Ghosted, Gaslit, and Girl, Let's Talk About It (Dating Horror Stories)

Dating in 2025 feels like trying to win a game without knowing the rules — and honestly, we’re tired. This week on Big Sis Energy, we’re spilling all the wild dating stories, decoding the mixed signals, and reminding you that being ghosted or gaslit says way more about them than it does about you.

From awkward first dates to being ghosted, and we’re getting real about what it’s like navigating the modern dating world — especially in cities like L.A. where dating is basically an Olympic sport.
In this episode, we’ll talk about:
• Dating app horror stories, and surviving the L.A. dating scene
• Best and worst first date experiences (spoiler: some are straight-up movie plots)
• Ghosting: Wild stories from us + listeners, and how to actually handle it
• Gaslighting 101: Classic red flag phrases to watch out for
• Mixed Signals: Are we ignoring signs or just overthinking?


Plus:
• GAME TIME: Ghosted, Gaslit, or Just Clueless? (Listeners sent in messy dating stories — we’re deciding if it’s a ghosting, gaslighting, or just pure confusion moment)
• HELP A SIS OUT: Advice segment where we unpack a messy situationship involving secret dating, ghosting, and a guy who’s still inconsistent even after becoming “single.” (Girl, let’s talk.)

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