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How to stop dressing for approval—and start dressing for yourself.

Katy Rayne

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Most of us have spent our entire lives dressing for everyone but ourselves.
Parents telling us what's ‘appropriate.’
Partners hinting at what they like or don’t like.
Coworkers, friends, random strangers on the street.
Even that one aunt who always gave you the side-eye if you wore anything remotely fun, sexy, or bold.
And over time, it conditions us.
We start asking ourselves, without even realizing it:
Is this too much?
 Will they take me seriously?
 Will they think I’m attention-seeking?
 Sound familiar?
 And listen — it’s not your fault.
 This world LOVES to control women through shame, especially around our bodies and how we present them.
 But just because we were taught that... doesn’t mean we have to keep living that way.


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This channel is made up of uncensored conversations so that we can normalize talking about ALL THE THINGS, self-indulgence, sex & relationships, SMUT, luxury, and so much more. To openly discuss what hasn’t been “allowed” to talk about in either your family, circle of friends, or place of worship.

This came about because I see so much insecurity in women and I want to show that you aren’t alone in any of this.


XXX0,
Katy