Maybe you're more impressed by hustle than health .

Speaker 1 7:26

These aren't just red flags , and it doesn't mean you're a bad leader if you have some of this going on in your team . It means that you're human . But honestly , the longer we ignore some of these red flags , the louder the crash is going to be when the momentum finally stops on its own Because I've learned this in ministry over 30 years that momentum will stop . There are ebbs and flows to momentum and you love to have the momentum , but you can't control the momentum . You can manufacture the momentum sometimes , and sometimes it's a work of God and that momentum keeps going , but eventually that momentum will stop and you don't want to be there for the crash when it does .

Speaker 1 8:09

So what could it look

How to pause without falling apart

Speaker 1 8:10

like to pause without totally falling apart ? You don't have to shut everything down . I'm not asking you to do that . What I'm asking you to do is just slow down . Maybe you just need to cancel one thing this month and don't replace it . Maybe you need to process that unresolved issue with your team that keeps getting tiptoed around . Maybe you need to ask your staff what they really need right now , with your team that keeps getting tiptoed around . Maybe you need to ask your staff what they really need right now . Maybe you need to teach your people why a slower season is actually a spiritual decision . This isn't weakness , it's wisdom , and the goal isn't less impact , it's deeper health , because healthy churches grow stronger , not just faster .

Speaker 1 8:48

All right , so here's the bottom line for you . I'd love for you to take away today what's one thing that you can slow down on before something breaks ? That's really your next step . Don't miss that . Again . Here's the question what's one thing that you can slow down this month before something breaks ? And if you're constantly chasing momentum and movement and don't take time to get healthy , bad things will happen . Bad things do happen when you've always got your foot on the gas . Hopefully , this has been a little bit of a warning for you , and if there's something that kind of resulted as a result of you listening or watching this podcast today , I'd love to hear from you . Reach out to me anytime personally . Podcast at chemistry staffing today . I'd love to hear from you . Reach out to me anytime personally . Podcast at chemistrystaffingcom . I would love to hear from you .

Episode closing and next steps

Speaker 1 9:35

All right , we will be back here again on Monday . We're here every weekday right here on the Healthy Church Staff Podcast . I hope you'll join me again , you .